alright so my boyfriend and i have only been dating a week but i really really like him and we're going on a group date saturday night we're going to the movies. he told his friend who told me that he really wants to kiss me. i want to kiss him too ! but, this sounds stupid, but idk what to do. hes had some experience with girls and kissing and stuff, but hes my first boyfriend. when we first hugged, i messed it up, ya ik how do u mess up a hug? well idk but i did... so how the heck am i gonna do well on my first kiss ! i dont wanna embarrass myself ! so DETAILED advice on how to kiss. not make out or anything. just a kiss. please !
and also, at first, he was really super sweet and he texted me allll the time and stuff but now, its only been a week, but now it seems at times like he doesnt care as much anymore ! how do i make sure he knows i love him and keep him from not liking me anymore? thanks so much!
xoxo
p.s. im in 8th grade 14 years old. thanksAny advice for my first boyfriend, first date, and possibly first kiss?
use one of your girlfriends to practice and be a paris hilton about it.Any advice for my first boyfriend, first date, and possibly first kiss?
Aww! Well don't worry about the love stuff, remember, it's only been a week. If you guys do end up kissing, don't worry about it. It comes naturally. Because of your age, just keep your mouth SHUT the whole time lol. But don't think because you guys don't kiss means that you are a ';bad girlfriend'; and you break up. It only means he's an ***, so don't put yourself out so much.
Good luck!!! =D
Be yourself. Don't go overboard with your looks and stuff - remember, he liked you for who you are in the first place. Try not to be nervous either.
As for the kiss, if it's going to happen, just let it. No one can really advise you how to kiss - it just, well, happens! You'll be fine. Of course, make sure your breath is good, but I am sure you know that, lol.
Good luck!
kissing is natural..you just know what to do and if he likes you then he wont mind if you mess up a bit
the only way to get better is to practice.
ps are you sure you should be telling him you love him after a week? i think thats a bit soon to know how you really feel...you should trust him, you dont need to make him stop likeing you,, just talk to him about it.
good luck x
I know what you mean it is hard to coordinate all the body parts when first hugging and kissing
you need to grab his face in your hands and point him at your face tell him I really want to kiss you and do not know how to kiss then tilt your face and pucker up
big piece of advice is NEVER say you love someone a week into a relationship. When you really do truely love someone and they break you... they break you hard no matter how long youve been together. Its a completely different kind of pain that i would never wish on anyone.
oh good lord, CALM DOWN.
you're only 14 years old.
you don't love him after a week, you're a teenager!!!
just pucker your lips and aim for his lips.
Ok, if this is your first kiss it's alright to be nervous.
I know this sounds silly but practice on a doll. LOL
Remember don't do it if your not ready.
Hope all goes well!
mesteph1996
you cant love him after a week. dont scare him off. but as for the kissing thing, it comes naturally
First off. Let him make the first move for the kiss but let him know you want it by giving him time to or leaning in as if you were to make the first move but let him finish it. It makes it easier so you won't be embarrassed.
Guys are like rubber bands by nature.
Guys will be really close to you for a period of time and then pull away for a while to find their independence again but once they get to one point in time. As far as the rubber band stretches they will miss you again and come back and be as loving as they were before. You'll have to be patient and try not to be really immature and think they don't love you. Just give them their male space that they are all hardwired for and they will come back no worries. And he knows you love him.
This is so adorable, I must say... I have a daughter, and I think her first kiss was when she was in the 7th grade. First off, don't put too much pressure on yourself. He's in the same boat you are, and no matter how many girls he's kissed, if he hasn't kissed you yet it's because he's nervous too. When it's the right time, and you will both know it, look into his eyes, start by getting closer and closer kinda slowly, and at the last moment tilt your head slightly to your right, and close your eyes and let it happen. It will be just fine. Stop worrying about love though, your still a kid, and well you'll have plenty of time for that. Right now, and in highschool and college it's like practice for when you're ready to settle down. Don't rush anything, have a sweet life, and good luck on the first kiss.
for the first kiss, just keep your eyes open UNTIL you touch his lips this way you know what to doat the right time, like puker up and whitch way to turn your head.
for te whole likeing thing, just tell him in person. hug him and while your holding him tell him that you love him so much and hug him again!!
it works, trust me =]
im in 8th grade and im 13 i had my first kiss in 6th, but what i told you works. trust me on this!
Friday, January 8, 2010
Relationship advice, should I still try and date a girl that wants to sleep with other people?
Ok so I started sleeping with my roommate after she got of a 6 year relationship. I have had feelings for her before but at the time she did not know of this. I comforted her with my feelings and she stated that she was not ready for a relationship and that I don't meet some of her standards such as confidence and social, or being open. So I made a effort to display I can do these.
Now during sex we say we love each other but she does not do it after , and a old friend visited that she wanted to sleep with but didn't at the time but made out with him for 3 days straight. Now she is going to go visit him and stated she is going to sleep with him to get the ';sexual frustration'; over with and just be friends with him.
When she gets back stated she wold still sleep with me because she gets lonely.
So should I just bit my tongue and let her sleep with this other guy and continue my effort to date her as I do have deep feelings for?Relationship advice, should I still try and date a girl that wants to sleep with other people?
well if you don't mind being 2nd best and won't get attached to her emotionally then go for it use her and she'll use you. but if you fall for females fast and hard and would like a relationship with her where you're the only man then no you shouldn't cuz you'll just be asking for your heart to get broken. it doesn't look like she'll be wanting to settle down any time soon after being with someone for 6 years.Relationship advice, should I still try and date a girl that wants to sleep with other people?
be careful. she could have STDs if she's sleeping with other people.
If you are ok with it, fine. If not, then no. Of course, you could invite her to bring her friend along and you all get together. That is a whole new kind of fun!
No
Now during sex we say we love each other but she does not do it after , and a old friend visited that she wanted to sleep with but didn't at the time but made out with him for 3 days straight. Now she is going to go visit him and stated she is going to sleep with him to get the ';sexual frustration'; over with and just be friends with him.
When she gets back stated she wold still sleep with me because she gets lonely.
So should I just bit my tongue and let her sleep with this other guy and continue my effort to date her as I do have deep feelings for?Relationship advice, should I still try and date a girl that wants to sleep with other people?
well if you don't mind being 2nd best and won't get attached to her emotionally then go for it use her and she'll use you. but if you fall for females fast and hard and would like a relationship with her where you're the only man then no you shouldn't cuz you'll just be asking for your heart to get broken. it doesn't look like she'll be wanting to settle down any time soon after being with someone for 6 years.Relationship advice, should I still try and date a girl that wants to sleep with other people?
be careful. she could have STDs if she's sleeping with other people.
If you are ok with it, fine. If not, then no. Of course, you could invite her to bring her friend along and you all get together. That is a whole new kind of fun!
No
Any advice for me on a first date?
At work the other day I was outside having a smoke and there were a couple of guys out there for a break too. I had seen them the week before and they made a joke about how it was the no smoking area or something. They are guys hired by my company to do renovations so I guess I dont technically work with them. When I saw them again I was talking with my friend and she had to go in before I did. But we were all enjoying a nice conversation. The 2 guys and I were walking down the hall once we were done outside. And the ';cute'; one was asking me what I did for the company and I asked the same. Then out of no where he asks if Im busy this weekend and would I like to get together. He gives me his # before I have a chance to give him mine, and it kinda seemed like he was nervous/shaky a little. I though it was cute, and I said I would talk to him soon. I decided I would wait 2 days to call him which is today. Now Im kinda freakin out. I haven't been on a first date in abour 4 years. Im 26 and he seems early 30's to me. I was planning on seeing a band at a town festival and I didn't know if it was appropriate/ a good idea to invite him to that, or if I should let him decide what were doing. On top of that Im not great at reading men in general, is the nervousness thing good, bad, indifferent? I don't usually get good looking men wanting to go out with me, although I myself am good looking. Its usually people who freak me out that want to talk to me. I know Im over thinking this, but I was in a relationship for a long time with someone and I know Im ready to be out there and meet someone great, Im just a little rusty. What I keep running over is what all his actions meant, what do i wear, how forceful should I be in the planning, and how much of myself do I really show on a first date. Im pretty much a tomboy at heart who likes to dress up and look pretty and do girly things but ';boy'; things as well. I like beer and baseball, but gossip magazines and clothes. Any advice for me men and women out there?Any advice for me on a first date?
You will be fine!!!! Go out, have fun and enjoy his company! Wing it if you guys have to... sometimes they make the best dates! Be yourself, be honest and time will tell. Good luck!how to apply
You will be fine!!!! Go out, have fun and enjoy his company! Wing it if you guys have to... sometimes they make the best dates! Be yourself, be honest and time will tell. Good luck!
Does anyone of you know any good teenage dating advice websites?
Yahoo! Answers.Does anyone of you know any good teenage dating advice websites?
links2love.com is really goodDoes anyone of you know any good teenage dating advice websites?
yeah, yahoo answers where your asking a question right now.
links2love.com is really goodDoes anyone of you know any good teenage dating advice websites?
yeah, yahoo answers where your asking a question right now.
I have a date for tommorow! Going cinema with her and i'm scared as hell!!! Advice?
I've met her once before when I used to date her friend. Now me and her friend are no longer together seems she likes me. So I asked her to cinema with me tommorow and boy am I scared! I know i'll do something stupid to put her off me! Im freaking out! Any advice besides be yourself because being myself envolves freaking out!I have a date for tommorow! Going cinema with her and i'm scared as hell!!! Advice?
Be yourself. Pay for the girl. Don't try to be controling or anything. JUST HAVE FUNI have a date for tommorow! Going cinema with her and i'm scared as hell!!! Advice?
What are you so afraid of? If she likes you, you get laid and then she takes all your money and breaks your heart; if she doesn't like you, you get dumped and have to go through the charade until you find one that screws you, takes your money, breaks your heart and then dumps you...lol
Don't worry and don't freak out! Thats the worst you could do, just take a deep breathe and chill out cuz evrything will b fine! Just don't be too anxious and don't freak her out.
Chances are is that she's nervous to. Just chill and ask yourself, ';What's the worst that can happen?'; Worst case scenerio is that you guys won't like each other and if so, who cares?
Just dont act stupid and dont try to impress her!
Be yourself but DO NOT freak out
Nothing bad can happen from you going on a date w/ her
just be yourself
smell good just not strongly and sit close to her
be a gentleman
Seeing a movie together seats you next to each other with both of your attention focused elsewhere. In addition to the movie stop somewhere nice for coffee or dessert, so you actually have time to talk to each other.
Hey.. well im only 13 so i dont really know alot lol plus i dont listen at skool =P
Anyway... just talk 2 her about both o your interests and gradually move closer to her if you feel its going okay and then put your arm around her.
Im sure youll be great as you sound like the type of guy thats cool.
Good Luck!
Anna xxx
Be yourself. Pay for the girl. Don't try to be controling or anything. JUST HAVE FUNI have a date for tommorow! Going cinema with her and i'm scared as hell!!! Advice?
What are you so afraid of? If she likes you, you get laid and then she takes all your money and breaks your heart; if she doesn't like you, you get dumped and have to go through the charade until you find one that screws you, takes your money, breaks your heart and then dumps you...lol
Don't worry and don't freak out! Thats the worst you could do, just take a deep breathe and chill out cuz evrything will b fine! Just don't be too anxious and don't freak her out.
Chances are is that she's nervous to. Just chill and ask yourself, ';What's the worst that can happen?'; Worst case scenerio is that you guys won't like each other and if so, who cares?
Just dont act stupid and dont try to impress her!
Be yourself but DO NOT freak out
Nothing bad can happen from you going on a date w/ her
just be yourself
smell good just not strongly and sit close to her
be a gentleman
Seeing a movie together seats you next to each other with both of your attention focused elsewhere. In addition to the movie stop somewhere nice for coffee or dessert, so you actually have time to talk to each other.
Hey.. well im only 13 so i dont really know alot lol plus i dont listen at skool =P
Anyway... just talk 2 her about both o your interests and gradually move closer to her if you feel its going okay and then put your arm around her.
Im sure youll be great as you sound like the type of guy thats cool.
Good Luck!
Anna xxx
I'm looking for a Valentine's date. I like this one girl, but anticipate that she has a boyfriend. Advice?
Well...before anything...find out from other people if she has a boyfriend or not. Once you find out your answer...then it's up to you to make a move!! Either:
1) she is single...so ask her to be your valentine...or
2) she has a boyfriend...remain mutual friends with her!!
Good luck!! :]I'm looking for a Valentine's date. I like this one girl, but anticipate that she has a boyfriend. Advice?
Don't anticipate. Go for it! You never know, even if she does have one, maybe you'll end up being sweeter to her than he is. What have you got to lose? Good luck with her.
1) she is single...so ask her to be your valentine...or
2) she has a boyfriend...remain mutual friends with her!!
Good luck!! :]I'm looking for a Valentine's date. I like this one girl, but anticipate that she has a boyfriend. Advice?
Don't anticipate. Go for it! You never know, even if she does have one, maybe you'll end up being sweeter to her than he is. What have you got to lose? Good luck with her.
HOW can i locate somebody in the usa,i need they date of birth i have some details but need advice please?
i have a name, a year of birth, they emaill add, the city and state he lives in but i still cant actully find him, he was born outside usa, but lived since 1974, i have he last address and number but i dont want him to no i looking for him , i really need d.o.bHOW can i locate somebody in the usa,i need they date of birth i have some details but need advice please?
myspace........HOW can i locate somebody in the usa,i need they date of birth i have some details but need advice please?
Souds fishy to me - I don't help anyone that sounds like they may be up to something illegal.
That's really creepy why are you tracking him down?
myspace........HOW can i locate somebody in the usa,i need they date of birth i have some details but need advice please?
Souds fishy to me - I don't help anyone that sounds like they may be up to something illegal.
That's really creepy why are you tracking him down?
Advice on my two year anniversary date!?
Hello!
My boyfriend and I are celebrating our two year anniversary in only a couple weeks, and I'm not sure as to what we should do.
A couple friends of mine suggested going to some restaurant's that are super pricey, but I'd rather go to one that is nicer than our usual places and we can both eat dinner, have some alcoholic drinks, and dessert for $100 or less.
But then I'm not sure what I should do after. We recently bought a house together so we have our own privacy but I'm not sure what to do! I don't want to go home and watch a movie and be super boring!
Any advice would be great, thanks!Advice on my two year anniversary date!?
There's got to be places around town to hang out at. Aren't there nice neighborhoods to drive thru or walk? How about a play, museum, concert, going out to a movie, or a game? maybe exchange some small gifts.
My boyfriend and I are celebrating our two year anniversary in only a couple weeks, and I'm not sure as to what we should do.
A couple friends of mine suggested going to some restaurant's that are super pricey, but I'd rather go to one that is nicer than our usual places and we can both eat dinner, have some alcoholic drinks, and dessert for $100 or less.
But then I'm not sure what I should do after. We recently bought a house together so we have our own privacy but I'm not sure what to do! I don't want to go home and watch a movie and be super boring!
Any advice would be great, thanks!Advice on my two year anniversary date!?
There's got to be places around town to hang out at. Aren't there nice neighborhoods to drive thru or walk? How about a play, museum, concert, going out to a movie, or a game? maybe exchange some small gifts.
Need advice, I have been dating a girl that is pregnant ( I am not the father) for a couple weeks and?
She is 7 months pregnant and we had sex (which was weird, thank God I was drunk) can she get pregnant again?Need advice, I have been dating a girl that is pregnant ( I am not the father) for a couple weeks and?
No. She cannot get pregnant again. But it is weird that you had sex with someone who is pregnant with another man's baby. Kinda creepy actually.Need advice, I have been dating a girl that is pregnant ( I am not the father) for a couple weeks and?
Nope
No she cannot get pregnant if she is already pregnant.
i dont think she can but if she was drunnk too..thats bad lol
Silly, silly boy!
She can't concieve if she's already pregnant!
Dumb ***!how to apply
No. She cannot get pregnant again. But it is weird that you had sex with someone who is pregnant with another man's baby. Kinda creepy actually.Need advice, I have been dating a girl that is pregnant ( I am not the father) for a couple weeks and?
Nope
No she cannot get pregnant if she is already pregnant.
i dont think she can but if she was drunnk too..thats bad lol
Silly, silly boy!
She can't concieve if she's already pregnant!
Dumb ***!
Im a good looking guy in colorado that is single but have almost no dates any advice from girls out there?
Start asking! I was asked out a few weeks ago in a way that really impressed me. I work in retail, and I was helping a guy about my age find a pillow. He was laying on the floor to try them out, and we ended up cracking up laughing about how silly he looked. When he found one he liked, he came right out and said ';Now that you know how crazy I am, can I buy you dinner?'; We didn't even know each others names yet! Turns out we didn't have a lot in common, but I was so impressed by the way he just asked me.
Give it a try! Next time you have a little 'moment' with the girl at the coffee shop, a sales clerk, or even someone you strike up a conversation with standing in line, go ahead and ask! The worst that could happen is that she'll say no. But I'll tell you what- even if she does, I can guarantee that you'll make her day by asking!Im a good looking guy in colorado that is single but have almost no dates any advice from girls out there?
Look to your both sides. You'll see what youre looking for.
or maybe your standard is to high, there's no such as ms.Right.
and choose to hang out to girls who almost hated you. why? because there's no sweetums effect and there's a challege. And there's an argument. if there's an argument there is an conversation (sometimes tell her that maybe, she's right, next topic.), if there's a conversation, there's a bound, and if there's a bound, your in a roll. You get what im trying to say? it's not all about the looks! you can improve your communication skills. Im a good looking guy in colorado that is single but have almost no dates any advice from girls out there?
Keep doing what you're doing. Do what you love and love what you do. Sooner or later a woman will see you enjoying yourself and want to join your life.
Trust me....we have a sharp radar for guys like that ;-)
edit: OMG ppl, have you even read his question?! He said he's a GUY not that he's looking for a guy. He also didn't ask for a date but for advice on why he gets none! wowww.
Get out of Colorado. bunch of tree hugging hippies if you ask me. move to Texas.
or
First comes the money
Then comes the power
Finnaly comes the woman chico
Well maybe Colorado isn't right for you, try starting a new life somewhere else. Get to know your neighbours and you might get lucky Hope this helps xx
your looking for a guy and your avatar is a guy? are u gay?
don';t be looking online babe
Give it a try! Next time you have a little 'moment' with the girl at the coffee shop, a sales clerk, or even someone you strike up a conversation with standing in line, go ahead and ask! The worst that could happen is that she'll say no. But I'll tell you what- even if she does, I can guarantee that you'll make her day by asking!Im a good looking guy in colorado that is single but have almost no dates any advice from girls out there?
Look to your both sides. You'll see what youre looking for.
or maybe your standard is to high, there's no such as ms.Right.
and choose to hang out to girls who almost hated you. why? because there's no sweetums effect and there's a challege. And there's an argument. if there's an argument there is an conversation (sometimes tell her that maybe, she's right, next topic.), if there's a conversation, there's a bound, and if there's a bound, your in a roll. You get what im trying to say? it's not all about the looks! you can improve your communication skills. Im a good looking guy in colorado that is single but have almost no dates any advice from girls out there?
Keep doing what you're doing. Do what you love and love what you do. Sooner or later a woman will see you enjoying yourself and want to join your life.
Trust me....we have a sharp radar for guys like that ;-)
edit: OMG ppl, have you even read his question?! He said he's a GUY not that he's looking for a guy. He also didn't ask for a date but for advice on why he gets none! wowww.
Get out of Colorado. bunch of tree hugging hippies if you ask me. move to Texas.
or
First comes the money
Then comes the power
Finnaly comes the woman chico
Well maybe Colorado isn't right for you, try starting a new life somewhere else. Get to know your neighbours and you might get lucky Hope this helps xx
your looking for a guy and your avatar is a guy? are u gay?
don';t be looking online babe
Is it smarter to take dating advice from your peers, parents, Dr Phil types, or dating forums?
Pick one and tell me why it's the most important.Is it smarter to take dating advice from your peers, parents, Dr Phil types, or dating forums?
Peers who have been similar experiences like yours because dating forums are loosely based, Dr. Phil types break you down, and parents are not always close to you (Generational gaps).Is it smarter to take dating advice from your peers, parents, Dr Phil types, or dating forums?
I believe it's best to accept dating advice from a good friend. Make sure this is someone you trust completely so they don't have ulterior motives. If they have your best intrest in mind they will be completely honest %26amp; supportive of you.
In general, go with your gut! Your instincts are key to living. You may make mistakes, but you will learn %26amp; grow from them. Remember, be confident without being cocky. A great date talks AND listens. If you get nervous %26amp; clumsy, laugh at yourself. Don't take things too seriously %26amp; you'll have a great time!
friends. they know who you are and what you like and dislike. they're always there for you no matter the situation and will truthfully tell you what they think. and they care about you and its all in your best intrest
.i'd sat parents if you have a set that are sane and still together...they've been through what your just starting and can give you advice based on EXPERIENCE...
.......THEN go with your GUT- it's usually right.
take advice from them all just mix it up take some from your friends, parents, dr phil and the dating sigts they'll probably all help you out but in the end its you that makes the final desicison. GOOD LUCK!!!!
your older brother or sister could be better, if you don't have find someone you have friendly relation with and not jealous
Peers who have been similar experiences like yours because dating forums are loosely based, Dr. Phil types break you down, and parents are not always close to you (Generational gaps).Is it smarter to take dating advice from your peers, parents, Dr Phil types, or dating forums?
I believe it's best to accept dating advice from a good friend. Make sure this is someone you trust completely so they don't have ulterior motives. If they have your best intrest in mind they will be completely honest %26amp; supportive of you.
In general, go with your gut! Your instincts are key to living. You may make mistakes, but you will learn %26amp; grow from them. Remember, be confident without being cocky. A great date talks AND listens. If you get nervous %26amp; clumsy, laugh at yourself. Don't take things too seriously %26amp; you'll have a great time!
friends. they know who you are and what you like and dislike. they're always there for you no matter the situation and will truthfully tell you what they think. and they care about you and its all in your best intrest
.i'd sat parents if you have a set that are sane and still together...they've been through what your just starting and can give you advice based on EXPERIENCE...
.......THEN go with your GUT- it's usually right.
take advice from them all just mix it up take some from your friends, parents, dr phil and the dating sigts they'll probably all help you out but in the end its you that makes the final desicison. GOOD LUCK!!!!
your older brother or sister could be better, if you don't have find someone you have friendly relation with and not jealous
Any advice on how to get my parents to let me date?
im real close, i just need a little advice;;Any advice on how to get my parents to let me date?
Start off by asking if you can have the boy/girl come over for dinner.
Start off by asking if you can have the boy/girl come over for dinner.
Can anyone give me a good idea for a first date gift for a guy? Maybe even some advice?
I would like to make a good impression.Can anyone give me a good idea for a first date gift for a guy? Maybe even some advice?
If you know what kind of movies he likes, buy him a DVD and suggest you watch it together.
Don't spend too much money...it's only a first date and if it doesn't work out, you don't want an empty wallet and a broken heart!
Good luck!!!Can anyone give me a good idea for a first date gift for a guy? Maybe even some advice?
Why would you buy him a gift? If anything, he should get you something. (i.e. flowers, candy, etc)...but don't buy him something, he might find it weird or be turned off.
depends if your cheap or not.
no gifts on a first date!! they do that on those lame date shows on mtv and stuff, but dont really do it in person! just charm them with your personality...not gifts.
no need for a gift on a first date
something small. how about small thank you card. Keep it in your purse til the end of the date.
Other than that. Flirty and Fun. That's my date motto.
why would you buy a gift for a first date? that might be coming on a little too strong. just enjoy the date and be yourself, that will always make a good impression.
a movie or a perfume
Here's my advice: don't give a guy a gift on your first date. First of all, this is far from common practice. Second of all, if you do this for the first date, he'll come to expect it for any and all subsequent dates. And lastly, if you do this, you'll look desperate.
Just forget it.
No gift seriously he'll think your well...idk not for first date
no gifts on the first date especially if you don't know this guy very well
Are you a girl? Why are you getting him a gift? The gift is, you are going out with him...spending time with him. Just dress cute and have fun.
you must get to know what he likes. you could give him a keychain or a hanky.a complilation of his favorite music. but i must warn you, since it is your first date with him. if ever he doesn't prepare any simple gift for you, better keep your gift on your bag. it's part of social etiquette.
A note from the doctor showing you've tested clean for any S.T.D.s. ;)
I don't think you need to worry about a gift on the first date. There will be plenty of other times where you can get him gifts, if you actually start dating. Let's just get past the awkwardness of the first date first...
make a good impression by looking nice not buying him gifts! its the first date!
I would'nt be giving a guy a gift on the first date(what for?)He will think you are too eager
Making a good impression won't be because you gave him the coolest gift. It will be because you made him feel important. Talk about HIM! This is good advice for both guys and gals. We all like to talk about ourselves but stop yourself and let him do the talking. Also be as relaxed as you can and realize that he's just as nervous as you are about making a good impression.
if you would like to make good impression just be yourself.
be you ..
that's what he/she love in you ;)
guys are suposed to give to girls so just be flirty and were something not horny but sexy
put a lot and a lot of perfumes in your body and ask him which kinds of perform does he fall for.
Nothing on the very first date. Be gracious and dress decently/ Depends on your age and his. wallet
bottle of after shave/cologne
a video or a movie
It depends on his age,religion,hobbies.
First talk and keep your ears and mind open for little hints But,NOT on the first date. Be nice and make a good impression. See what he's all about,and ,maybe after the 3rd or 4th date,then you could. Otherwise,he may end up taking advantage of you.
a ';first date gift'; -- where'd you get that idea? drop it.
First off you don't give an guy a gift on the first date you hardly even know him. All you have to worry about doing is looking sexy for this guy, that's his gift. Thank about it.
dont gifts for second and make it a funny date
why?
i suppose if you really want to buy him something, although i dont see why, it should be something comical, not too serious!
buy him a condom lol
nothing slushy or romantic, dont want to scare him off!
get him something silly!
home baked chocolate chip cookies
tickets to a sporting event maybe to use as the next date so not really like a gift :)
chocolate and or candy
No GIFTS!!!!!! Be your Beautiful self......Relax and have fun. NO SEX!!!!! Stay away from that......
Wear something sexy, that will be gift enuff for him:) lol
I think you know the best gift you can give a guy
If you know what kind of movies he likes, buy him a DVD and suggest you watch it together.
Don't spend too much money...it's only a first date and if it doesn't work out, you don't want an empty wallet and a broken heart!
Good luck!!!Can anyone give me a good idea for a first date gift for a guy? Maybe even some advice?
Why would you buy him a gift? If anything, he should get you something. (i.e. flowers, candy, etc)...but don't buy him something, he might find it weird or be turned off.
depends if your cheap or not.
no gifts on a first date!! they do that on those lame date shows on mtv and stuff, but dont really do it in person! just charm them with your personality...not gifts.
no need for a gift on a first date
something small. how about small thank you card. Keep it in your purse til the end of the date.
Other than that. Flirty and Fun. That's my date motto.
why would you buy a gift for a first date? that might be coming on a little too strong. just enjoy the date and be yourself, that will always make a good impression.
a movie or a perfume
Here's my advice: don't give a guy a gift on your first date. First of all, this is far from common practice. Second of all, if you do this for the first date, he'll come to expect it for any and all subsequent dates. And lastly, if you do this, you'll look desperate.
Just forget it.
No gift seriously he'll think your well...idk not for first date
no gifts on the first date especially if you don't know this guy very well
Are you a girl? Why are you getting him a gift? The gift is, you are going out with him...spending time with him. Just dress cute and have fun.
you must get to know what he likes. you could give him a keychain or a hanky.a complilation of his favorite music. but i must warn you, since it is your first date with him. if ever he doesn't prepare any simple gift for you, better keep your gift on your bag. it's part of social etiquette.
A note from the doctor showing you've tested clean for any S.T.D.s. ;)
I don't think you need to worry about a gift on the first date. There will be plenty of other times where you can get him gifts, if you actually start dating. Let's just get past the awkwardness of the first date first...
make a good impression by looking nice not buying him gifts! its the first date!
I would'nt be giving a guy a gift on the first date(what for?)He will think you are too eager
Making a good impression won't be because you gave him the coolest gift. It will be because you made him feel important. Talk about HIM! This is good advice for both guys and gals. We all like to talk about ourselves but stop yourself and let him do the talking. Also be as relaxed as you can and realize that he's just as nervous as you are about making a good impression.
if you would like to make good impression just be yourself.
be you ..
that's what he/she love in you ;)
guys are suposed to give to girls so just be flirty and were something not horny but sexy
put a lot and a lot of perfumes in your body and ask him which kinds of perform does he fall for.
Nothing on the very first date. Be gracious and dress decently/ Depends on your age and his. wallet
bottle of after shave/cologne
a video or a movie
It depends on his age,religion,hobbies.
First talk and keep your ears and mind open for little hints But,NOT on the first date. Be nice and make a good impression. See what he's all about,and ,maybe after the 3rd or 4th date,then you could. Otherwise,he may end up taking advantage of you.
a ';first date gift'; -- where'd you get that idea? drop it.
First off you don't give an guy a gift on the first date you hardly even know him. All you have to worry about doing is looking sexy for this guy, that's his gift. Thank about it.
dont gifts for second and make it a funny date
why?
i suppose if you really want to buy him something, although i dont see why, it should be something comical, not too serious!
buy him a condom lol
nothing slushy or romantic, dont want to scare him off!
get him something silly!
home baked chocolate chip cookies
tickets to a sporting event maybe to use as the next date so not really like a gift :)
chocolate and or candy
No GIFTS!!!!!! Be your Beautiful self......Relax and have fun. NO SEX!!!!! Stay away from that......
Wear something sexy, that will be gift enuff for him:) lol
I think you know the best gift you can give a guy
Is it smarter to take dating advice from your peers, parents, Dr Phil types, or dating forums?
Pick one and tell me why it's the most important.Is it smarter to take dating advice from your peers, parents, Dr Phil types, or dating forums?
take advice from all of them, Not every 1 person will have the same advice.
But people who are older have good advice, because they have been there and done that.Is it smarter to take dating advice from your peers, parents, Dr Phil types, or dating forums?
Parents, they are the best to talk to and they know it all because they have been there.
PARENT
take advice from all of them, Not every 1 person will have the same advice.
But people who are older have good advice, because they have been there and done that.Is it smarter to take dating advice from your peers, parents, Dr Phil types, or dating forums?
Parents, they are the best to talk to and they know it all because they have been there.
PARENT
First date! I'm scared and i need advice!!!?
ok im 13 and this guy i like told my best friend hes going to ask me out. I really like him and im going to say yes, but iv'e never been on a date before and im really nervous! I need some advice please from girls (and guys if you want)! Thanks soo much!!First date! I'm scared and i need advice!!!?
Be nice, laugh at his jokes, assure him that you are interested and make the best of every moment you have. ex.) if it starts raining and you two are getting soaked, then think of it as a joyous occasion and laugh and have fun. good luck, hope youre first date turns out better than mine. XDFirst date! I'm scared and i need advice!!!?
Well everyone gets nervous, it's natural. With a date the main thing to do is just be yourself. He likes you for you so all you need to do is be the person he likes which is you. If you actually go out somewhere bring some money just in case, and if you have a cellphone put it on vibrate but check it every few hours or so just in case ur parents call, if u get a phonecall from a friend just tell them ull call em later.. The best thing and advice is be you.
I know it's hard but just act confident even if you're not because he'll probably be feeling the same way and that'll help his nerves.
Also, just be yourself!
To be honest if I were your age (I'm fifteen and I'd STILL do this!) just make it a group date. Hang out with a bunch of his friends and yours.
It's much easier and you dont have to worry.
Instead of totally scared outta your brains then you're only gonna have an excited nervous-ness...
I really think you should do that.
There's no way you should put yourself through that.
Otherwise your opinion on dates will be bad and you wont look forward to one.
Just go with that you feel comfortable with.
But if you choose to go alone then just google first date tips or something.
You'll be okay :]
Hope I helped.
Guys like confident girls. If your not that confident its ok. Depending on the guy, he might like the fact that you are a little nervous. Laugh at his jokes cause guys like a gal with a sense of humor. Dress the part as well. Don't be too flashy but dress to impress. Don't be too clingy. Guys totally hate that. Be interested in what he has to say. If he talks to another hot chick then act uninterested in their conversation. Be yourself cause that is probably the main reason why he likes you. stay calm. It wont be that bad.
I know it's hard...but try not to be so nervous. Don't think of it as a date, just going to hang out with someone and getting to know them. When you're on the date, just be yourself. You don't want to change for anyone. Don't let things go any further than maybe a quick kiss either. Above all, just try to have fun and enjoy the company of the person you're with. Good luck!
well, the type of advise depends on the type of guy. if he's a pervert, leave him alone(he'll try sumthing else wit u) but if he likes u 4 u the uhave 2 b ur self or he'll lose intrest but i suggest that u practice on sumone u don't like like a bf and just run it like the practice date. that's wat i did 4 my first date. also talk 2 a girl in ur family , they will know more than me ! ;-)))))))
You are only 13!
You don't need to be worrying about going on dates.
Just chill out, you shouldn't be stressing about this issue!
Dont worry about that, she is gay. haha. That was my shitty sister rose. this is liam now.
Well, ide say that if you just chill out and take it as it comes than it will turn out nicely. Dont stress. MY ADVICE IS BETTER!
ok since he`s ur best friend thats real gud he kno`s wat u like
but really try to impress im
make him go wow
make ur self lukk all pretty nd let someone do ur hair
nd just over wow him
nd don`t get nervous think of him wen u talk to him still like ur friend talk about watever nd don`t try to change ur personality
cuz u have to remeber why he like u in the first place
whatever or wherever he plans to take you, act like yourself. hold hands, kiss once in a while, ( tell him if your uncomfortable about public kissing or w.e. if he mentions it). and basically talk to him like u would talk to one of ur close buds, but with more passion. hope this helps somehow.
Act normal, dont stress..... The more you worry about it the worse it is going to be. He likes you for your personality, so show him more of what he likes about you....Hope all goes well
Everyone gets nervous on their first date don't worry relax and have fun because he likes you for who you are.
Don't worry its like going somewhere with a guy friend just be yourself
((you probly hat to hear that))
ha coulda just watched disney channel but i didnt know what to say (:
Just look cute, be nice to him, be interested in what he says, and most important... BE YOURSELF! gOod luck! :D
what exactly is the question?how to apply
Be nice, laugh at his jokes, assure him that you are interested and make the best of every moment you have. ex.) if it starts raining and you two are getting soaked, then think of it as a joyous occasion and laugh and have fun. good luck, hope youre first date turns out better than mine. XDFirst date! I'm scared and i need advice!!!?
Well everyone gets nervous, it's natural. With a date the main thing to do is just be yourself. He likes you for you so all you need to do is be the person he likes which is you. If you actually go out somewhere bring some money just in case, and if you have a cellphone put it on vibrate but check it every few hours or so just in case ur parents call, if u get a phonecall from a friend just tell them ull call em later.. The best thing and advice is be you.
I know it's hard but just act confident even if you're not because he'll probably be feeling the same way and that'll help his nerves.
Also, just be yourself!
To be honest if I were your age (I'm fifteen and I'd STILL do this!) just make it a group date. Hang out with a bunch of his friends and yours.
It's much easier and you dont have to worry.
Instead of totally scared outta your brains then you're only gonna have an excited nervous-ness...
I really think you should do that.
There's no way you should put yourself through that.
Otherwise your opinion on dates will be bad and you wont look forward to one.
Just go with that you feel comfortable with.
But if you choose to go alone then just google first date tips or something.
You'll be okay :]
Hope I helped.
Guys like confident girls. If your not that confident its ok. Depending on the guy, he might like the fact that you are a little nervous. Laugh at his jokes cause guys like a gal with a sense of humor. Dress the part as well. Don't be too flashy but dress to impress. Don't be too clingy. Guys totally hate that. Be interested in what he has to say. If he talks to another hot chick then act uninterested in their conversation. Be yourself cause that is probably the main reason why he likes you. stay calm. It wont be that bad.
I know it's hard...but try not to be so nervous. Don't think of it as a date, just going to hang out with someone and getting to know them. When you're on the date, just be yourself. You don't want to change for anyone. Don't let things go any further than maybe a quick kiss either. Above all, just try to have fun and enjoy the company of the person you're with. Good luck!
well, the type of advise depends on the type of guy. if he's a pervert, leave him alone(he'll try sumthing else wit u) but if he likes u 4 u the uhave 2 b ur self or he'll lose intrest but i suggest that u practice on sumone u don't like like a bf and just run it like the practice date. that's wat i did 4 my first date. also talk 2 a girl in ur family , they will know more than me ! ;-)))))))
You are only 13!
You don't need to be worrying about going on dates.
Just chill out, you shouldn't be stressing about this issue!
Dont worry about that, she is gay. haha. That was my shitty sister rose. this is liam now.
Well, ide say that if you just chill out and take it as it comes than it will turn out nicely. Dont stress. MY ADVICE IS BETTER!
ok since he`s ur best friend thats real gud he kno`s wat u like
but really try to impress im
make him go wow
make ur self lukk all pretty nd let someone do ur hair
nd just over wow him
nd don`t get nervous think of him wen u talk to him still like ur friend talk about watever nd don`t try to change ur personality
cuz u have to remeber why he like u in the first place
whatever or wherever he plans to take you, act like yourself. hold hands, kiss once in a while, ( tell him if your uncomfortable about public kissing or w.e. if he mentions it). and basically talk to him like u would talk to one of ur close buds, but with more passion. hope this helps somehow.
Act normal, dont stress..... The more you worry about it the worse it is going to be. He likes you for your personality, so show him more of what he likes about you....Hope all goes well
Everyone gets nervous on their first date don't worry relax and have fun because he likes you for who you are.
Don't worry its like going somewhere with a guy friend just be yourself
((you probly hat to hear that))
ha coulda just watched disney channel but i didnt know what to say (:
Just look cute, be nice to him, be interested in what he says, and most important... BE YOURSELF! gOod luck! :D
what exactly is the question?
Dating someone from a different school: advice/experience?
I like him, and there are signs he might like me back, but I only see him once or twice a week, we don't go to the same school, and we live about 20 minutes away from each other. Is a good relationship possible?Dating someone from a different school: advice/experience?
NO HE OKOK I SAY. DO YOU SEE HIM ON WEEKEND?????????????????????????????????鈥?YOU GUY TALK? DO YOU TOCH HIM BEFORE??????????????????????????????????鈥?LOVE YEADating someone from a different school: advice/experience?
Don't do it! Unless you don't mind having a cyber relationship.
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NO HE OKOK I SAY. DO YOU SEE HIM ON WEEKEND?????????????????????????????????鈥?YOU GUY TALK? DO YOU TOCH HIM BEFORE??????????????????????????????????鈥?LOVE YEADating someone from a different school: advice/experience?
Don't do it! Unless you don't mind having a cyber relationship.
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Is it safer just to date your farm animals instead of no good men??? Advice please!!?
My best friend has had a lot of bad luck in relationships. She has been used and mistreated by many men over the years. She loves hard and then winds up getting beaten up or either having her heart broken by no good men.
While we were out having lunch at our other friend's house we noticed that this one horse had his eye on her the entire day. He seemed very nice and truly interested in dating my best friend. Our other friend suggested hooking up her horse with my friend to see if they might be able to date and maybe even hit it off.
Should my best friend date a horse or should she continue to date men that abuse her??Is it safer just to date your farm animals instead of no good men??? Advice please!!?
I say first try lending your own personal collection of whips and chains to your friend and let her ';have her way'; with a couple of men to see if she can ';whip'; them into shape.
If that doesn't work, then I guess she could go out with the horse and see where it goes.Is it safer just to date your farm animals instead of no good men??? Advice please!!?
maybe instead of that she change the type of men she dates --- go to different places --- choose someone the opposite of those she has dated before --- while the horse may be a viable option i mean you just cant take them anywhere --- people are so judgemental
do you know what i think??%26gt; i think you are a drama queen who makes up stories everyday.i think you are sick, 1st of all a 17 year old wants to date you,(whom you dated but yet your married!!)
your sister wants to marry your blood brother (sick)
your son is in private school where beatings are allowed (i dont think so)
your boss made you strip b4 work (ok, anyone that goes along with it is nuts)
your sister is with an abusive b/f who is going to kill her,
your husband is beating your son
your cat talks!! (wel at least everyone knows that is made up!
the cat wants to babysit your kids ( at least everyone knows this is made up)
should you send your son to the mall naked,,,,
your 14 year old is an alcoholic who beats you, not to mention later on you hav a 15 year old who beats you ( to think i took you serious and told you about my brothers suicide which is true,)
you like violence dont you? either that or you just are so bored at home making al these stupid stories up violence, name caling you actually sound like the family from hell so glad i do not live next door to you, some people will actuall be going through some stuff your talking about. about time you grew up, if you have any problems how is any oe going to take you seriously, i think your the 15 year old boy who is just taking the P***
as for gasoline on your chicken pox!! blow your stupid questions up!!
i think that you will find the perfect man for you
keep looking !
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If you are single and have the time, please visit my site:
http://www.**************/go3.php
UR GF TENDS TO BE PICKING UP ALL THE BASTARDS BUT THATS NO REASON TO DO A HORSE THATS JUST SICK
in fact its fatasy
Obviously your friend doesn't choose her men well. Low self-esteem, perhaps? Thinks she can't live without a man? Perhaps once she learns that she can be just fine without one, she will find Mr. Right!
Men can be such pigs so why not try a horse and on the plus side horses really like whips and chains. I say go for it!
sure let her do it..arab men do it with sheep
can ride a horse for hours and they never complain or fall asleep
I have heard of this before, tijauna mexico,El Grande Cantina
your freind should see a therapist if she is thinking that there can be a relationship between a human and farm animals!
The girl who gave your friend the advice should be slugged!
Tell your friend to stop looking and start working on herself. She needs better self esteem if she really does keep picking losers and actually sees them more than once.
You're kidding, right??????
A horse???????
What's this world turning into? Soon, it'll be chickens, rodents and houseflies.............Is there any animal rights activist here????? If yes, they should do/say something fast.
did you hear about the girl that gave a horse a b.j and when the horse shot his load she drowned on it and died. Something she should consider.
i bet she was asking for it
While we were out having lunch at our other friend's house we noticed that this one horse had his eye on her the entire day. He seemed very nice and truly interested in dating my best friend. Our other friend suggested hooking up her horse with my friend to see if they might be able to date and maybe even hit it off.
Should my best friend date a horse or should she continue to date men that abuse her??Is it safer just to date your farm animals instead of no good men??? Advice please!!?
I say first try lending your own personal collection of whips and chains to your friend and let her ';have her way'; with a couple of men to see if she can ';whip'; them into shape.
If that doesn't work, then I guess she could go out with the horse and see where it goes.Is it safer just to date your farm animals instead of no good men??? Advice please!!?
maybe instead of that she change the type of men she dates --- go to different places --- choose someone the opposite of those she has dated before --- while the horse may be a viable option i mean you just cant take them anywhere --- people are so judgemental
do you know what i think??%26gt; i think you are a drama queen who makes up stories everyday.i think you are sick, 1st of all a 17 year old wants to date you,(whom you dated but yet your married!!)
your sister wants to marry your blood brother (sick)
your son is in private school where beatings are allowed (i dont think so)
your boss made you strip b4 work (ok, anyone that goes along with it is nuts)
your sister is with an abusive b/f who is going to kill her,
your husband is beating your son
your cat talks!! (wel at least everyone knows that is made up!
the cat wants to babysit your kids ( at least everyone knows this is made up)
should you send your son to the mall naked,,,,
your 14 year old is an alcoholic who beats you, not to mention later on you hav a 15 year old who beats you ( to think i took you serious and told you about my brothers suicide which is true,)
you like violence dont you? either that or you just are so bored at home making al these stupid stories up violence, name caling you actually sound like the family from hell so glad i do not live next door to you, some people will actuall be going through some stuff your talking about. about time you grew up, if you have any problems how is any oe going to take you seriously, i think your the 15 year old boy who is just taking the P***
as for gasoline on your chicken pox!! blow your stupid questions up!!
i think that you will find the perfect man for you
keep looking !
======================================鈥?br>
If you are single and have the time, please visit my site:
http://www.**************/go3.php
UR GF TENDS TO BE PICKING UP ALL THE BASTARDS BUT THATS NO REASON TO DO A HORSE THATS JUST SICK
in fact its fatasy
Obviously your friend doesn't choose her men well. Low self-esteem, perhaps? Thinks she can't live without a man? Perhaps once she learns that she can be just fine without one, she will find Mr. Right!
Men can be such pigs so why not try a horse and on the plus side horses really like whips and chains. I say go for it!
sure let her do it..arab men do it with sheep
can ride a horse for hours and they never complain or fall asleep
I have heard of this before, tijauna mexico,El Grande Cantina
your freind should see a therapist if she is thinking that there can be a relationship between a human and farm animals!
The girl who gave your friend the advice should be slugged!
Tell your friend to stop looking and start working on herself. She needs better self esteem if she really does keep picking losers and actually sees them more than once.
You're kidding, right??????
A horse???????
What's this world turning into? Soon, it'll be chickens, rodents and houseflies.............Is there any animal rights activist here????? If yes, they should do/say something fast.
did you hear about the girl that gave a horse a b.j and when the horse shot his load she drowned on it and died. Something she should consider.
i bet she was asking for it
I'm going on a date with my girlfriend tonight, give me some advice!?
i want it to be special as she's really stressed out at the moment and we havn't been on a date in a long time... what do you think i shoulfd do to make it special?I'm going on a date with my girlfriend tonight, give me some advice!?
just be wonderful to her, hold her hand, tell her how gorjis she looks, open the door for her etc. if you wana make it exciting, play footsie footsie with her under the table at dinner, make moves on her in the movie, and instead of just a goodnight kiss, press against her against the car and show her you mean it!!
P.S. wear something niceI'm going on a date with my girlfriend tonight, give me some advice!?
Listen just dont take any advice from anyone just do what you think will make her happy (eg a meal, some flowers maybe anything) and she will be happy i promise
Go to a haunted house and then back to your place or her place and carve pumpkins. If she is in a playful mood, toss around the guts at each other. Make a mess and have fun as if you were little kids again.
just b yourself...she will really see what kind of person u are....
good luck and have some fun
take her to dinner, buy her a rose, then take her home and BANG her till she passes out from too many orgasms..............
I don't know how old you are. This is adult advise. Fix her dinner, light some nice scented candles, rose petals on the bed and a wonderful massage. Let her know you are there for her if she needs to talk and you just want to give her some down time so she can relax and not be so stressed out. Just give her an evening where she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't feel like doing. I know that's something I would appreciate.
Offer to cook her favorite meal or take her to a place that serves it.
Write her a love letter expressing how much you love her.
Get some white carnations and have them ';dipped'; or spray painted in her favorite color. Most floral places do this. Give them to her at dinner or before you go out.
Write her a love poem.
Offer a full body massage with warm oils and relaxation candles around her.
Run a hot bubble bath for her with candles around the tub and just let her soak in it while you make her dinner.
Above all else just reassure that you love her and that she is the most important thing in your life right now.
Two words...THE SHOCKER!
cook for her, candle light dinner, rub her feet/back
just plain pamper her
she doesn't get up unless she has to go to the bathroom
you need to plan everything. girls likes surprises. so you need to plan everything from the time you pick her up to the time you take her home. why dont you start out by picking her up, and when she comes to asnwer the door, have a single red rose with you, and give it to her. then take her to dinner. to a place where its not to noisey. because if it is too noisey, then you and her wont be able to talk and hear each other. you dont have to go to a francy resturant, but to a nice one is ok too. make reservations if you want, ask if you can have a private table somewhere. that way, it would be just you and her. let her order whatever she wants. remember to pull her chair for her and everything like that. be a gentleman that night. let her say to you, '; wow, you never pull my chair out for me before.'; or '; wow, you never open the car door for me before.'; if she says something like that, lean in , give her a kiss on the lips, or the cheek ( which ever one you prefer ), and say something that will just melt her, something like, '; i should have done this a long time ago. '; show her that you appreciate her, that you love her, and that you care for her. like you said, you havent been on a date in a long time, so now is the time that you can really show her that you love her. i dont know where you live at, but after dinner take her somewhere that both of you will have fun. the whole dinner and a movie to me is kinda out of date. i want to go somewhere after dinner that would be fun. ohhh, if this was around xmas time, then you could drive around town looking at the houses that are decorated with lights and she can ohhh and awww at it. but its not xmas time yet. but do you kinda get the point of what im saying about what to do after dinner???? but if she likes to go to the movie, then by all means, take her to the movie. then end the night, by walking her up to her door, and give her a nice sweet good night kiss that she will be thinking about all night as she sleeps. i hope this advice works.
JUST CHATTING and exchange of words
U guys have gone a date before its not like its ur guys first time, so just be smooth and dont be nervous! she will notice that u r and then she will be too! And u dont need to make it special its not a first date! ok but if u want to make it special i would go to a fancy resarant or a movie bring her something to make her feel special!
GOOOD LUCK
Make sure you don't add any pressures. We all get stressed out but if we can get away for a while it helps alot. Try not to talk about what has stressed her out unless it is something that she is willing to talk about. Let her know that this is her night and allow her to make some of the choices for the evening.
Be calm
Be nice
Be smart
Be little bit funny
Smell nice, look good and relax.....You need to be confident. that way, she too will have some.
Look for a spot where both of you love to hang out so that way, the pressure to perform won't set in. Buy a gift that would dazzle her senses but keep it sweet and simple. If you must have a cocktail, don't let it be more than 2 so that way, both of you will still be in shape. Compliment her without being patronising.
just be wonderful to her, hold her hand, tell her how gorjis she looks, open the door for her etc. if you wana make it exciting, play footsie footsie with her under the table at dinner, make moves on her in the movie, and instead of just a goodnight kiss, press against her against the car and show her you mean it!!
P.S. wear something niceI'm going on a date with my girlfriend tonight, give me some advice!?
Listen just dont take any advice from anyone just do what you think will make her happy (eg a meal, some flowers maybe anything) and she will be happy i promise
Go to a haunted house and then back to your place or her place and carve pumpkins. If she is in a playful mood, toss around the guts at each other. Make a mess and have fun as if you were little kids again.
just b yourself...she will really see what kind of person u are....
good luck and have some fun
take her to dinner, buy her a rose, then take her home and BANG her till she passes out from too many orgasms..............
I don't know how old you are. This is adult advise. Fix her dinner, light some nice scented candles, rose petals on the bed and a wonderful massage. Let her know you are there for her if she needs to talk and you just want to give her some down time so she can relax and not be so stressed out. Just give her an evening where she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't feel like doing. I know that's something I would appreciate.
Offer to cook her favorite meal or take her to a place that serves it.
Write her a love letter expressing how much you love her.
Get some white carnations and have them ';dipped'; or spray painted in her favorite color. Most floral places do this. Give them to her at dinner or before you go out.
Write her a love poem.
Offer a full body massage with warm oils and relaxation candles around her.
Run a hot bubble bath for her with candles around the tub and just let her soak in it while you make her dinner.
Above all else just reassure that you love her and that she is the most important thing in your life right now.
Two words...THE SHOCKER!
cook for her, candle light dinner, rub her feet/back
just plain pamper her
she doesn't get up unless she has to go to the bathroom
you need to plan everything. girls likes surprises. so you need to plan everything from the time you pick her up to the time you take her home. why dont you start out by picking her up, and when she comes to asnwer the door, have a single red rose with you, and give it to her. then take her to dinner. to a place where its not to noisey. because if it is too noisey, then you and her wont be able to talk and hear each other. you dont have to go to a francy resturant, but to a nice one is ok too. make reservations if you want, ask if you can have a private table somewhere. that way, it would be just you and her. let her order whatever she wants. remember to pull her chair for her and everything like that. be a gentleman that night. let her say to you, '; wow, you never pull my chair out for me before.'; or '; wow, you never open the car door for me before.'; if she says something like that, lean in , give her a kiss on the lips, or the cheek ( which ever one you prefer ), and say something that will just melt her, something like, '; i should have done this a long time ago. '; show her that you appreciate her, that you love her, and that you care for her. like you said, you havent been on a date in a long time, so now is the time that you can really show her that you love her. i dont know where you live at, but after dinner take her somewhere that both of you will have fun. the whole dinner and a movie to me is kinda out of date. i want to go somewhere after dinner that would be fun. ohhh, if this was around xmas time, then you could drive around town looking at the houses that are decorated with lights and she can ohhh and awww at it. but its not xmas time yet. but do you kinda get the point of what im saying about what to do after dinner???? but if she likes to go to the movie, then by all means, take her to the movie. then end the night, by walking her up to her door, and give her a nice sweet good night kiss that she will be thinking about all night as she sleeps. i hope this advice works.
JUST CHATTING and exchange of words
U guys have gone a date before its not like its ur guys first time, so just be smooth and dont be nervous! she will notice that u r and then she will be too! And u dont need to make it special its not a first date! ok but if u want to make it special i would go to a fancy resarant or a movie bring her something to make her feel special!
GOOOD LUCK
Make sure you don't add any pressures. We all get stressed out but if we can get away for a while it helps alot. Try not to talk about what has stressed her out unless it is something that she is willing to talk about. Let her know that this is her night and allow her to make some of the choices for the evening.
Be calm
Be nice
Be smart
Be little bit funny
Smell nice, look good and relax.....You need to be confident. that way, she too will have some.
Look for a spot where both of you love to hang out so that way, the pressure to perform won't set in. Buy a gift that would dazzle her senses but keep it sweet and simple. If you must have a cocktail, don't let it be more than 2 so that way, both of you will still be in shape. Compliment her without being patronising.
==========> What is your advice about dating a virgin?
I am a female, and I am trying to date this guy. He has never had a girlfriend before.
I think that he would be a good boyfriend. I just don't know how to approach the subject of sex and stuff... He is just so sheepish and sweet.
Any advice on how to be a good first girlfriend... and a good ';first'; in general?==========%26gt; What is your advice about dating a virgin?
Treat him the same way you wanted to be treated when you were a virgin. Don't rush him. Don't pressure him. Most importantly, make this a chance to teach him. If his first serious relationship is with a woman who knows what she wants and knows how to get it, he will be ever grateful to you.==========%26gt; What is your advice about dating a virgin?
Sex isn't all there is to a relationship. If you are both of age it will happen naturally.
Be yourself and don't be afraid.
I wound date a virgin, but for you pull him out of his misery and get it on all night long for about 10 seconds each time.
Try to be his first friend, than girlfriend before you become his first lover
wait until he feels comfortable, don't push or rush him into anything.
i'm pretty sure once he's inside of you, he'll know what to do :]
maybe he wants to wait for marriage. don't pressure him. respect what he wants and don't make him feel bad about it :]
It will come up if it is meant to be. He seems like a good guy, so let him make the move if and when he wants.
I think that he would be a good boyfriend. I just don't know how to approach the subject of sex and stuff... He is just so sheepish and sweet.
Any advice on how to be a good first girlfriend... and a good ';first'; in general?==========%26gt; What is your advice about dating a virgin?
Treat him the same way you wanted to be treated when you were a virgin. Don't rush him. Don't pressure him. Most importantly, make this a chance to teach him. If his first serious relationship is with a woman who knows what she wants and knows how to get it, he will be ever grateful to you.==========%26gt; What is your advice about dating a virgin?
Sex isn't all there is to a relationship. If you are both of age it will happen naturally.
Be yourself and don't be afraid.
I wound date a virgin, but for you pull him out of his misery and get it on all night long for about 10 seconds each time.
Try to be his first friend, than girlfriend before you become his first lover
wait until he feels comfortable, don't push or rush him into anything.
i'm pretty sure once he's inside of you, he'll know what to do :]
maybe he wants to wait for marriage. don't pressure him. respect what he wants and don't make him feel bad about it :]
It will come up if it is meant to be. He seems like a good guy, so let him make the move if and when he wants.
Hey girls,need advice writing a love poem to a friend you dated is good or bad?
IF so, txt is good or in person?Hey girls,need advice writing a love poem to a friend you dated is good or bad?
It depends what the poem is about. If it's about being over them then maybe. Not wanting to get back together though. But write what you mean and do what ever feels right for YOU.
It depends what the poem is about. If it's about being over them then maybe. Not wanting to get back together though. But write what you mean and do what ever feels right for YOU.
I am a civilian who just started dating a vet with post traumatic stress. Any advice?
He has been out 4 years, medical discharge. Seems to be doing well...I am a civilian who just started dating a vet with post traumatic stress. Any advice?
if he's doing well, then why the question? maybe he's got a handle on things.how to apply
if he's doing well, then why the question? maybe he's got a handle on things.
Fourteen year old guy needs dating advice?
im 14 years old and me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 4 months...but we still haven't done anything...not even kissed...she's my first girlfriend...and she told me that the reason we havent done anything is because of my inexperience...what can i do?? i really want to kiss her...lol...Fourteen year old guy needs dating advice?
ermmm jus tel her you want to..? and yano
or just let it happen when you are both ready but i guess 4 months is a lot of waiting?
just do it i think!...and then after you will see its not a big deal at all
hope i helped %26lt;3Fourteen year old guy needs dating advice?
then kiss her.
start with cheeks, then the lips later on(:
its ok that yer taking it slow.
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yer around the same age as me. can u please help me --;
4 months and still haven't kissed?
This is what you should do.
Whenever your alone, look at her and just kiss her, without saying anything.
then just kiss her. you'll never get any experience if you don't do anything.
ok take her eout 2 the movies when the lights go down suprise her with a kiss!
just kiss her, it's already been 4 months
go up 2 her and kiss her
ermmm jus tel her you want to..? and yano
or just let it happen when you are both ready but i guess 4 months is a lot of waiting?
just do it i think!...and then after you will see its not a big deal at all
hope i helped %26lt;3Fourteen year old guy needs dating advice?
then kiss her.
start with cheeks, then the lips later on(:
its ok that yer taking it slow.
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yer around the same age as me. can u please help me --;
4 months and still haven't kissed?
This is what you should do.
Whenever your alone, look at her and just kiss her, without saying anything.
then just kiss her. you'll never get any experience if you don't do anything.
ok take her eout 2 the movies when the lights go down suprise her with a kiss!
just kiss her, it's already been 4 months
go up 2 her and kiss her
Need dating advice for someone who really hasnt before?
Alright here is the deal, im 22 and have never been able to find a girl who would go out with me. Does anyone have any advice as to where to find women, where to take them, things like that.Need dating advice for someone who really hasnt before?
Would join a youth club,Fitness group or anything that attracts young people.May'be try one of the free dating sites
Would join a youth club,Fitness group or anything that attracts young people.May'be try one of the free dating sites
I am a shallow bastard, I only date beauty queens but no brains. Any advice?
SUPERFICIALI am a shallow bastard, I only date beauty queens but no brains. Any advice?
No advice but lots of reasons why you do it
a/there's nothing wrong with choosing to be with a lobotomized beauty
b/deep down you feel you deserve nothing but
c/deep down you consider yourself less than
d/you're scared out of your wits they will find out how shallow you, yourself, may be.
e/you're insecure that if you choose one with brains she'll figure you out in no time. Now that would be a shocker.
You have, however, every right to be with whom you pleaseI am a shallow bastard, I only date beauty queens but no brains. Any advice?
Good luck.
You'll have a hot chick but nothing to talk about and personally, if I were you, I'd be rather embarrassed of her. But that's only cos I'm an intellectual person and I like to talk.
I feel sorry that you have to refer to yourself that way.. apparently, you do not feel good about yourself and you think beauty queens will make you feel betther. Come on grow up.. you have the answer to your own question.. you might need to reallylook at yourself.. because you will never be happy by living that way.
You don't want a woman who challenges you and makes you think, you want 'arm candy'. Maybe you think that having a beauty queen is some kind of trophy, but having a clever, funny woman shows you are a real man. Be shallow if you like, but maybe if you seek something deeper you'll be more fulfilled.
yeah after a while you will want to settle down and finde sombody who acctually knows somthing more than lipstick shades your just like any other man its probley just a fase you'll grow out of it with time comes knowlage im sure one day youll finde the perfict girl who's beautiful and smart dont worry they are out there..
U r lucky enough
Quit if u r bored
Continue if u still want 2
Want a change?
U know what 2 do...
Make sure they have big **** too.
sounds like you have found your avenue..
you get what you deserve and yes you are a shallow person
if it works for you, go for it, but if it doesnt, you know what to do.
date an ok chick who's smart
yes, you are....good out with a ';nerd'; three or four times....learn about them.....guess what? they are humans, and they ahve a heart.....and you know what? they are more beautiful than a lot of beauty queens.....inside, where it counts......beauty fades....the heart goes on
use your brain,,why date brainless girls
No advice but lots of reasons why you do it
a/there's nothing wrong with choosing to be with a lobotomized beauty
b/deep down you feel you deserve nothing but
c/deep down you consider yourself less than
d/you're scared out of your wits they will find out how shallow you, yourself, may be.
e/you're insecure that if you choose one with brains she'll figure you out in no time. Now that would be a shocker.
You have, however, every right to be with whom you pleaseI am a shallow bastard, I only date beauty queens but no brains. Any advice?
Good luck.
You'll have a hot chick but nothing to talk about and personally, if I were you, I'd be rather embarrassed of her. But that's only cos I'm an intellectual person and I like to talk.
I feel sorry that you have to refer to yourself that way.. apparently, you do not feel good about yourself and you think beauty queens will make you feel betther. Come on grow up.. you have the answer to your own question.. you might need to reallylook at yourself.. because you will never be happy by living that way.
You don't want a woman who challenges you and makes you think, you want 'arm candy'. Maybe you think that having a beauty queen is some kind of trophy, but having a clever, funny woman shows you are a real man. Be shallow if you like, but maybe if you seek something deeper you'll be more fulfilled.
yeah after a while you will want to settle down and finde sombody who acctually knows somthing more than lipstick shades your just like any other man its probley just a fase you'll grow out of it with time comes knowlage im sure one day youll finde the perfict girl who's beautiful and smart dont worry they are out there..
U r lucky enough
Quit if u r bored
Continue if u still want 2
Want a change?
U know what 2 do...
Make sure they have big **** too.
sounds like you have found your avenue..
you get what you deserve and yes you are a shallow person
if it works for you, go for it, but if it doesnt, you know what to do.
date an ok chick who's smart
yes, you are....good out with a ';nerd'; three or four times....learn about them.....guess what? they are humans, and they ahve a heart.....and you know what? they are more beautiful than a lot of beauty queens.....inside, where it counts......beauty fades....the heart goes on
use your brain,,why date brainless girls
I got a ticket for out of date registration sticker, need a little advice?
so i got a ticket for the sticker, which i had no idea about (new driver, i guess the dealer put it on the plates) what i want to know is can i fight this? I was supposed to recieve a letter in the mail letting me know that it was supposed to expire a couple months before my birthday, and in fact on there webpage it reads,
';For your convenience, a licence plate renewal application WILL BE mailed to you approximately 60 to 90 days prior to the plate expiry (usually on your birthdate).';
i know in the U.S. they are not required to but in Canada (where i live) they are, is it possible to point this out and have my ticket dropped?I got a ticket for out of date registration sticker, need a little advice?
It's definately worth fighting. i live in toronto so i know what yur talkin about, you have nothing to lose by fighting it. and since yur a new driver you have that going for you....if you can prove that it was always insured then you should be ok. When people don't have valtags updated the police are under the suspicion that there isn't valid up to date insurance.I got a ticket for out of date registration sticker, need a little advice?
You can try to bring that up as a defense, however the court will be very quick to point out to you that it is YOUR responsibility to maintain the registration of your vehicle, so you will be found guilty, and have to pay the fine, and possibly a point or two on your license.
Sorry to inform you that the court system has no tolerance for ';failure to know';.
If there is a decal on your plate, and you have a registration document stating the expiration date, it is your responsibility to make sure your registration is current. You are the car owner, it is your responsibility, not the dealer's.
Mail gets lost all the time, its not a guarantee you will be notified.
I doubt you have a defense as a judge will simply ask, ';do you know how to read?';. When you answer, ';yes, your honor, I can read';, he will say, ';guilty, as charged';. Then you will go to prison for ever and ever and ever.
Just pay it and get it over with.
Don't feel bad, I got a ticket just yesterday for expired registration. Turns out my plates had been suspended, too. I could have had my car impounded but the cop cut me a break and I got it taken care of. Cost me $210 + whatever the ticket will be.... lesson learned.
';For your convenience, a licence plate renewal application WILL BE mailed to you approximately 60 to 90 days prior to the plate expiry (usually on your birthdate).';
i know in the U.S. they are not required to but in Canada (where i live) they are, is it possible to point this out and have my ticket dropped?I got a ticket for out of date registration sticker, need a little advice?
It's definately worth fighting. i live in toronto so i know what yur talkin about, you have nothing to lose by fighting it. and since yur a new driver you have that going for you....if you can prove that it was always insured then you should be ok. When people don't have valtags updated the police are under the suspicion that there isn't valid up to date insurance.I got a ticket for out of date registration sticker, need a little advice?
You can try to bring that up as a defense, however the court will be very quick to point out to you that it is YOUR responsibility to maintain the registration of your vehicle, so you will be found guilty, and have to pay the fine, and possibly a point or two on your license.
Sorry to inform you that the court system has no tolerance for ';failure to know';.
If there is a decal on your plate, and you have a registration document stating the expiration date, it is your responsibility to make sure your registration is current. You are the car owner, it is your responsibility, not the dealer's.
Mail gets lost all the time, its not a guarantee you will be notified.
I doubt you have a defense as a judge will simply ask, ';do you know how to read?';. When you answer, ';yes, your honor, I can read';, he will say, ';guilty, as charged';. Then you will go to prison for ever and ever and ever.
Just pay it and get it over with.
Don't feel bad, I got a ticket just yesterday for expired registration. Turns out my plates had been suspended, too. I could have had my car impounded but the cop cut me a break and I got it taken care of. Cost me $210 + whatever the ticket will be.... lesson learned.
I have a boyfriend and I need some dating advice! I am a shy person. How can I feel comfortable?
I am definitely a shy person. How can I feel more comfortable around guys?? Also, any dating tips?I have a boyfriend and I need some dating advice! I am a shy person. How can I feel comfortable?
you can practice with me. just email meI have a boyfriend and I need some dating advice! I am a shy person. How can I feel comfortable?
I think you are still young. Report Abuse
just talk to a guy you really trust like it's your boyfriend and that should help...i know when i got nervous around girls one of my best friends (who was a girl) helped me out like that
get 2 know the guy and just talk for a while, talk to other girls around you qabout what the do on their dates
As with most things, the more time you spend doing it, the more comfortable you will become. Even if you feel uncomfortable around guys at first, try to spend a lot of time around them (not enough to make you look like a slut, though, you don't want that!). In time, you will grow more comfortable and you'll be fine.
Sorry, I don't have any dating tips.
Im naturally shy also, but since ive been dating my gf, im not shy anymore for about nearly anything, so hang out with him as much as possible.
Do things with him that make you happy. If you like walking in the park, try doing that. Do things that you feel comfortable doing, and ask him what he likes to do. Just communicate. And try not to stress about it so much. Be yourself. Treat guys with respect. Your chances of getting it in return will improve.
Organise a group date, get together a few of your friends and ask him to do the same thing. Maybe go to a theme park or dinner, somewhere where you can feel more relaxed. I find that when first meeting a guy, having my friends around helps because we don't fear rejection as much as we can be ourselves more. Having your friends there feels as though you've got that backup if anything goes wrong. Plus we all feel completely comfortable with our friends so they kind of help you to relx a bit more. By being yourself around him, you'll know from the beginning if he really likes you or not. If you try to be someone you're not, you'll more than likely loose him because he may think that he can't trust you. Being yourself is the best thing you can do, %26amp; if being yourself means that you do loose him then he's not worth it! Good luck babe!!!!
you should put a fresh meat in your as to be comfortable against the world!
may i tell you this advice: when you see a man instead of looking at his face, search for his drill and point it to that way. When the guy realise that you are more sensual that he thought it would be easier to manage him and your desires of eating some coke
You got to be loose and if you have a nice rack or a nice butt or anything that is beautiful or big use it to your advantage. I know a girl who is really ugly but got a super nice butt and she gets all the attention from the guys.
You can't. =) Eventually if things will work out, you'll be comfortable.
Go out for coffee (mocha) it takes less time and helps you grow into more meaningful dates later...take small steps and being in public won't hurt either - much safer.
well you know a boyfriend is just that it is someone who should have started out as a friend... you have to be comfortable with them as a friend before you can be comfortable with them being ur boyfriend... and about being shy before going out make up a list of thing u wanna talk about or know about him then casually bring it up be sure not to interrogate him... and before you know it he will ask you q's and ya'll will be comfortable with each other...
First and foremost - be yourself - even if you act shy. He is dating you so he obviously knows you are shy. Sometimes it helps to go on double dates - it takes the pressure off of you trying to come up with lively conversation. It is also easier to be more at ease with a friend there. Eventually you will begin to feel as comfortable with your boyfriend as you do you friends.
you can practice with me. just email meI have a boyfriend and I need some dating advice! I am a shy person. How can I feel comfortable?
I think you are still young. Report Abuse
just talk to a guy you really trust like it's your boyfriend and that should help...i know when i got nervous around girls one of my best friends (who was a girl) helped me out like that
get 2 know the guy and just talk for a while, talk to other girls around you qabout what the do on their dates
As with most things, the more time you spend doing it, the more comfortable you will become. Even if you feel uncomfortable around guys at first, try to spend a lot of time around them (not enough to make you look like a slut, though, you don't want that!). In time, you will grow more comfortable and you'll be fine.
Sorry, I don't have any dating tips.
Im naturally shy also, but since ive been dating my gf, im not shy anymore for about nearly anything, so hang out with him as much as possible.
Do things with him that make you happy. If you like walking in the park, try doing that. Do things that you feel comfortable doing, and ask him what he likes to do. Just communicate. And try not to stress about it so much. Be yourself. Treat guys with respect. Your chances of getting it in return will improve.
Organise a group date, get together a few of your friends and ask him to do the same thing. Maybe go to a theme park or dinner, somewhere where you can feel more relaxed. I find that when first meeting a guy, having my friends around helps because we don't fear rejection as much as we can be ourselves more. Having your friends there feels as though you've got that backup if anything goes wrong. Plus we all feel completely comfortable with our friends so they kind of help you to relx a bit more. By being yourself around him, you'll know from the beginning if he really likes you or not. If you try to be someone you're not, you'll more than likely loose him because he may think that he can't trust you. Being yourself is the best thing you can do, %26amp; if being yourself means that you do loose him then he's not worth it! Good luck babe!!!!
you should put a fresh meat in your as to be comfortable against the world!
may i tell you this advice: when you see a man instead of looking at his face, search for his drill and point it to that way. When the guy realise that you are more sensual that he thought it would be easier to manage him and your desires of eating some coke
You got to be loose and if you have a nice rack or a nice butt or anything that is beautiful or big use it to your advantage. I know a girl who is really ugly but got a super nice butt and she gets all the attention from the guys.
You can't. =) Eventually if things will work out, you'll be comfortable.
Go out for coffee (mocha) it takes less time and helps you grow into more meaningful dates later...take small steps and being in public won't hurt either - much safer.
well you know a boyfriend is just that it is someone who should have started out as a friend... you have to be comfortable with them as a friend before you can be comfortable with them being ur boyfriend... and about being shy before going out make up a list of thing u wanna talk about or know about him then casually bring it up be sure not to interrogate him... and before you know it he will ask you q's and ya'll will be comfortable with each other...
First and foremost - be yourself - even if you act shy. He is dating you so he obviously knows you are shy. Sometimes it helps to go on double dates - it takes the pressure off of you trying to come up with lively conversation. It is also easier to be more at ease with a friend there. Eventually you will begin to feel as comfortable with your boyfriend as you do you friends.
Why is my due date a month apart will someone im me on messenger so we can talk and so I can get advice....?
My due date was November 28th-30th when my doctor seen my baby on her ulstrusond he said she looked a little small so he said I was not 5 months I was only 4 months and he changed my due date to December 22 why is my due dates a month a part?
so will someone im me on yahoo messenger if you have it....
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thanks...Why is my due date a month apart will someone im me on messenger so we can talk and so I can get advice....?
Maybe because your baby is developing slowly and needs more time. It happens often, no need to panic :)
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thanks...Why is my due date a month apart will someone im me on messenger so we can talk and so I can get advice....?
Maybe because your baby is developing slowly and needs more time. It happens often, no need to panic :)
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I want to date but my mom wont let me>: ( Advice PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
My mom doesn't wanna let me date until i'm 16 but i dont turn 16 until the end of next summer and that really sucks!!!!! What do i do plz give me some good adviceI want to date but my mom wont let me%26gt;: ( Advice PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
Ok, here's a ';fathers'; spin on this little problem. My dear, I don't know your current situation at home, (you said your mom, but is there a father opinion in this too?) I have an 18yo daughter who just married, and I now have my first grandchild! Now, I must be honest, at first I was NOT thrilled with my daughter dating at 16, but soon learned to accept the facts of life. While I'm not a girl, I WAS 16 once myself, and had little resistance from my mom about dating. Ok, Ok I know, I'm a male and we're supposed to get more slack and not have our folks worry so much.....but they did, and it didn't stunt my growth or give me pimples or any such thing......lol.... But honestly, I was a bit weary with my daughter for quite sometime at first. However, (and I think you'll like this part!) If you and your mom have a good relationship, and she TRUSTS you, she'll allow you to date under certain conditions......For example, I used to double-date with my best friend as a safety net.......Not so much for me, but for the benefit of HER mom. Besides that, it kept me from allowing things to go to far TOO fast.....get it? Aside from that, and again depending on your circumstance, she herself has to look back at her teenage years and ask herself what she felt and how she reacted at that time.
There is one more thing.........Things back then where quite a bit different than they are today, (AID, DRUGS, and VIOLENCE) sooooooooo, in closing I must remind you young lady, that YOU and you alone are (or at least should be) the one in charge, and in control of your date. Just be true to yourself, and remember that whatever you do, you WILL have to live with those consequences.....Good luck!!
Lee
P.S. One more thing......Sexy Hottie is NOT an approriate nickname for a 16yo, so SLOW DOWN plz??I want to date but my mom wont let me%26gt;: ( Advice PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
what you should do is talk to your mom and tell her that you are a responsible person and could handle dating
I was the same when my daughter was your age.I was scare to lose my baby,that is why it was hard for me to realize that she wasn't a baby anymore..But i think it is to early for you to go out with a guy steady,you need to enjoy and have fun and enjoy freedom before you are really ready to go out steady.
listen to your mother she knows what is best
Date in secret. It's fun.
listen to your mother, its in your best interest. be glad she's letting you ate at 16, if i was your father, I'd make sure you graduated college first
Be patient you're young and trust me look on this site, many older women are still dating and unhappy, dating boys are no going out of style, it will be here waiting for you when your mom says it's okay for you to date. You can date at anytime in the future but your youth and innocence you'll never get back, enjoy being a kid a little longer, cause before you know it you'll be dating and have many problems bigger than what you have no. Take care and good luck.
Maybe you should stick with going out with guys without actually going anywhere. You can be in a relationship without being somewhere to make-out. I know it stinks but you can't go against your Mom, and maybe, if you wait, the real Mr. Perfect for you will turn up just when you can really date him, and that's where the fun will begin....
Good Luck!!!
(or you could try sneaking out of the house, but it's not advisable, your parents could think you got kidnapped and call the police.)
Grace
I won't let my daughter date until she is sixteen either. There is no hurry to get involved with boys.
arrange an event to go anywhere, movies works well, and tell her that more people ore going even if its your bf or a double date. just say its a big group of friends going and then make some people up.
Well, you wanna be a good daughter then listen to your mom.. or you wanna listen to your heart? that's okay too! you have a choice to choose as long as you ready for the concequences.
hate to say it but as long as you live with your parents you live by their rules, but if you keep nicely buggin em on it they may budge a little bit. gl
well i would go out with people but are'nt u mormor...? and u wouldnt wanna get cought...!
i think 16 is a good age limit for dating. however, since you're here to go against your mother, does she object to you having friends who are boys? if not, i'd say there's an easy way around this. now, if you don't want to mislead your mother, then you're gonna have to wait until you're 16. besides, any guy who truly deserves you will until you're 16. i know next summer feels like an eternity, but it's not.
Mom is the boss so do as she says
I agree with your Mom, wait until you are 16. What's the rush? You'll be surprised at the maturity you can gain in that one year...and be better able to handle the issues that can come up when you start dating.
If your Mom will let you go out in group situations, then at least you could still spend time around guys you like, and socialize...but truly, 16 is plenty young enough to begin dating...
Sorry, I know that's not what you wanted to hear...but I've been down that path and I remember how it was...
Parents want to see maturity.
You will do as she has requested, so she sees that you can act in a mature manner.
That, however, does not stop you from planning things so when the gates open up, you're ready to go
I had to wait until i was 16 and then i couldnt date anyone she didnt like. Just wait. boys will always be there.
this is a reasonable rule set by your mom.
be patient - not desperate.
also be careful...ever think she might be worried about you %26amp; pregnancy or std? sex is fun, but also carries certain responsibilites. she may just want you to enjoy your childhood without you having to worry about all this too soon. sounds cool to me.
PERHAPS SHE WOULD ALLOW YOU TO GO OUT IN A GROUP SITUATION OR AT LEAST SCHOOL DANCES ETC. OR WOULD SHE BE WILLING TO LET YOU HAVE A FEW FRIENDS OVER TO THE HOUSE FOR PIZZA OR WHATEVER AND YOUR DATE COULD BE INVITED.
if she lets u hang with ur friends y dont u say that u r going to the mall with ur friends and actually go out and date but dont tell her
if this advise isnt good enough then tell me and i will go on
Is dating THAT important to you.... and by what benifits are you going to gain from dating.... ???
Dont be so concerned on this issue.... as wanting to date can mean that you may be dating for the wrong reasons.....
Date for the right reasons.... and if you really like someone... explain to you Mom about it... but maturely!!!!
Talking to your Mom in a mature, but honest way may make her realise that you are not 8 years old anymore... but dont be upset if she still says no!! Your time will come... and guys will always be about!!!
Please be careful with the dating game... and be careful who the guy is.... and make you they want to date you for the right reasons too!!!
Good luck!!!
Parents always want the best for you and they will always be there for you so i think if they asked you so, you should listen to the as they dont want you to get hurt.
It is almost the end of the summer only one more year, if you can't wait then that shows that you are too immature to be dating. You need to respect your parents wishes.
PS Learn to write out ALL your words.
Ok, here's a ';fathers'; spin on this little problem. My dear, I don't know your current situation at home, (you said your mom, but is there a father opinion in this too?) I have an 18yo daughter who just married, and I now have my first grandchild! Now, I must be honest, at first I was NOT thrilled with my daughter dating at 16, but soon learned to accept the facts of life. While I'm not a girl, I WAS 16 once myself, and had little resistance from my mom about dating. Ok, Ok I know, I'm a male and we're supposed to get more slack and not have our folks worry so much.....but they did, and it didn't stunt my growth or give me pimples or any such thing......lol.... But honestly, I was a bit weary with my daughter for quite sometime at first. However, (and I think you'll like this part!) If you and your mom have a good relationship, and she TRUSTS you, she'll allow you to date under certain conditions......For example, I used to double-date with my best friend as a safety net.......Not so much for me, but for the benefit of HER mom. Besides that, it kept me from allowing things to go to far TOO fast.....get it? Aside from that, and again depending on your circumstance, she herself has to look back at her teenage years and ask herself what she felt and how she reacted at that time.
There is one more thing.........Things back then where quite a bit different than they are today, (AID, DRUGS, and VIOLENCE) sooooooooo, in closing I must remind you young lady, that YOU and you alone are (or at least should be) the one in charge, and in control of your date. Just be true to yourself, and remember that whatever you do, you WILL have to live with those consequences.....Good luck!!
Lee
P.S. One more thing......Sexy Hottie is NOT an approriate nickname for a 16yo, so SLOW DOWN plz??I want to date but my mom wont let me%26gt;: ( Advice PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
what you should do is talk to your mom and tell her that you are a responsible person and could handle dating
I was the same when my daughter was your age.I was scare to lose my baby,that is why it was hard for me to realize that she wasn't a baby anymore..But i think it is to early for you to go out with a guy steady,you need to enjoy and have fun and enjoy freedom before you are really ready to go out steady.
listen to your mother she knows what is best
Date in secret. It's fun.
listen to your mother, its in your best interest. be glad she's letting you ate at 16, if i was your father, I'd make sure you graduated college first
Be patient you're young and trust me look on this site, many older women are still dating and unhappy, dating boys are no going out of style, it will be here waiting for you when your mom says it's okay for you to date. You can date at anytime in the future but your youth and innocence you'll never get back, enjoy being a kid a little longer, cause before you know it you'll be dating and have many problems bigger than what you have no. Take care and good luck.
Maybe you should stick with going out with guys without actually going anywhere. You can be in a relationship without being somewhere to make-out. I know it stinks but you can't go against your Mom, and maybe, if you wait, the real Mr. Perfect for you will turn up just when you can really date him, and that's where the fun will begin....
Good Luck!!!
(or you could try sneaking out of the house, but it's not advisable, your parents could think you got kidnapped and call the police.)
Grace
I won't let my daughter date until she is sixteen either. There is no hurry to get involved with boys.
arrange an event to go anywhere, movies works well, and tell her that more people ore going even if its your bf or a double date. just say its a big group of friends going and then make some people up.
Well, you wanna be a good daughter then listen to your mom.. or you wanna listen to your heart? that's okay too! you have a choice to choose as long as you ready for the concequences.
hate to say it but as long as you live with your parents you live by their rules, but if you keep nicely buggin em on it they may budge a little bit. gl
well i would go out with people but are'nt u mormor...? and u wouldnt wanna get cought...!
i think 16 is a good age limit for dating. however, since you're here to go against your mother, does she object to you having friends who are boys? if not, i'd say there's an easy way around this. now, if you don't want to mislead your mother, then you're gonna have to wait until you're 16. besides, any guy who truly deserves you will until you're 16. i know next summer feels like an eternity, but it's not.
Mom is the boss so do as she says
I agree with your Mom, wait until you are 16. What's the rush? You'll be surprised at the maturity you can gain in that one year...and be better able to handle the issues that can come up when you start dating.
If your Mom will let you go out in group situations, then at least you could still spend time around guys you like, and socialize...but truly, 16 is plenty young enough to begin dating...
Sorry, I know that's not what you wanted to hear...but I've been down that path and I remember how it was...
Parents want to see maturity.
You will do as she has requested, so she sees that you can act in a mature manner.
That, however, does not stop you from planning things so when the gates open up, you're ready to go
I had to wait until i was 16 and then i couldnt date anyone she didnt like. Just wait. boys will always be there.
this is a reasonable rule set by your mom.
be patient - not desperate.
also be careful...ever think she might be worried about you %26amp; pregnancy or std? sex is fun, but also carries certain responsibilites. she may just want you to enjoy your childhood without you having to worry about all this too soon. sounds cool to me.
PERHAPS SHE WOULD ALLOW YOU TO GO OUT IN A GROUP SITUATION OR AT LEAST SCHOOL DANCES ETC. OR WOULD SHE BE WILLING TO LET YOU HAVE A FEW FRIENDS OVER TO THE HOUSE FOR PIZZA OR WHATEVER AND YOUR DATE COULD BE INVITED.
if she lets u hang with ur friends y dont u say that u r going to the mall with ur friends and actually go out and date but dont tell her
if this advise isnt good enough then tell me and i will go on
Is dating THAT important to you.... and by what benifits are you going to gain from dating.... ???
Dont be so concerned on this issue.... as wanting to date can mean that you may be dating for the wrong reasons.....
Date for the right reasons.... and if you really like someone... explain to you Mom about it... but maturely!!!!
Talking to your Mom in a mature, but honest way may make her realise that you are not 8 years old anymore... but dont be upset if she still says no!! Your time will come... and guys will always be about!!!
Please be careful with the dating game... and be careful who the guy is.... and make you they want to date you for the right reasons too!!!
Good luck!!!
Parents always want the best for you and they will always be there for you so i think if they asked you so, you should listen to the as they dont want you to get hurt.
It is almost the end of the summer only one more year, if you can't wait then that shows that you are too immature to be dating. You need to respect your parents wishes.
PS Learn to write out ALL your words.
I'm going on my first date and I'm really scared advice please?
I'm 13 years old and I'm going on my first date this Sunday. It's really complicated but are parents don't know about it and I don't feel like explaining how we are actually doing this. He's a year older than me, and I didn't actually tell him this was my first date... Anyways, it's not formal or anything we are just meeting at this one duck pond and we are going to go to our old elementary school park and hang out for a little bit. I'm really scared. Should I wear a shirt, jeans, dress, sweatpants, penny loafers, I DON'T KNOW?! And can you guys please give me some advice? Thank you so much this will really help me out a lot. :)I'm going on my first date and I'm really scared advice please?
if you guys are just going to a park and a pond, don't get too dressed up, but try to look nice. i'd wear skinny jeans, and a nice t-shirt? maybe fix your hair and do your make up nice too. just be yourself. my first date wasnt that bad actually. just relax.
and as far as your parents go, don't tell them. tell them you're just going to hang out with a few friends, and you'll be home later.
hope i helped.
(:I'm going on my first date and I'm really scared advice please?
My first date wasn't near as scary as I thought. I was a little awkward around the guy at first but then it was well worth it. You are 2 years younger than the age I had my first date though.
Just wear what you think looks good. If he's a good guy, he won't care that much. Relax. Don't wear a dress.
If I was you, and I was that scared, maybe you should go on a date with friends around first. If you can't do that though, then good luck.
my first date was when I was 14. we went to a park and hung out it was soooo cool! I loved it! even now when I'm older I love goin to the park with my bf.
just relax. you'll be nervous but try to keep the conversation going and be flirtty :)
don't dress p too much. and don't dress down
go in jeans. t, and a cute figure flattering jacket
awww how cutee. well its onl awkward if you make it awkward.. just dont haha keep it in mind..
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Wear jeans. Stay relaxed. Smile. Maintain eye contact. Keep conversation about causal things, nothing too serious. Laugh. Tease him if you can. And very important, have an excuse to get out of there a little earlier than expected.
If the date is going badly, you can escape. If the date is going well you always want to end on a high note and have him wanting to get together again soon.
if you guys are just going to a park and a pond, don't get too dressed up, but try to look nice. i'd wear skinny jeans, and a nice t-shirt? maybe fix your hair and do your make up nice too. just be yourself. my first date wasnt that bad actually. just relax.
and as far as your parents go, don't tell them. tell them you're just going to hang out with a few friends, and you'll be home later.
hope i helped.
(:I'm going on my first date and I'm really scared advice please?
My first date wasn't near as scary as I thought. I was a little awkward around the guy at first but then it was well worth it. You are 2 years younger than the age I had my first date though.
Just wear what you think looks good. If he's a good guy, he won't care that much. Relax. Don't wear a dress.
If I was you, and I was that scared, maybe you should go on a date with friends around first. If you can't do that though, then good luck.
my first date was when I was 14. we went to a park and hung out it was soooo cool! I loved it! even now when I'm older I love goin to the park with my bf.
just relax. you'll be nervous but try to keep the conversation going and be flirtty :)
don't dress p too much. and don't dress down
go in jeans. t, and a cute figure flattering jacket
awww how cutee. well its onl awkward if you make it awkward.. just dont haha keep it in mind..
help me?
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Wear jeans. Stay relaxed. Smile. Maintain eye contact. Keep conversation about causal things, nothing too serious. Laugh. Tease him if you can. And very important, have an excuse to get out of there a little earlier than expected.
If the date is going badly, you can escape. If the date is going well you always want to end on a high note and have him wanting to get together again soon.
Need advice on dating a friend?
So I am finally going out with this girl who has been my friend for almost a year. But its more of a we will go out and see what happens kind of thing (Sort of an unofficial date). What are somethings I can do to take it to the next level, so that we will be considered more than just friends?Need advice on dating a friend?
Take it nice and slow, obviously you're both very nervous about this. Try reaching for her hand and don't take it too far on a first date. Just show her you're there and care for her, nothing is more attractive to women (in my opinion, of course what do I know? I'm a guy). And look her in the eyes, buy her ticket, and try to get her to stay a little after the movie and just talk :)Need advice on dating a friend?
Well probably you will have to take her on an official date first. the moment she and you both know the intentions before hand is best. Just like if you have to make a football move to make it considered a catch , you have to make a boyfriend move to be considered a next level. Ideas (longer hugs, walking cuddling, flirting on phone, hints that you like her body)
Things that girls like in bf:
1. Be a gentlemen; open the door, walk slighty behind or next to her. NEVER in front!
2. Be sweet! Bring her flowers, tell her she looks pretty
3. Don't be boring. Keep up the conversation smile and have fun!
4. At the end of the night, give her a hug and if things went well for both of you (if you think she had fun and you had fun) then maybe a kiss on the cheek too.
Take things slow and be yourself :) good luck and have fun!!
Simple. Be a man!
sit - think - decide
Buy a tiny ring.
Marry Her!
This way.. u'd become 'must friends' from 'just friends'.
Go man..surprise her..
Lifes too short ;)
You need to take things slow and easy, no point in rushing things. If it's meant to be it will happen with some chemistry!
Date her.
never date your friends!!!!
Take it nice and slow, obviously you're both very nervous about this. Try reaching for her hand and don't take it too far on a first date. Just show her you're there and care for her, nothing is more attractive to women (in my opinion, of course what do I know? I'm a guy). And look her in the eyes, buy her ticket, and try to get her to stay a little after the movie and just talk :)Need advice on dating a friend?
Well probably you will have to take her on an official date first. the moment she and you both know the intentions before hand is best. Just like if you have to make a football move to make it considered a catch , you have to make a boyfriend move to be considered a next level. Ideas (longer hugs, walking cuddling, flirting on phone, hints that you like her body)
Things that girls like in bf:
1. Be a gentlemen; open the door, walk slighty behind or next to her. NEVER in front!
2. Be sweet! Bring her flowers, tell her she looks pretty
3. Don't be boring. Keep up the conversation smile and have fun!
4. At the end of the night, give her a hug and if things went well for both of you (if you think she had fun and you had fun) then maybe a kiss on the cheek too.
Take things slow and be yourself :) good luck and have fun!!
Simple. Be a man!
sit - think - decide
Buy a tiny ring.
Marry Her!
This way.. u'd become 'must friends' from 'just friends'.
Go man..surprise her..
Lifes too short ;)
You need to take things slow and easy, no point in rushing things. If it's meant to be it will happen with some chemistry!
Date her.
never date your friends!!!!
Need advice on what to do on my first date with this girl i really really like.?
asked a girl out on a date and not sure what to do. I am 13 so I dont have alot of money.Need advice on what to do on my first date with this girl i really really like.?
awh. ;]
I don't think you need to bring her to dinner or anything, but if you have like a place with rides like here we have circus circus. with alot of rollercoasters. they'd be cute. ;]
Or, movies is always an awesome date ;]
Just choose somewhere where it won't be too weird. just have some fun ;]
awh. ;]
I don't think you need to bring her to dinner or anything, but if you have like a place with rides like here we have circus circus. with alot of rollercoasters. they'd be cute. ;]
Or, movies is always an awesome date ;]
Just choose somewhere where it won't be too weird. just have some fun ;]
Women from West Palm Beach please advice on a the perfect spot to bring a date.?
I will be in West Palm beach soon to spend some time with a very close friend of mine that I am wanting to take the friendship further. (I dont' want oppinions on wether you think I should or not.) I would like some suggestions on where would be there perfect place(s) to take her on a date(s) in the area. I thank you in advance for your help.Women from West Palm Beach please advice on a the perfect spot to bring a date.?
a really nice place make her feel special!Women from West Palm Beach please advice on a the perfect spot to bring a date.?
Take her to City Place. It has a European feel, very romantic , loads of nice restaurants.....and the shops will keep her adrenaline pumping.
Take i-95 to Ockeechobee Blvd, then head East. Turn left just before you see Trump Tower and Artefacto Furniture store.
Good Luck !!
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a really nice place make her feel special!Women from West Palm Beach please advice on a the perfect spot to bring a date.?
Take her to City Place. It has a European feel, very romantic , loads of nice restaurants.....and the shops will keep her adrenaline pumping.
Take i-95 to Ockeechobee Blvd, then head East. Turn left just before you see Trump Tower and Artefacto Furniture store.
Good Luck !!
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My second date (with a girl, im a girl) ADVICE!!!?
yay ok my first ';date'; was me and the girl i like plus another girl, we hung out and went to stores and ate icecream and stuff...i think our next date is at the movies
so what should i do? should I try to make a move? XDMy second date (with a girl, im a girl) ADVICE!!!?
the only thing you can do is take it slow! Trust me I was right in the same spot as you! Not to long ago! Just when your in the movies slowly reach to hold her hand! If she pulls her hand aways don't try anthing till you have talked to her! And tell her your there for her and that you wont make her do anything she doesnt want to do! Tell her to let you know what she wants you to do!
I was right there with you. Not to long ago!My second date (with a girl, im a girl) ADVICE!!!?
Take it slow, do alot of talking first, get to know this girl personally. Try to be friends first, she may be a completely different person away from others. Does she have common interests, morals, ethics? Of course, if you are just dating to get sex then make a move, I guess. The movies is a perfect place to start with an arm around her shoulders but best be in the very back row unless you are in a town open to seeing gays in public. Just my thoughts.
As a straight man that has seduced alot of women in my day. Taking it slow is key, The key to any womans heart is though her ears. I usually wait till the 3rd date, the one at my place, and I cook for her, play light music (lovey vibe) and we talk on the couch, which leads to kissing, which leads to other fun things. So yeah sweeten her up first, and you'll be fine.
If you like the girl then go for it. If she turns you down then you know she's not ready to get that serious yet. Just take it slow and when the time is right you and her will both know.
Just go with whatever feels right. Hold her hand or put your arm round her and if she seems comfortable and responsive then you can go further... it's up to you and her.
Have fun!!! =D
well, if i were you i would start doing something...but oh...lesbian...ugh
if you feel that she likes you too, why not?how to apply
so what should i do? should I try to make a move? XDMy second date (with a girl, im a girl) ADVICE!!!?
the only thing you can do is take it slow! Trust me I was right in the same spot as you! Not to long ago! Just when your in the movies slowly reach to hold her hand! If she pulls her hand aways don't try anthing till you have talked to her! And tell her your there for her and that you wont make her do anything she doesnt want to do! Tell her to let you know what she wants you to do!
I was right there with you. Not to long ago!My second date (with a girl, im a girl) ADVICE!!!?
Take it slow, do alot of talking first, get to know this girl personally. Try to be friends first, she may be a completely different person away from others. Does she have common interests, morals, ethics? Of course, if you are just dating to get sex then make a move, I guess. The movies is a perfect place to start with an arm around her shoulders but best be in the very back row unless you are in a town open to seeing gays in public. Just my thoughts.
As a straight man that has seduced alot of women in my day. Taking it slow is key, The key to any womans heart is though her ears. I usually wait till the 3rd date, the one at my place, and I cook for her, play light music (lovey vibe) and we talk on the couch, which leads to kissing, which leads to other fun things. So yeah sweeten her up first, and you'll be fine.
If you like the girl then go for it. If she turns you down then you know she's not ready to get that serious yet. Just take it slow and when the time is right you and her will both know.
Just go with whatever feels right. Hold her hand or put your arm round her and if she seems comfortable and responsive then you can go further... it's up to you and her.
Have fun!!! =D
well, if i were you i would start doing something...but oh...lesbian...ugh
if you feel that she likes you too, why not?
I can't get a date. can ya'll give me advice?
am i unattractive? ive been to lesbian clubs and never get hit on! or i flirt with them and they never give me the time of day! do i look straight? am i doing something wrong? please help me, i wanna start dating and its getting frustrating. i can't tell u how innocent i am(for real).
p.s. im 22..and gay.
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You need to spruce yourself up a little.
I would give myself more of a girly-girl image with a slight hint of tom-boy which seems to be your style. You have such an advantage over men, you can be creative. men can only chance their hair, shape their eyebrows, sideburns, and clothes. Women can wear dazzling clothes, seductive assories.
1. You need to do something with your hair. I would dye your hair a little bit more red and I would probably wear it back in a pony tail or grow it out. Your hair is pretty fine, I might ask a hair styler what you should do with it.
2. Wearing a t-shirt with some average message on it is boring and dull. You should be wearing something pink and sexy. Or something vintage or expressive. You should NEVER wear anything boring again. You need to take everything out of your wardrobe that isn't dazzling, sexy, or impressive and give it to good will. You need to wear only dazzling clothes that do it for you. Wear a dress or skirt every once in a while. It shows girls that you are actually pretty feminine, many lesbians dream. To experience something feminine but different at the same time.
3. Make up. As a girl you can use make up! You should wear light or heavy make up, whatever you style. You should have atleast a light lip gloss or lip stick on. You should use make up to accent your beautiful eyes. You need to look captivating like a movie star! You need to darken your eyebrows. You need to make sure that you face is a work of art.
4. Expressive jewlry. Another thing women can do is wear jewlrey. Earings, rings, breseletts, necklaces, and other expressive things. Used them sparingly to accent yourself. Other accents should be used such as hair pieces.
5. You need to smile. You need to have confidence. That is the main thing that will draw someone else to you. You need to giggle, laugh, smile, and seem exciting to be around.
Everyone experiences everyday bordem. You need to make sure that you are always expressing yourself! Always bold, always exciting. always charming. This will draw girls to you faster than anything else.I can't get a date. can ya'll give me advice?
Ok im a guy and gay, and I think you have beautiful potentials, with your long curly hair, which you totally need to do something with. Maybe your just need to work on appearance, you have to look like your going out to get someone haha :) simple as that. sure ';I want them to like me for who I am.'; Well they will latter down the road you have to interesting. I think you are attractive and maybe you come on a little to hard. Do you start a casual conversation, ask if they wold like to dance, ect. Talk some more, ask if you will see her again at the club? no matter the answer ask if you can get her number, and if you guys would like to hang out sometime. I donno maybe you need to change your game haha. Or hit up different places. :P
Are you new in town? New to the scene? Sometimes it takes time for people to warm up to you...I don't think it is the way you look - you have beautiful hair and a pretty face. Maybe stop trying so hard, let ppl come to you.
Make some friends, platonic ones, hang with them and relax! They will come to you.
I think you're attractive, you may need to fix those eyebrows though. Maybe it's time for a makeover? Get something done with your hair. I don't mean cut.. long hair is great! I mean styled.
I think you have really pretty eyes. :)
You have nothing to worry about. You have gorgeous hair and a beautiful face.
Why do you wanna look like a lesbian, just be yourself, and if you ask me you are attractive
WHAT!!!?! You're beautiful. Maybe you just aren't meeting the right people.
SMILE! and look straight at the camera. You have nice eyes.
Try hitting on people too! Plus, just because ur at a gay bar doesn't make u gay, I know straight people that have gone....maybe they just don't think ur lezzy
I think you are attractive..idk could be the way that you approach them
you ar e really pretty...
maybe its just not the right time
Lose the hair.
p.s. im 22..and gay.
http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e141/a鈥?/a>I can't get a date. can ya'll give me advice?
You need to spruce yourself up a little.
I would give myself more of a girly-girl image with a slight hint of tom-boy which seems to be your style. You have such an advantage over men, you can be creative. men can only chance their hair, shape their eyebrows, sideburns, and clothes. Women can wear dazzling clothes, seductive assories.
1. You need to do something with your hair. I would dye your hair a little bit more red and I would probably wear it back in a pony tail or grow it out. Your hair is pretty fine, I might ask a hair styler what you should do with it.
2. Wearing a t-shirt with some average message on it is boring and dull. You should be wearing something pink and sexy. Or something vintage or expressive. You should NEVER wear anything boring again. You need to take everything out of your wardrobe that isn't dazzling, sexy, or impressive and give it to good will. You need to wear only dazzling clothes that do it for you. Wear a dress or skirt every once in a while. It shows girls that you are actually pretty feminine, many lesbians dream. To experience something feminine but different at the same time.
3. Make up. As a girl you can use make up! You should wear light or heavy make up, whatever you style. You should have atleast a light lip gloss or lip stick on. You should use make up to accent your beautiful eyes. You need to look captivating like a movie star! You need to darken your eyebrows. You need to make sure that you face is a work of art.
4. Expressive jewlry. Another thing women can do is wear jewlrey. Earings, rings, breseletts, necklaces, and other expressive things. Used them sparingly to accent yourself. Other accents should be used such as hair pieces.
5. You need to smile. You need to have confidence. That is the main thing that will draw someone else to you. You need to giggle, laugh, smile, and seem exciting to be around.
Everyone experiences everyday bordem. You need to make sure that you are always expressing yourself! Always bold, always exciting. always charming. This will draw girls to you faster than anything else.I can't get a date. can ya'll give me advice?
Ok im a guy and gay, and I think you have beautiful potentials, with your long curly hair, which you totally need to do something with. Maybe your just need to work on appearance, you have to look like your going out to get someone haha :) simple as that. sure ';I want them to like me for who I am.'; Well they will latter down the road you have to interesting. I think you are attractive and maybe you come on a little to hard. Do you start a casual conversation, ask if they wold like to dance, ect. Talk some more, ask if you will see her again at the club? no matter the answer ask if you can get her number, and if you guys would like to hang out sometime. I donno maybe you need to change your game haha. Or hit up different places. :P
Are you new in town? New to the scene? Sometimes it takes time for people to warm up to you...I don't think it is the way you look - you have beautiful hair and a pretty face. Maybe stop trying so hard, let ppl come to you.
Make some friends, platonic ones, hang with them and relax! They will come to you.
I think you're attractive, you may need to fix those eyebrows though. Maybe it's time for a makeover? Get something done with your hair. I don't mean cut.. long hair is great! I mean styled.
I think you have really pretty eyes. :)
You have nothing to worry about. You have gorgeous hair and a beautiful face.
Why do you wanna look like a lesbian, just be yourself, and if you ask me you are attractive
WHAT!!!?! You're beautiful. Maybe you just aren't meeting the right people.
SMILE! and look straight at the camera. You have nice eyes.
Try hitting on people too! Plus, just because ur at a gay bar doesn't make u gay, I know straight people that have gone....maybe they just don't think ur lezzy
I think you are attractive..idk could be the way that you approach them
you ar e really pretty...
maybe its just not the right time
Lose the hair.
Uterus measuring larger than due date? 15 weeks measuring @ 18 weeks... advice please?
So, i know its perfectly normal to measure ahead by a week or 2.... mainly later in pregnancy. Well i am officially 15 weeks exactly today and my doctor said my uterus is measuring at 18 weeks... so i'm going back to 2 weeks to see if there is a significant change or not.
Anyways- anyone had this happen? And what was the outcome... my daughter was 9lbs 4oz, and i was measuring 2 weeks behind!Uterus measuring larger than due date? 15 weeks measuring @ 18 weeks... advice please?
Do not be worried. Good that your Doctor checks you in 2 weeks again. You daughter was pretty heavy already but seems you will have a big baby this time.Uterus measuring larger than due date? 15 weeks measuring @ 18 weeks... advice please?
With this pregnancy I was measuring 18 weeks at 16 weeks. Then I went back and they measured be at 17 weeks at 17 weeks?? so sometimes its really hard to tell where the uterus is when you aren't showing a bump yet, you just have to feel around until you find it. Don't worry, my first baby was as big as yours! I wouldn' worry about this one being bigger though, unless you are diabetic, then you're more prone to bigger babies :)
I was the same with my daughter...the doc took her about a week and a half early...she was 8-14...can you imagine if he would have left her in there to cook longer. You will probably have a bigger baby this time or your uterus is just big because you are a multipara...
I've measured 3 weeks ahead my whole pregnancy until now, it's finally just evened out. I wouldn't worry unless the doctor is worried. Some women measure bigger and have normal size babies.
Anyways- anyone had this happen? And what was the outcome... my daughter was 9lbs 4oz, and i was measuring 2 weeks behind!Uterus measuring larger than due date? 15 weeks measuring @ 18 weeks... advice please?
Do not be worried. Good that your Doctor checks you in 2 weeks again. You daughter was pretty heavy already but seems you will have a big baby this time.Uterus measuring larger than due date? 15 weeks measuring @ 18 weeks... advice please?
With this pregnancy I was measuring 18 weeks at 16 weeks. Then I went back and they measured be at 17 weeks at 17 weeks?? so sometimes its really hard to tell where the uterus is when you aren't showing a bump yet, you just have to feel around until you find it. Don't worry, my first baby was as big as yours! I wouldn' worry about this one being bigger though, unless you are diabetic, then you're more prone to bigger babies :)
I was the same with my daughter...the doc took her about a week and a half early...she was 8-14...can you imagine if he would have left her in there to cook longer. You will probably have a bigger baby this time or your uterus is just big because you are a multipara...
I've measured 3 weeks ahead my whole pregnancy until now, it's finally just evened out. I wouldn't worry unless the doctor is worried. Some women measure bigger and have normal size babies.
I'm going on a date; do any women have hair advice?
I'm going on a date with this girl on Thursday. I'm having trouble picking out a hairstyle that would look good with someone who has my facial structure. Could you help me out?
Here's several pictures of me:
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http://www.flickr.com/photos/angelicrising/3963712735/I'm going on a date; do any women have hair advice?
maybe try spiky hair
Here's several pictures of me:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/angelicrising/3964488148/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/angelicrising/3964488068/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/angelicrising/3963712813/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/angelicrising/3963712735/I'm going on a date; do any women have hair advice?
maybe try spiky hair
Have you ever given your ex dating advice?
This is kind of weird. My husband and I have been seperated for a year and a half. We are getting divorced as soon as we get the money to and things have been quite civil. He asked me to help him interpet some signals from a girl he is interested in. And I did honestly.
Has anyone been in this situation before? How did it turn out?Have you ever given your ex dating advice?
Yes definitely! I am not going to lie, I always tell my ex to try to work it out with his girlfriend because she is the only person that keeps him out of my face!Have you ever given your ex dating advice?
I am still good friends with a few of my ex boyfriends. I give them advice like I give anyone advice when I am asked for it. My husband and I are the only couple that has remained happily married. All of our friends who got married when we did have divorced and some are on their second marriages. We are often solicited for advice.
Sure have - Silent Enjoyment. All it does is make confirmation that my decision was right ;)
I've been married 9 years and I am still in touch with an ex. I have given him dating advice from a woman's perspective.
Nothing wrong with it, as long as you are both clear on where you stand.
No. I don't talk to my ex.
Your husband should be a man, and at least wait til the divorce is final before starting to date.
That's mho...
yea i have done it, it turned out good i tell all my ex's just because we are not together you can still come to me when you have a problem
No, but I guess he has moved on all right without you. I guess you are fine with the divorce, and you have no problems with him as a friend now. Nice way to be is civil, and do your best to keep that perspective. Think perhaps you should move on keeping busy and focused on the reality of being without him in your life. (or the main force for the time you were together)
my ex wife asked me to talk to her boyfriend and teach him how to bring her to orgasm. i laughed so hard, i pee'd in my pants.
That would be really weird! Although, I am thinking of it in terms of me and my husband, and we are not planning to divorce...so I can't see that. But in all honesty, there has been times when I wish I could just sit down with an ex boyfriend from the past and explain to him why he can't keep a girlfriend! I think that if you two are to that point of being good friends, and can both handle speaking to eachother about those thing... if you are comfortable with it I don't see why it should be a problem. But I would say, just because he asked you and you are okay with it... doesn't necessarily mean he would be okay with it if it was reversed.
Perhaps this is a clue to why your marriage fell apart. So you might want to consider why you are giving him advice. Often in marriage we begin with a romance in which both partners are in the best most comfortable and empowered part of their being. The man in the role of leader, provider, and physical dominant partner...this is his strength and where he feels most fulfilled as a man. The woman in the role of the maker of the home, who can lean but lend a voice in affairs, whose strength lies in the essence of her femininity, intuition and perception. She deferrs to him, for he is the leader.
Over time, in our society this shifts and when it does the man and the woman might become equals. The problem is that the romance and passion disappear as she becomes his equal, and the leadership is shared, so she no longer defers to him and he loses his strength and virility in the role of the masculine. She loses her attractive femininity because she is no longer asking for his help. Passion is gone, and it becomes a mother son relationship.
That is what you have got.
I did.
I even ended up being friends with his GF, too - and giving her advice about him, too.
Sometimes it was painful, initially. But I wanted him to be happy, so I gave him my honest opinion on what to do/how to fix it.
I haven't given my ex dating advice.......but I've asked him for his opinion on things.....
Weird I know......
Has anyone been in this situation before? How did it turn out?Have you ever given your ex dating advice?
Yes definitely! I am not going to lie, I always tell my ex to try to work it out with his girlfriend because she is the only person that keeps him out of my face!Have you ever given your ex dating advice?
I am still good friends with a few of my ex boyfriends. I give them advice like I give anyone advice when I am asked for it. My husband and I are the only couple that has remained happily married. All of our friends who got married when we did have divorced and some are on their second marriages. We are often solicited for advice.
Sure have - Silent Enjoyment. All it does is make confirmation that my decision was right ;)
I've been married 9 years and I am still in touch with an ex. I have given him dating advice from a woman's perspective.
Nothing wrong with it, as long as you are both clear on where you stand.
No. I don't talk to my ex.
Your husband should be a man, and at least wait til the divorce is final before starting to date.
That's mho...
yea i have done it, it turned out good i tell all my ex's just because we are not together you can still come to me when you have a problem
No, but I guess he has moved on all right without you. I guess you are fine with the divorce, and you have no problems with him as a friend now. Nice way to be is civil, and do your best to keep that perspective. Think perhaps you should move on keeping busy and focused on the reality of being without him in your life. (or the main force for the time you were together)
my ex wife asked me to talk to her boyfriend and teach him how to bring her to orgasm. i laughed so hard, i pee'd in my pants.
That would be really weird! Although, I am thinking of it in terms of me and my husband, and we are not planning to divorce...so I can't see that. But in all honesty, there has been times when I wish I could just sit down with an ex boyfriend from the past and explain to him why he can't keep a girlfriend! I think that if you two are to that point of being good friends, and can both handle speaking to eachother about those thing... if you are comfortable with it I don't see why it should be a problem. But I would say, just because he asked you and you are okay with it... doesn't necessarily mean he would be okay with it if it was reversed.
Perhaps this is a clue to why your marriage fell apart. So you might want to consider why you are giving him advice. Often in marriage we begin with a romance in which both partners are in the best most comfortable and empowered part of their being. The man in the role of leader, provider, and physical dominant partner...this is his strength and where he feels most fulfilled as a man. The woman in the role of the maker of the home, who can lean but lend a voice in affairs, whose strength lies in the essence of her femininity, intuition and perception. She deferrs to him, for he is the leader.
Over time, in our society this shifts and when it does the man and the woman might become equals. The problem is that the romance and passion disappear as she becomes his equal, and the leadership is shared, so she no longer defers to him and he loses his strength and virility in the role of the masculine. She loses her attractive femininity because she is no longer asking for his help. Passion is gone, and it becomes a mother son relationship.
That is what you have got.
I did.
I even ended up being friends with his GF, too - and giving her advice about him, too.
Sometimes it was painful, initially. But I wanted him to be happy, so I gave him my honest opinion on what to do/how to fix it.
I haven't given my ex dating advice.......but I've asked him for his opinion on things.....
Weird I know......
Shy teenage guys, what advice would u have for an outgoing girl trying to date you?
Ahh!, i need your help, i like this shy guy, who said he liked me a few weeks ago but it seems to me hes starting to loose interest..how do i snap the trap and get the guy?
Any tips will help thanks :)Shy teenage guys, what advice would u have for an outgoing girl trying to date you?
With guys it's usually about being macho. I've seen these methods work pretty well in high school. Ask his friends to ';egg him on'; and ask you out. Among guys that's usually the way to do it otherwise he'll never do it himself. Or you could try to setup a double date, get your best friend to ask his best friend to see if he can help you out.
Just don't ask him out yourself, it's social suicide for the guy and he'll be emasculated by his peers for a very long time.Shy teenage guys, what advice would u have for an outgoing girl trying to date you?
be outgoing and talk to him even if he's slow at the beginning
wow snap the trap probably isnt the right way to look at it but with shy guys that are completely too socially akward to make the first move you should probably take it upon yourself. make it obviously that you like him too.
Any tips will help thanks :)Shy teenage guys, what advice would u have for an outgoing girl trying to date you?
With guys it's usually about being macho. I've seen these methods work pretty well in high school. Ask his friends to ';egg him on'; and ask you out. Among guys that's usually the way to do it otherwise he'll never do it himself. Or you could try to setup a double date, get your best friend to ask his best friend to see if he can help you out.
Just don't ask him out yourself, it's social suicide for the guy and he'll be emasculated by his peers for a very long time.Shy teenage guys, what advice would u have for an outgoing girl trying to date you?
be outgoing and talk to him even if he's slow at the beginning
wow snap the trap probably isnt the right way to look at it but with shy guys that are completely too socially akward to make the first move you should probably take it upon yourself. make it obviously that you like him too.
I need advice on keeping the men I date.?
There is this guy I like but I think I am losing him.What do I have to do to keep him interested. Please help me with this problem, it's not the first time it has happen.I need advice on keeping the men I date.?
tell him your fantasies.I need advice on keeping the men I date.?
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tell him your fantasies.I need advice on keeping the men I date.?
you shouldn\'t worry about it . just be cool, funny, smart and he won\'t have a reason to leave
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Advice for dating in university?
I will be a freshman in college next year, I was just wondering are there any advices for dating and meeting new people in college. I need to have good grades for grad school, so I won't be able to party 24/7. Should I hold off dating till after first year? any advice would help!
Thanks in advance!Advice for dating in university?
Dating doesnt have to mean partying ;)
Date whenever you want I'd say. When you ask for a girls number in uni, be direct about it, as people are in a rush and have classes to get to.
If you want to date a girl in your specific group, and you see her on a regular basis, take it slow. Build rapport etc, then after a few weeks ask for her number and tell her you should catch up outside class or something/
Good luck!Advice for dating in university?
Small campus vs. Big campus
Small campus: rumors will spread fast. regardless who you talk to of the opposite sex, people will think automatically that you two have ';done stuff';
Big campus: you will get lost in the crowd and it's harder to get noticed, which is actually good because that is rumor control
IMO first 2weeksbe real social when no one knows anybody, that i think is key. college really isn't that hard at all, go to ratemyprofessors.com pick easy people. and major in business, you will be screwed to find a job in most other majors. trust me.
hold off dating no, hold off partying the first year yes because it is easy to fall in the trap of partying and get side tracked...college is all about meeting new people and you should do just that...
Just like high school, but with more mature people. Maybe ;)
-kenny
Yeah just have casual friends for your first year so you can focus.
Thanks in advance!Advice for dating in university?
Dating doesnt have to mean partying ;)
Date whenever you want I'd say. When you ask for a girls number in uni, be direct about it, as people are in a rush and have classes to get to.
If you want to date a girl in your specific group, and you see her on a regular basis, take it slow. Build rapport etc, then after a few weeks ask for her number and tell her you should catch up outside class or something/
Good luck!Advice for dating in university?
Small campus vs. Big campus
Small campus: rumors will spread fast. regardless who you talk to of the opposite sex, people will think automatically that you two have ';done stuff';
Big campus: you will get lost in the crowd and it's harder to get noticed, which is actually good because that is rumor control
IMO first 2weeksbe real social when no one knows anybody, that i think is key. college really isn't that hard at all, go to ratemyprofessors.com pick easy people. and major in business, you will be screwed to find a job in most other majors. trust me.
hold off dating no, hold off partying the first year yes because it is easy to fall in the trap of partying and get side tracked...college is all about meeting new people and you should do just that...
Just like high school, but with more mature people. Maybe ;)
-kenny
Yeah just have casual friends for your first year so you can focus.
Going out on a date tonight. Please I need some advice?
I am meeting up with a guy tonight who i started dating and im not sure what to think/how to act. Sorry it's a bit long.
Everything was going well and he was happy and said that he liked me, is pleased that he met me etc. Then he freaked out and said that he needs time etc. He said that im not to worry and i have not done anything wrong. messaged him, apologised, said that i like him, care about him and that im happy to take things slower and spend some time having fun and getting to know him more. He said that would be nice, he does care about me and that i have made him happy.
I messaged him yesterday because before all this happend we arranged to meet up tonight Wednesday. I casually message him, asking how he was, said no pressure! would you still like to hang out tomorrow as planned.
He said that we can if i like, what would i like to do? I replied saying we can stick to the original plan or we can meet in town if he is not comftable meeting at his. He replied saying that it's fine, that way we can talk in private and just watch a dvd or something.
Im just nervous about tonight tho and how i should act around him. Do you think we are still dating? Can i kiss him and hug him? What should i say? Does he still like me?
I am worried about screwing up and pushing him away. I do want to give it a go and im happy to go slow but im worried that he is scared to say no to me. I have also txt him four times now saying i mean it when i say no pressure and that we can take it slow. I am scared of loosing him and really need guy's and girls opinions on this!!Going out on a date tonight. Please I need some advice?
First I want to say that you're doing a great job on reassuring him that you don't mind taking things slow, that's good. That is the best thing to do with a person like him. He still likes you but apparently he's either had a point in his life where things were rushed and he got hurt or both ppl did or he just wants to prevent himself from being hurt by going slow. I don't think kissing him would be a good thing to do tho, not in this case...a hug will do perfectly. Make small talk...avoid talking about serious stuff such as religion or the future or things like that. For this particular meet up between you two, things need to be light and airy. Be humorous and if you don't think you're funny and aren't good in the humor department...attempt at some humor anyways...sometimes guys will just get a kick out of hearing bad humor because they know you're trying. Whatever you do though DON'T act awkward...just be normal...whenever one person is feeling and acting awkward it rubs off on the ppl around you and then things can get extremely uncomfortable. Well, I hope this helped and I hope that things go well for you tonight!! :)Going out on a date tonight. Please I need some advice?
Ok, i know how you feel.. But, what i think you should do is, Stop texting him so much. I think your giving him the idea that your his ';play thing'; and whatever he says goes.. I know you really like the guy, But if he says he needs space, Give him space. Don't try to hug or kiss him or anything tonight, Let him make the start move! I think yall are ';dating'; but your not boyfriend\girlfriend.. I think it's safe to say your single.. But, i think you need to tell him how you feel and if he doesn't feel the same, give it some more time. And if nothing happens, move on girl!
Good Luck tonight!
Hope I Helped!
Everything was going well and he was happy and said that he liked me, is pleased that he met me etc. Then he freaked out and said that he needs time etc. He said that im not to worry and i have not done anything wrong. messaged him, apologised, said that i like him, care about him and that im happy to take things slower and spend some time having fun and getting to know him more. He said that would be nice, he does care about me and that i have made him happy.
I messaged him yesterday because before all this happend we arranged to meet up tonight Wednesday. I casually message him, asking how he was, said no pressure! would you still like to hang out tomorrow as planned.
He said that we can if i like, what would i like to do? I replied saying we can stick to the original plan or we can meet in town if he is not comftable meeting at his. He replied saying that it's fine, that way we can talk in private and just watch a dvd or something.
Im just nervous about tonight tho and how i should act around him. Do you think we are still dating? Can i kiss him and hug him? What should i say? Does he still like me?
I am worried about screwing up and pushing him away. I do want to give it a go and im happy to go slow but im worried that he is scared to say no to me. I have also txt him four times now saying i mean it when i say no pressure and that we can take it slow. I am scared of loosing him and really need guy's and girls opinions on this!!Going out on a date tonight. Please I need some advice?
First I want to say that you're doing a great job on reassuring him that you don't mind taking things slow, that's good. That is the best thing to do with a person like him. He still likes you but apparently he's either had a point in his life where things were rushed and he got hurt or both ppl did or he just wants to prevent himself from being hurt by going slow. I don't think kissing him would be a good thing to do tho, not in this case...a hug will do perfectly. Make small talk...avoid talking about serious stuff such as religion or the future or things like that. For this particular meet up between you two, things need to be light and airy. Be humorous and if you don't think you're funny and aren't good in the humor department...attempt at some humor anyways...sometimes guys will just get a kick out of hearing bad humor because they know you're trying. Whatever you do though DON'T act awkward...just be normal...whenever one person is feeling and acting awkward it rubs off on the ppl around you and then things can get extremely uncomfortable. Well, I hope this helped and I hope that things go well for you tonight!! :)Going out on a date tonight. Please I need some advice?
Ok, i know how you feel.. But, what i think you should do is, Stop texting him so much. I think your giving him the idea that your his ';play thing'; and whatever he says goes.. I know you really like the guy, But if he says he needs space, Give him space. Don't try to hug or kiss him or anything tonight, Let him make the start move! I think yall are ';dating'; but your not boyfriend\girlfriend.. I think it's safe to say your single.. But, i think you need to tell him how you feel and if he doesn't feel the same, give it some more time. And if nothing happens, move on girl!
Good Luck tonight!
Hope I Helped!
Going on a 2nd date in like 2 hours need some advice!!?
Ok went out with a girl a first time, we went to a pool hall went okay night ended with a hug nothing to spectacular.. But tonight we are going to a bowling alley and i just want to know what are some thing you guts and girls would think would be some good things to do to signify i really like her and some good compliments i can tell her when we first meet up??
Thanks in advance!Going on a 2nd date in like 2 hours need some advice!!?
then take her to the park after bowling, held her hand and whisper in her ear softly ';i think i am in love with u....';Going on a 2nd date in like 2 hours need some advice!!?
When you first meet her comment on nice she looks, be subtle . When you part after the evening say how much you enjoyed her company.
DON'T, and I repeat, DON'T go to a bowling alley. NOt when you went to a poolhall for a first date. Take her somewhere potentially romantic. Damn, are you clueless? Take her to dinner in a nice, dimly lit restaurant first!
compliments, sit by her, touch her when talking to her (arm, back etc..)
Good luck
im just here for the points
Hmm just be confident, that makes women attracted to men, confidence and if you like her, you want her to be attracted to you. its your second date and she agreed so thats a plus =)
Don't be overly giving with compliments, it can seem corny just compliment her on something different, like her sunglasses or handbag or a little detail. men usually dont notice these little things woman do spend time on, so if you bring it to attention, and its not something she's heard before like ';nice eyes'; she will be intriqued. Good luck!
Don't compliment her. - All that does is tip the scales in her favor and out of yours. She'll feel she can get away with anything if you give her the indication
Just go out there and bowl, have some conversation, and enjoy yourself in a non date context. This kind of situation would really be better if you were with friends. A 1on1 bowling date -as the whole date- is really not the way to go unless you really don't care (which you shouldn't anyway).
give her some flowers or something. be extra nice to her. flirt! :D
well when she talks to you look her straight in the eyes so she knows ur interested and make her laugh i love it when guys make me laugh and cheer her on even if she gets a gutter ball so she doesnt feel like your better then she is girls need to feel secure!! any way good luck on your date if you need any more advice let me know
-GIRL-
Don't over do it with the compliements , if she looks nice just say you look really nice..
Don't compliment every move she will think your either desperate or fake. Be the same way you were on the 1st date it got you a second one did'nt it..
just make her feel as comfortable as possible and make sure if they have a picture booth take a picture for memory
tell her she looks nice
and try kissing her tonight
say hey you look great....then she will fall in love.....then when she does good challenge her that you will win and then say whoever wins gets to do blah blah and then let her win..
you HAve to open the door for her, it may seem small but it really look like you are a great guy. if its your second date she does like you, or she wouldnt be on the date in the first place, just look at her and smile and have fun that is pretty much the best you can do
When she walks up to you or you to her, look right into her eyes. Make her feel like the only girl; in the room. Smile at her. After a minute tell her how pretty she is. Almays make eye contact. Hold her hand. Make her laugh (no cheesy jokes) and give her a kiss on the cheek. Have fun and be yourself. thats the most important thing! Good luck
First thing tell her how great she looks. Be a gentleman, girls really like it. At the end of the night kiss her cheek, she will let you know if you have the green light for a better kiss yet. If you really like her take it slow.
Tell her she bowls like a pro. Tell her you have never seen anything sexier than a girl in a pair of rented bowling shoes. Tell her there is nothing you like better than a girl who knows how to throw a gutter ball with such style.
Honestly...do you really think phony lines work? How about telling her something from the heart, when it strikes you.
As cliche as it sounds, be yourself. Tell her she is looking great - if you mean it. Just make sure she is completely comfortable with you.
Give her a big hug if she gets a strike, maybe kiss her on the cheek. Or get down on your knee and kiss her hand if she gets a strike. And of course give her a high five and kind of squeeze her hand when she comes back to the seating area after her turn. Bowling is so much fun! Good luck!
do u believe in love at first sight or should i walk by again ? thats the best pick up line haha
Thanks in advance!Going on a 2nd date in like 2 hours need some advice!!?
then take her to the park after bowling, held her hand and whisper in her ear softly ';i think i am in love with u....';Going on a 2nd date in like 2 hours need some advice!!?
When you first meet her comment on nice she looks, be subtle . When you part after the evening say how much you enjoyed her company.
DON'T, and I repeat, DON'T go to a bowling alley. NOt when you went to a poolhall for a first date. Take her somewhere potentially romantic. Damn, are you clueless? Take her to dinner in a nice, dimly lit restaurant first!
compliments, sit by her, touch her when talking to her (arm, back etc..)
Good luck
im just here for the points
Hmm just be confident, that makes women attracted to men, confidence and if you like her, you want her to be attracted to you. its your second date and she agreed so thats a plus =)
Don't be overly giving with compliments, it can seem corny just compliment her on something different, like her sunglasses or handbag or a little detail. men usually dont notice these little things woman do spend time on, so if you bring it to attention, and its not something she's heard before like ';nice eyes'; she will be intriqued. Good luck!
Don't compliment her. - All that does is tip the scales in her favor and out of yours. She'll feel she can get away with anything if you give her the indication
Just go out there and bowl, have some conversation, and enjoy yourself in a non date context. This kind of situation would really be better if you were with friends. A 1on1 bowling date -as the whole date- is really not the way to go unless you really don't care (which you shouldn't anyway).
give her some flowers or something. be extra nice to her. flirt! :D
well when she talks to you look her straight in the eyes so she knows ur interested and make her laugh i love it when guys make me laugh and cheer her on even if she gets a gutter ball so she doesnt feel like your better then she is girls need to feel secure!! any way good luck on your date if you need any more advice let me know
-GIRL-
Don't over do it with the compliements , if she looks nice just say you look really nice..
Don't compliment every move she will think your either desperate or fake. Be the same way you were on the 1st date it got you a second one did'nt it..
just make her feel as comfortable as possible and make sure if they have a picture booth take a picture for memory
tell her she looks nice
and try kissing her tonight
say hey you look great....then she will fall in love.....then when she does good challenge her that you will win and then say whoever wins gets to do blah blah and then let her win..
you HAve to open the door for her, it may seem small but it really look like you are a great guy. if its your second date she does like you, or she wouldnt be on the date in the first place, just look at her and smile and have fun that is pretty much the best you can do
When she walks up to you or you to her, look right into her eyes. Make her feel like the only girl; in the room. Smile at her. After a minute tell her how pretty she is. Almays make eye contact. Hold her hand. Make her laugh (no cheesy jokes) and give her a kiss on the cheek. Have fun and be yourself. thats the most important thing! Good luck
First thing tell her how great she looks. Be a gentleman, girls really like it. At the end of the night kiss her cheek, she will let you know if you have the green light for a better kiss yet. If you really like her take it slow.
Tell her she bowls like a pro. Tell her you have never seen anything sexier than a girl in a pair of rented bowling shoes. Tell her there is nothing you like better than a girl who knows how to throw a gutter ball with such style.
Honestly...do you really think phony lines work? How about telling her something from the heart, when it strikes you.
As cliche as it sounds, be yourself. Tell her she is looking great - if you mean it. Just make sure she is completely comfortable with you.
Give her a big hug if she gets a strike, maybe kiss her on the cheek. Or get down on your knee and kiss her hand if she gets a strike. And of course give her a high five and kind of squeeze her hand when she comes back to the seating area after her turn. Bowling is so much fun! Good luck!
do u believe in love at first sight or should i walk by again ? thats the best pick up line haha
Looking for dating advice, Please help鈥?
I am new to dating, I just got divorced because she fell in love with someone else. Anyways, I am looking for ideals on where to start. Are there any free dating web-sits that are any good? Are there any good places to go to besides the bar? I am looking for any good advice. Thanks Looking for dating advice, Please help鈥?
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A good way is to go out with a mate, you bring some friends and he brings some friends, and you can meet new people like that.
try going to places you like to go find someone thereLooking for dating advice, Please help鈥?
A good way is to go out with a mate, you bring some friends and he brings some friends, and you can meet new people like that.
Ive been dating online for a year without getting past one date ..can anyone offer me some advice?
Im a single female aged 44 with no children. Ive had a couple of longterm relationships since the death of my partner 10yrs ago.
I rent a room as i could never afford to get on the property ladder ..my late partner and i had rented our place before he died.
Im beginning to feel this is the reason guys dont want to make any further communication with me once they know my personal circumstances..it appears to be about what you have in material worth than who you are as a person.
I work full time ..not in debt ..own my own car ..lead a full life and would dearly love to meet a man ..not to rescue me rather to enhance both our lives with the love and qualities i have to bring to a relationship.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and respond if you choose to.Ive been dating online for a year without getting past one date ..can anyone offer me some advice?
I know plenty of guys who are single that are at your age. How? They all go to my church. You should try going to a good church that have a singles ministry. I'm going to one right now, and I met a girl last night. She was really cool....Ive been dating online for a year without getting past one date ..can anyone offer me some advice?
Yes, singles ministries are wonderful if there are some in your area. Even at your age, guys can be extremely immature. You will find the right one for you! Make sure you are being completely honest with these men when you are chatting on line.
Maybe you can go this good site called LoveBiker to find your perfect match.
I rent a room as i could never afford to get on the property ladder ..my late partner and i had rented our place before he died.
Im beginning to feel this is the reason guys dont want to make any further communication with me once they know my personal circumstances..it appears to be about what you have in material worth than who you are as a person.
I work full time ..not in debt ..own my own car ..lead a full life and would dearly love to meet a man ..not to rescue me rather to enhance both our lives with the love and qualities i have to bring to a relationship.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and respond if you choose to.Ive been dating online for a year without getting past one date ..can anyone offer me some advice?
I know plenty of guys who are single that are at your age. How? They all go to my church. You should try going to a good church that have a singles ministry. I'm going to one right now, and I met a girl last night. She was really cool....Ive been dating online for a year without getting past one date ..can anyone offer me some advice?
Yes, singles ministries are wonderful if there are some in your area. Even at your age, guys can be extremely immature. You will find the right one for you! Make sure you are being completely honest with these men when you are chatting on line.
Maybe you can go this good site called LoveBiker to find your perfect match.
Does he want to date me or not!! Need some advice asap!?
Me and this girl liked the same guy. He told her he didn't like her and he liked me. She now hates me even though I am nice to her. She says that she is still going to try and date him. Well since he knows I liked and vice versa I thought we would be going on a date by now. He flirts but doesn't ask me. 1.What is wrong?!? 2.How can I get him ask me out when he is shy??
3. How can I/should I handle the other girl situation? Does he want to date me or not!! Need some advice asap!?
Thanks for clearly explaining the situation and specifically identfying your questions!
';1.What is wrong?!? 3. How can I/should I handle the other girl situation?';
You have a friend who is jealous. You can't make her be not jealous. It is out of your control. Just treat her with kindness and respect.
';2.How can I get him ask me out when he is shy??';
You can't make him ask you out. Why don't you ask him out? Do it directly. Find a non-threatening activity and out with it. ';Would you like to come to the tree-lighting with me next Saturday?'; ';I would love some company helping pack food boxes at the food bank.'; ';They have folk dancing lessons at the grange Saturday nights. Would you like to try it out with me?';
Why do you think he is shy? Maybe he isn't interested in dating. (Not interested in dating is very different from not interested in *you*.) You don't say how old you are, but many boys in high school aren't interested in dating, even though he might truly find you interesting, beautiful, cute, intelligent, etc.
Perhaps he has no money to take you out. Or no car.
When I was in high school an attractive girl was interested in me, but I found her of low morals and poor character. She was cute, but I wasn't interested.how to apply
3. How can I/should I handle the other girl situation? Does he want to date me or not!! Need some advice asap!?
Thanks for clearly explaining the situation and specifically identfying your questions!
';1.What is wrong?!? 3. How can I/should I handle the other girl situation?';
You have a friend who is jealous. You can't make her be not jealous. It is out of your control. Just treat her with kindness and respect.
';2.How can I get him ask me out when he is shy??';
You can't make him ask you out. Why don't you ask him out? Do it directly. Find a non-threatening activity and out with it. ';Would you like to come to the tree-lighting with me next Saturday?'; ';I would love some company helping pack food boxes at the food bank.'; ';They have folk dancing lessons at the grange Saturday nights. Would you like to try it out with me?';
Why do you think he is shy? Maybe he isn't interested in dating. (Not interested in dating is very different from not interested in *you*.) You don't say how old you are, but many boys in high school aren't interested in dating, even though he might truly find you interesting, beautiful, cute, intelligent, etc.
Perhaps he has no money to take you out. Or no car.
When I was in high school an attractive girl was interested in me, but I found her of low morals and poor character. She was cute, but I wasn't interested.
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