he's younger than me...five years...i'm now 31 and i just ask him to meet me...what should i wear and what should i say...since he is too cool in chatNeed advice... i m meeting my chat date?
xDNeed advice... i m meeting my chat date?
wear what you would normally wear , be nice and hope for the best,also meet in a public place , anyone can chat cool,good luck hope it works out
Well be aware that even if you see his picture..we all do it.. (we pick the best look or picture of us) so hes not going to look 100% like he does in his picture sometimes he may look better ...but it will work out
um try to wear stuff that matches how you talk in chat
if your sexy and fun in chat wear a cocktail dress or if your fun loving and open wear a tee shirt jeans or maybe even a nice sweater?? good luck :)
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Japanese dating and etiquette advice?
I want to ask a Japanese foreign exchange student out on a date. However, I want to do this in a non-threatening and as polite way as possible. I am studying Japanese, however, this is a topic obviously not covered very well in a textbook or not at all.
Is there anything I should do or not do to be polite and considerate to her culture?Japanese dating and etiquette advice?
Don't chew gum when meeting someone for the first time. There are a lot of things that apply in Japan, but I don't know about them in America. Just be respectful and polite like you were taught.Japanese dating and etiquette advice?
The Japanese find gentle touching of non-sexual body parts to be comforting even with acquaintances and potential boyfriends. Try stroking her arm gently and nonsexually or tap her neck to convey a more friendly presence. They also like little gifts to celebrate a new friendship. Wrap it in some simple but elegant tissue paper or if possible an ornate napkin
Is there anything I should do or not do to be polite and considerate to her culture?Japanese dating and etiquette advice?
Don't chew gum when meeting someone for the first time. There are a lot of things that apply in Japan, but I don't know about them in America. Just be respectful and polite like you were taught.Japanese dating and etiquette advice?
The Japanese find gentle touching of non-sexual body parts to be comforting even with acquaintances and potential boyfriends. Try stroking her arm gently and nonsexually or tap her neck to convey a more friendly presence. They also like little gifts to celebrate a new friendship. Wrap it in some simple but elegant tissue paper or if possible an ornate napkin
What is your advice to a very sensitive person that is afraid to date or even have a close relationship with?
a woman?What is your advice to a very sensitive person that is afraid to date or even have a close relationship with?
stay singleWhat is your advice to a very sensitive person that is afraid to date or even have a close relationship with?
wow. that u havve to take a chance... U'll never ride a wave it u don't catch it. Everyone gets their heart broken one time or another but u could fall n love to it's like playing the lottery I guess. take a chance... just b careful with ur heart.
You need to move past the insecurity, or you'll either always be single or have an unsatisfying relationship. You have to take risks in life or you'll never get anywhere. Maybe try counseling or some sort of support group.
She does not need any advice! When nature is ready, the person will be there and she will do what ever.
No one can force another to care, neither can you stop someone from caring!
stay singleWhat is your advice to a very sensitive person that is afraid to date or even have a close relationship with?
wow. that u havve to take a chance... U'll never ride a wave it u don't catch it. Everyone gets their heart broken one time or another but u could fall n love to it's like playing the lottery I guess. take a chance... just b careful with ur heart.
You need to move past the insecurity, or you'll either always be single or have an unsatisfying relationship. You have to take risks in life or you'll never get anywhere. Maybe try counseling or some sort of support group.
She does not need any advice! When nature is ready, the person will be there and she will do what ever.
No one can force another to care, neither can you stop someone from caring!
Under dating advice from the late president Theodore Roosevelt, should I speak softly but carry a big stick?
Just be careful when you charge up her San Juan Hill. This could be a slippery slope.Under dating advice from the late president Theodore Roosevelt, should I speak softly but carry a big stick?
hahahahahahhahahahaahha!!!!!!!! yes u shud, that is the best pesidential quote iv ever heard!rotflmfaoUnder dating advice from the late president Theodore Roosevelt, should I speak softly but carry a big stick?
By all means, if you have a big stick carry it!!!
lol Prob'ly would be wise. You never can tell...
I've never had to carry my big stick. Make sure yours is firmly attached.
hahahahahahhahahahaahha!!!!!!!! yes u shud, that is the best pesidential quote iv ever heard!rotflmfaoUnder dating advice from the late president Theodore Roosevelt, should I speak softly but carry a big stick?
By all means, if you have a big stick carry it!!!
lol Prob'ly would be wise. You never can tell...
I've never had to carry my big stick. Make sure yours is firmly attached.
Ladies would you date this tall guy please give advice to be more beautiful ?
And one more thing, what country is his parents/blood/ansestors from etc if you can make out?... if he is ugly please be specific why and what can be done to improve, the hair is covered now but its straight short milatary cut.
http://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn180/johnpsalm/JKJKJKJJKJ.jpg
http://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn180/johnpsalm/jijopkok.jpgLadies would you date this tall guy please give advice to be more beautiful ?
heck no!!!!!!!!!! hes U G L Y!!!!Ladies would you date this tall guy please give advice to be more beautiful ?
i think he should keep his face clean enough, because its the healthiest way of beauty.
he has to wear colorful clothes, to show his skin colour.
military cut may look good for this guy i think.
he should have some accessories that he can combine with his clothes.
he has to attract people with those things, because he's not so handsome enough, and his face skin doesn't look so good.
anyway,that's my mind. :)
I actually think he is quite handsome, he needs to clear up his acne a little, but it's really not that bad. His poses 4 the pics r good and he looks intelligent. He is strong. with strong features and nice eyes. I can't tell much about him from his looks but YOUR screen name tells me a lot (even though your not him). Khristos or Kristos are both names meaning Christ or Christ-giver and they are greek in origin... Maybe he, too, could have some greek in him? He could totally be a Spartan warrior! :D
heya
i wouldn't date him but i would if maybe he took of his bandana, and maybe made himself a bit smaller as in lose the some of the muscle as it makes you look quite scary. i'd say he was american and carribean.
i would'nt date the dude, because
he's not my type, but some other
girls will. .... mabey? uhm, he needs
to like stop wearing those bandana
things, and like, get rid of those marks
on his face somehow.
He's scary!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
answer mine, pretty please?
No, I wouldn't
he looks pretty old...
His eyebrows are gray which gives me an impression that his hair is gray....
He looks really buff and kind of frightening, intimidating.
u r hispanic or half black. and r u like 30-35 years old?
not even if someone paid me. plastic surgery might helphow to apply
http://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn180/johnpsalm/JKJKJKJJKJ.jpg
http://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn180/johnpsalm/jijopkok.jpgLadies would you date this tall guy please give advice to be more beautiful ?
heck no!!!!!!!!!! hes U G L Y!!!!Ladies would you date this tall guy please give advice to be more beautiful ?
i think he should keep his face clean enough, because its the healthiest way of beauty.
he has to wear colorful clothes, to show his skin colour.
military cut may look good for this guy i think.
he should have some accessories that he can combine with his clothes.
he has to attract people with those things, because he's not so handsome enough, and his face skin doesn't look so good.
anyway,that's my mind. :)
I actually think he is quite handsome, he needs to clear up his acne a little, but it's really not that bad. His poses 4 the pics r good and he looks intelligent. He is strong. with strong features and nice eyes. I can't tell much about him from his looks but YOUR screen name tells me a lot (even though your not him). Khristos or Kristos are both names meaning Christ or Christ-giver and they are greek in origin... Maybe he, too, could have some greek in him? He could totally be a Spartan warrior! :D
heya
i wouldn't date him but i would if maybe he took of his bandana, and maybe made himself a bit smaller as in lose the some of the muscle as it makes you look quite scary. i'd say he was american and carribean.
i would'nt date the dude, because
he's not my type, but some other
girls will. .... mabey? uhm, he needs
to like stop wearing those bandana
things, and like, get rid of those marks
on his face somehow.
He's scary!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
answer mine, pretty please?
No, I wouldn't
he looks pretty old...
His eyebrows are gray which gives me an impression that his hair is gray....
He looks really buff and kind of frightening, intimidating.
u r hispanic or half black. and r u like 30-35 years old?
not even if someone paid me. plastic surgery might help
Going on a date with a super hottie! need advice!?
we're just going to the local carnival.
but we're going to different high schools and im not gonna see him as often and i really like him.
Yeah i know, be myself, and i will... just with an extra tang :] haha
should i do like.. in that john tucker movie and kinda be like... w/e.
or should i be more energetic and scream on rides and ask questions and blah.
and i have really short hair... so what can do with it?
theres a picture of it...http://i274.photobucket.com/albums/jj279/pooxxbutt120592/5-6M9FORSYTH_embedded_prod_affil-13.jpg
im the one with the shirt that says Brandy, GymanstGoing on a date with a super hottie! need advice!?
You're cute and look unaffected by having your pic taken, you're a natural, whatever feels right at the time just do it.Going on a date with a super hottie! need advice!?
The absoulte smartest thing you can do is just be mean to her, and treat her like crap. Honestly, no one does that to her and she will just become very interested in you without you having to change anything about yourself. Treat her like a fat ugly girl who wont leave you alone. And she will stick to you like glue
From a guys point of view, just don't do anything you wouldn't normally do. We hate that fake stuff. What you have to realize is that he isn't going to be the only hot dude in the world and you will find plenty of really nice guys in your lifetime. So if it bombs, it bombs. No shame in that. And don't change who you are to make somebody happy, wait till your married to do that %26gt;%26lt; Hope this helps
just go have fun but don't scream too much trust me im a boy and when a girl scream too much on a ride in my ear i get annoyed . also if hes if he is going to a different school you should be with him cause he will most likely find another girl
Noo. dont be like W.E
and dont be like OMGGG AHHHHH THIS IS SOO MCUH FUNN AHH! thats not good..guys get annoyed by that.
just laugh and have fun with him..bE YOURSELFF lol
i know its common when ppl say that but its totally true..if he asked you out..then he did it cuz he likes you for YOUU girll!
also try and flirt with him...make him feel like he is lucky to have youu! laugh and touch him(not the bad way)lol and make sure you smilee ALOT!
Good luck and remmeber BE YOURSELF!! hope i helped!!%26lt;3
btw, YOU ARE GORGEOUSS!!
just be yourself
you have a pretty smile so smile lots :)
see how he is towards you and see how it goes.
dont be over enthusiastic, but dont be too whatever..
he'll be as nervous as you
just enjoy yourself :)
maybe tie your hair up in a messy ponytail?
coming from a guy just be yourself and your really pretty by the way i wouldent be afriad just be yourself and the whole date will go by good and walk him up to his door. if ure driving :) and something might happen but dont be afraid guys hate when girls try to be something ther not
put your hair half up curled and half down straight have fun on rides scream and put your hands up when your going down or upside down and don't be to much of a chatterbox talk about rides and some about him enjoy yourself don't be nervous
Be yourself, seriously. Act how you would normally act. If the urge to scream on a ride hits- that's fine. Doing anything unnaturally runs the risk of making things rather ackward. Just have fun.
your cutee.....scream on the rides haha itll be more flirtyy. :)
answer mineee.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/;_ylc=鈥?/a>
i was playing around on you tube and there are a bunch of fast videos showing easy hair styles. it was helpful for me.
good luck on your date.
just act all sweet and talk a lot! just make sure you listen to him too, guys like girls that listen. just dont pester him- thats how i lost an adorable guy:(
try putting your hair in a messy bun
just be yourself and everything will be fine
aw, yo sweet. straighten your hair? (:
hot guys are fags
Just be you, that is what attracted him in the first place!
but we're going to different high schools and im not gonna see him as often and i really like him.
Yeah i know, be myself, and i will... just with an extra tang :] haha
should i do like.. in that john tucker movie and kinda be like... w/e.
or should i be more energetic and scream on rides and ask questions and blah.
and i have really short hair... so what can do with it?
theres a picture of it...http://i274.photobucket.com/albums/jj279/pooxxbutt120592/5-6M9FORSYTH_embedded_prod_affil-13.jpg
im the one with the shirt that says Brandy, GymanstGoing on a date with a super hottie! need advice!?
You're cute and look unaffected by having your pic taken, you're a natural, whatever feels right at the time just do it.Going on a date with a super hottie! need advice!?
The absoulte smartest thing you can do is just be mean to her, and treat her like crap. Honestly, no one does that to her and she will just become very interested in you without you having to change anything about yourself. Treat her like a fat ugly girl who wont leave you alone. And she will stick to you like glue
From a guys point of view, just don't do anything you wouldn't normally do. We hate that fake stuff. What you have to realize is that he isn't going to be the only hot dude in the world and you will find plenty of really nice guys in your lifetime. So if it bombs, it bombs. No shame in that. And don't change who you are to make somebody happy, wait till your married to do that %26gt;%26lt; Hope this helps
just go have fun but don't scream too much trust me im a boy and when a girl scream too much on a ride in my ear i get annoyed . also if hes if he is going to a different school you should be with him cause he will most likely find another girl
Noo. dont be like W.E
and dont be like OMGGG AHHHHH THIS IS SOO MCUH FUNN AHH! thats not good..guys get annoyed by that.
just laugh and have fun with him..bE YOURSELFF lol
i know its common when ppl say that but its totally true..if he asked you out..then he did it cuz he likes you for YOUU girll!
also try and flirt with him...make him feel like he is lucky to have youu! laugh and touch him(not the bad way)lol and make sure you smilee ALOT!
Good luck and remmeber BE YOURSELF!! hope i helped!!%26lt;3
btw, YOU ARE GORGEOUSS!!
just be yourself
you have a pretty smile so smile lots :)
see how he is towards you and see how it goes.
dont be over enthusiastic, but dont be too whatever..
he'll be as nervous as you
just enjoy yourself :)
maybe tie your hair up in a messy ponytail?
coming from a guy just be yourself and your really pretty by the way i wouldent be afriad just be yourself and the whole date will go by good and walk him up to his door. if ure driving :) and something might happen but dont be afraid guys hate when girls try to be something ther not
put your hair half up curled and half down straight have fun on rides scream and put your hands up when your going down or upside down and don't be to much of a chatterbox talk about rides and some about him enjoy yourself don't be nervous
Be yourself, seriously. Act how you would normally act. If the urge to scream on a ride hits- that's fine. Doing anything unnaturally runs the risk of making things rather ackward. Just have fun.
your cutee.....scream on the rides haha itll be more flirtyy. :)
answer mineee.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/;_ylc=鈥?/a>
i was playing around on you tube and there are a bunch of fast videos showing easy hair styles. it was helpful for me.
good luck on your date.
just act all sweet and talk a lot! just make sure you listen to him too, guys like girls that listen. just dont pester him- thats how i lost an adorable guy:(
try putting your hair in a messy bun
just be yourself and everything will be fine
aw, yo sweet. straighten your hair? (:
hot guys are fags
Just be you, that is what attracted him in the first place!
Why Does my Date-Life suck so much? Any advice?
A few years ago, I broke my freaking neck and damaged a few nerves. Now I can't move my face, I'm a total klutz can't talk, and worst of all I can't hear.
This makes it nearly impossible to get a girl. Butt on rare occasions, I manage to talk to some chicks, but then there comes opportunities that are just ABSOLUTELY PERFECT to steal a quick peck on her cheek to show how interested I am in her. But these opportunities all go up in smoke cause I have facial paralysis. So kissing is physically impossible now, and the girl thinks I don't want to be more than friends. I'm a high school sophomore and haven't had my first kiss thanks to a bad fall. I'm getting so depressed I'm considering opening a Kissing Booth just to get my first kiss. But I have two reasons not to:
1.) It just don't seem right
2.)There are some real ugly chicks in my school and town...
I don't know what to do. Plus in all my classes I'm with an assistant who tells me what's going on, and I can't ';Bust a move'; if I have an assistant teacher right next to me!
To throw more gas on the flames, I'm a bit shy and have no clue how to approach a girl I like.
Somebody PLEASE help me out on all these problems!Why Does my Date-Life suck so much? Any advice?
Get to know them better. This is not a task only to be accomplished through dating. The more you get to know him or her, the more you can tell if you like them as a friend or something else. Just talk and do fun activities with the person.
Stop and consider why you like the person. There are many physically attractive and smart people out there. But if you see something beyond that really catches your attention, you've marked this person as unique and probably like them. Why else would they stand out from so many?
Consider how many times you think about the person. If you find yourself thinking about this person several times a day, and they are happy thoughts that possibly make your heart beat faster, then you probably like them.
Think how often you laugh at their jokes etc. When you like someone, you will find yourself laughing at things even if they aren't that funny. This is a natural attempt to make them feel appreciated.
If the one conversation between you and the person is stuck in you head and you cant stop telling people about it. this means it was important to you, and you probably like the person.
Consider how much you try to be near them. If you've planned your walking speed to catch a glimpse of them as many times of the day as possible, there is a good reason for that.
Think about how you feel if you touch him or her, by accident or on purpose. If you're still thinking about brushing shoulders several hours ago in school, then that is a special thought and you probably like them.
If you feel you're ready for a relationship, and are confident enough for a positive response, then just go ahead and ask them out. If you're unsure of their feelings for you, there are several wikihows on how to tell if someone likes you.
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This makes it nearly impossible to get a girl. Butt on rare occasions, I manage to talk to some chicks, but then there comes opportunities that are just ABSOLUTELY PERFECT to steal a quick peck on her cheek to show how interested I am in her. But these opportunities all go up in smoke cause I have facial paralysis. So kissing is physically impossible now, and the girl thinks I don't want to be more than friends. I'm a high school sophomore and haven't had my first kiss thanks to a bad fall. I'm getting so depressed I'm considering opening a Kissing Booth just to get my first kiss. But I have two reasons not to:
1.) It just don't seem right
2.)There are some real ugly chicks in my school and town...
I don't know what to do. Plus in all my classes I'm with an assistant who tells me what's going on, and I can't ';Bust a move'; if I have an assistant teacher right next to me!
To throw more gas on the flames, I'm a bit shy and have no clue how to approach a girl I like.
Somebody PLEASE help me out on all these problems!Why Does my Date-Life suck so much? Any advice?
Get to know them better. This is not a task only to be accomplished through dating. The more you get to know him or her, the more you can tell if you like them as a friend or something else. Just talk and do fun activities with the person.
Stop and consider why you like the person. There are many physically attractive and smart people out there. But if you see something beyond that really catches your attention, you've marked this person as unique and probably like them. Why else would they stand out from so many?
Consider how many times you think about the person. If you find yourself thinking about this person several times a day, and they are happy thoughts that possibly make your heart beat faster, then you probably like them.
Think how often you laugh at their jokes etc. When you like someone, you will find yourself laughing at things even if they aren't that funny. This is a natural attempt to make them feel appreciated.
If the one conversation between you and the person is stuck in you head and you cant stop telling people about it. this means it was important to you, and you probably like the person.
Consider how much you try to be near them. If you've planned your walking speed to catch a glimpse of them as many times of the day as possible, there is a good reason for that.
Think about how you feel if you touch him or her, by accident or on purpose. If you're still thinking about brushing shoulders several hours ago in school, then that is a special thought and you probably like them.
If you feel you're ready for a relationship, and are confident enough for a positive response, then just go ahead and ask them out. If you're unsure of their feelings for you, there are several wikihows on how to tell if someone likes you.
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Just had first date with a gay man...need advice.?
Okay some of you have been kind enough to answer my previous questions (I am a bi-curious male who has an openly gay co-worker and we have been flirting and advice on this board was that I approach him about his attraction to me) and I needed some more advice. He and I went on our first date last night (Dinner and Couples Retreat) it was very intense, but I wasn't nervous at all and he was sweet. He walked me to my apartment and came in for a bit....I won't go into detail (no we didn't have sex), but he left twenty minutes and he was very aroused (as was I) when he left. He texted me once he got home about how he had a great time. Of course he is out of town this weekend but he will be stopping by on Sunday night once he gets back. He asked if we could go out on a date again, but I am tempted to just ';stay in'; and see what happens. What do you all think?Just had first date with a gay man...need advice.?
Stay in and invite him over for popcorn and watch some old black and white horror flicks.Just had first date with a gay man...need advice.?
Me being me, I'd say have at least one or two more dates before having a ';night in';, but I believe in getting to know someone a little better before going ';there';, even if you work with him. work life and personal life are 2 separate things and you should be more familiar with him on a personal level before taking that next step.
If you tell him you want to stay in you are implying that you want to have sex with him. If your not ready for that I would go out again maybe coffee or a snack and go rent a movie and spend time at your place. Take thing slow. Don't make it all about being alone at home together,
Be Safe, Have Fun. Use Protection and lots of lube.
Do you mean '; 'stay in' and see what happens'; as in you two staying at your place and seeing where it goes? If you are looking for something to happen, you should go out on a romantic date first to get in the mood.
Why are you tempted to ';stay in';?
Sounds like you had a blast, the light is green, please proceed and remain on the current course.
Like previous answers said, you would be stupid
to let this experiance go. Invite him for a night in.
well deffo meet him again cuz it sounds like youve got something good :) yer go for it... just make sure its wat u both want and then its kool ye? :) good luck mate
What do you have to lose? Do it! :)
like do u mean u wanna stay in your apartment with him to bone?
I'd say go for the date and 'see what happens' then.
Looks like the ball is in your court. (His too, if he had asked.)
Tell him you would like to go out,but maybe ask him if he would like to stay in for the night. Have drinks at home if you are going to drink. Find out what kind of dance music he likes and play some and have a few close slow dances. Things should get going then. Undress each slowly between hot wet kisses, get real turn on. Myself, I like lots of kissing when with a woman and slowly get in to it. Using nice pet words( hunnie,sweetie darling etc really helps.
Good luck and let us know how it went.
xoxoxooxox fro you both
PS: I am bi
Stay in and invite him over for popcorn and watch some old black and white horror flicks.Just had first date with a gay man...need advice.?
Me being me, I'd say have at least one or two more dates before having a ';night in';, but I believe in getting to know someone a little better before going ';there';, even if you work with him. work life and personal life are 2 separate things and you should be more familiar with him on a personal level before taking that next step.
If you tell him you want to stay in you are implying that you want to have sex with him. If your not ready for that I would go out again maybe coffee or a snack and go rent a movie and spend time at your place. Take thing slow. Don't make it all about being alone at home together,
Be Safe, Have Fun. Use Protection and lots of lube.
Do you mean '; 'stay in' and see what happens'; as in you two staying at your place and seeing where it goes? If you are looking for something to happen, you should go out on a romantic date first to get in the mood.
Why are you tempted to ';stay in';?
Sounds like you had a blast, the light is green, please proceed and remain on the current course.
Like previous answers said, you would be stupid
to let this experiance go. Invite him for a night in.
well deffo meet him again cuz it sounds like youve got something good :) yer go for it... just make sure its wat u both want and then its kool ye? :) good luck mate
What do you have to lose? Do it! :)
like do u mean u wanna stay in your apartment with him to bone?
I'd say go for the date and 'see what happens' then.
Looks like the ball is in your court. (His too, if he had asked.)
Tell him you would like to go out,but maybe ask him if he would like to stay in for the night. Have drinks at home if you are going to drink. Find out what kind of dance music he likes and play some and have a few close slow dances. Things should get going then. Undress each slowly between hot wet kisses, get real turn on. Myself, I like lots of kissing when with a woman and slowly get in to it. Using nice pet words( hunnie,sweetie darling etc really helps.
Good luck and let us know how it went.
xoxoxooxox fro you both
PS: I am bi
Girls would you date someone like this? (need some advice)?
I'm a sophomore and theirs this girl I had a crush on since the 6th grade. We are both in the same grade but she's 16 and im 15 but she isn't much older than me. My problem is that well im shy... Im getting better and im starting to break out of my shyness though. She's a christian like me and we both go to the same church. However she's athletic and well me im not in any sport activity, though im thinking about joining cross country and wrestling next year (maybe some other things). Im a friendly guy and I try to be nice to everyone. I don't hate anyone and if someone does me wrong I pray for them. People think im funny/hilarious when they get to know me. Moving on to looks well im not sure ive ask different people and they said im hot but I don't really know. Im working out now and im trying to get a tan. I have curly brown hair with a little bit of blonde in it. I have blue eyes. Im average in the Intelligence but I would say she is one of the smartest girls but I want to improve.Girls would you date someone like this? (need some advice)?
ok well if your doin all this to ur body for one girl.. i would stop... if she doesnt like u for u then shes not worth your time.. FOR REAL!!!... you want a girl that lieks u for you so u can b yourself.. but if your just doing it to boost your confidence.. then your on the right track.. good goin! mayb she will recognize you and notice that u liek her. but u shoud keep up te good work and for the breaking out of your shell thing.. u need to ask her out or somthing!... you only live once... make the best of it.. if u liek her that much then you should ask her out.... shell probably say yes cuz its not like your a total stranger or n e thing lol... i hope this helps*Girls would you date someone like this? (need some advice)?
It sounds like you might be a little intimidated by this girl but you could compliment each other with your differences and you have the most important thing in common and that is your religion. I would date someone like you, just be confident in what you do know and who you are.
Well, I couldn't say unless I knew you. But you sound good!
First off, do you talk to her? If not, you better start or else you'll never have a chance with her! If you already do...well that's a good first step.
I'm personally very athletic, but I could care less about dating a guy that did sports or not. I know other people could feel different, but it just doesn't matter to me.
Is she shy? Because I know I'm super shy and I guess that if I found a guy who was also shy, we'd prob be the perfect couple lol. Girls find it cute if they guy they like is shy, and I know that's usually the same way w/ guys.
It helps if you guys go to the same church and are both involved w/ the church. I'm not religious at all, but I know a lot of people who are and it makes it easier for them to date someone from their church when religion is a big part of both their lives.
So my advice is to just start talking to her more. Get to know her a little better. Flirt with her. Hope that she flirts back. Once you're pretty sure she likes you too, ask her out to a movie or the mall or something kinda low-key like that. Good luck!
Does she know u like her? If u like her so much ask her out. and just for the record u sound like a kewl guy i would date u.
Most definetly! You seem like a great guy. I'm sure this girl that you like would want to date you too.
ok well if your doin all this to ur body for one girl.. i would stop... if she doesnt like u for u then shes not worth your time.. FOR REAL!!!... you want a girl that lieks u for you so u can b yourself.. but if your just doing it to boost your confidence.. then your on the right track.. good goin! mayb she will recognize you and notice that u liek her. but u shoud keep up te good work and for the breaking out of your shell thing.. u need to ask her out or somthing!... you only live once... make the best of it.. if u liek her that much then you should ask her out.... shell probably say yes cuz its not like your a total stranger or n e thing lol... i hope this helps*Girls would you date someone like this? (need some advice)?
It sounds like you might be a little intimidated by this girl but you could compliment each other with your differences and you have the most important thing in common and that is your religion. I would date someone like you, just be confident in what you do know and who you are.
Well, I couldn't say unless I knew you. But you sound good!
First off, do you talk to her? If not, you better start or else you'll never have a chance with her! If you already do...well that's a good first step.
I'm personally very athletic, but I could care less about dating a guy that did sports or not. I know other people could feel different, but it just doesn't matter to me.
Is she shy? Because I know I'm super shy and I guess that if I found a guy who was also shy, we'd prob be the perfect couple lol. Girls find it cute if they guy they like is shy, and I know that's usually the same way w/ guys.
It helps if you guys go to the same church and are both involved w/ the church. I'm not religious at all, but I know a lot of people who are and it makes it easier for them to date someone from their church when religion is a big part of both their lives.
So my advice is to just start talking to her more. Get to know her a little better. Flirt with her. Hope that she flirts back. Once you're pretty sure she likes you too, ask her out to a movie or the mall or something kinda low-key like that. Good luck!
Does she know u like her? If u like her so much ask her out. and just for the record u sound like a kewl guy i would date u.
Most definetly! You seem like a great guy. I'm sure this girl that you like would want to date you too.
I have a date, well sorta and I need advice on how to do my hair....?
I have had a crush on this guy for like 2 years now and now all the sudden he has asked me to go to a play with him and has payed for my ticket and is gonna take me out to eat. Now Im not sure he likes me but I want to be myself and just treat him like a friend but at the same time I wanna look good without making it seem that im trying to hard to look good ( this isnt a formal event). I have naturally curly hair, though it is very thick and can be frizzy, i want to keep my hair curly but i want some sort of cute style that looks good but not like i took forever on it....any one got any ideas?I have a date, well sorta and I need advice on how to do my hair....?
lol. to tame your hair...and i know that this will sound ridiculous but it works...straighten it with a straightener and then curl it with the straightener by taking smaller sections, starting at the roots, and turn the straightener then drag your hair through it. your curls will be tame and frizzless and it can be formal or informal. before you style, apply some shine hair serum.
lol. to tame your hair...and i know that this will sound ridiculous but it works...straighten it with a straightener and then curl it with the straightener by taking smaller sections, starting at the roots, and turn the straightener then drag your hair through it. your curls will be tame and frizzless and it can be formal or informal. before you style, apply some shine hair serum.
I have a date tonight at 9pm and need advice..TONIGHT IS THE NIGHT?
Ok so i have been hanging out with this girl for about 4 months and we have dated before about two years ago but it was for about a week and then i went off to college. she has been out of a two year relationship for about a year now and she was other guy friends she hangs out with..we talk to each other every single day text or calling or facebook and i can easily tell she talks to me the most and trusts me the most...
about a month ago we were hanging out and i went to kiss her and she wasnt giving it back to me so i stopped and we laughed it off as if it kinda didnt happen..and then i talked to her about it the next day and she said how she wasnt sure what she wanted and didnt want to ruin the friendship and then recently..........
we just got back with her older sister and her boyfriend from a weekend camping trip and that concluded me in meeting her whole family..and then last night we went to the drive in movie theater and cuddled and actually fell asleep there BUT the thing is i never made a move and then tonight which is the day after the movie were going to her house to watch a movie and her parents are gone. we have kissed before about 3 years ago and we fooled around once 3 years ago...so my question
should i make a move on her tonight?
when would be a good time?
should i ask her how she feels?
thank you so much
sorry this was longI have a date tonight at 9pm and need advice..TONIGHT IS THE NIGHT?
First of all, the number one rule is to NEVER show weakness. If you're confident when you make the move, she won't reject. If you do it in a weak nervous way she will. When you wrap your arm around her, don't do that fake yawning crap, hold her and grip her tight. Let her know that you did it and that you're the man. There's nothing a woman likes more than a man who knows what he wants and gets it. They hate when you delay things. NEVER talk about it, just do it. It's more awkward if you get verbally rejected than if you get physically rejected. Even if she rejects your move, just keep cool and mess around with her. It's important to flirt first. Maybe find a ticklish spot, or just put her down with some playful insults. You gotta prepare her. Start slow, then progress to further physical contact. The mistake most guys make is that they don't flirt first. Women are like irons, you gotta warm em up first. Once they get warmed up, it takes a while to cool them down.
Give it a little time first. In the beginning of the movie, naturally wrap your arm around her lower body- the stomach area. Tug her towards you so she knows you've marked your territory. She'll probably lay against your chest if she likes it. Then wait a few minutes when she's focused into the movie. Look for a ticklish spot. This gets her horny very quickly. It's important to set boundaries though. Don't go under the belt or she may creep out, but don't hold back ether. You want to show her that you're the man and you know what you want. During a boring part of the movie is when you should really start messing with her. Give her a peck on the cheek and if she likes it she'll turn so you can go for the lips. Hold her tight when she turns. She'll love to get roughed up a little.
DO NOT ask her how she feels. A woman's words and a woman's actions are different. A woman will NEVER say she feels good or likes it or anything. You have to listen to her actions instead. It's all about her response. This is why nice guys never get laid. Because they listen to a woman's words.
Just never show weakness and you should be set. Once she really gets into it, you'll know. Usually she'll wrap her arm around your neck or hold your cheek while you make out. Now she's all yours. Put her in whatever position you want.I have a date tonight at 9pm and need advice..TONIGHT IS THE NIGHT?
Personally, if your relationship has been that complicated then I would talk to her a little bit, just when the moment feels right just say, ';You know I really like you and I would love to kiss you right now.'; Give her a way to say yes or no and show you how she feels in the process.
dont get stressed about anything if she is likin you then make a move boy i cant tell you how many times guys would just sit there oh i made me so mad i like men that make moves it tells me there confident in thereselves and there forceful i like forceful guys to but you do what you think u need to do
dont stress about it...if you guys are having a good time, go for it.
It definately sounds like she is into you on more than a friendship level. Sounds cheesy, but if the time is right you should be able to tell
yeah make a move, if u she doesnt move back then all you'll lose is the fantasy that she likes you back as more than just a friend
um NO!
she seems like shes not sure if she wants to date you and making a move will make you seem desperate and creepy!
you should actually ';go out'; with her then have sex with her
Let her make the first move. Read her signals and do whatever feels right.
I'm not even sure if she likes you dude. Don't make a move unless you're sure she does like you
If your not sure, let her make the move
THIS IS AN ESSAY NOT A QUESTION....
i wouldn't ';make a move on her';, i would be a man and tell her how you feel about her.
you should ask her how she feels before making a move
yea i think you should go for it otherwise you may never know and you could always ask yourself what if i had kisser her that night? she sounds like she does like you but if you do try it tonight and she isnt game at least then u know where you stand and hopefully u can just laugh it off again but really i think it will work....she would be mad not to, you sound like a really nice guy! lol cheesy but hey you can say anything on yahoo answers!!
so just wait 4 the rite moment when your watchin the movie....you wil know when the times rite!
good luck and tel us how it goes
=)
I think go for it. She either loves you dearly as a friend or wants more but is not wanting to jump into anything full on as of yet. Was her break up a messy one even though its been a year she might be once bitten twice shy.
You need to man up and make the move don't talk about it with her because well that would be boring and if it was me and you were asking then i wouldn't go for it women like men to take charge.
I'd say that maybe put your arm around her and kiss her cheek or forehead. Move her hair out of her face if the opportunity comes. But don't make any serious moves. She hasn't told you what she wants yet, and if you make these small moves that I suggested, she may feel comfortable enough to make the rest of the moves. But I'd wait to find out how she feels first. Just show her passion and caring, and see where that leads. I'd hate to see this get screwed up for you. Good luck!!!
**EDIT******** So, how did the date go??!!how to apply
about a month ago we were hanging out and i went to kiss her and she wasnt giving it back to me so i stopped and we laughed it off as if it kinda didnt happen..and then i talked to her about it the next day and she said how she wasnt sure what she wanted and didnt want to ruin the friendship and then recently..........
we just got back with her older sister and her boyfriend from a weekend camping trip and that concluded me in meeting her whole family..and then last night we went to the drive in movie theater and cuddled and actually fell asleep there BUT the thing is i never made a move and then tonight which is the day after the movie were going to her house to watch a movie and her parents are gone. we have kissed before about 3 years ago and we fooled around once 3 years ago...so my question
should i make a move on her tonight?
when would be a good time?
should i ask her how she feels?
thank you so much
sorry this was longI have a date tonight at 9pm and need advice..TONIGHT IS THE NIGHT?
First of all, the number one rule is to NEVER show weakness. If you're confident when you make the move, she won't reject. If you do it in a weak nervous way she will. When you wrap your arm around her, don't do that fake yawning crap, hold her and grip her tight. Let her know that you did it and that you're the man. There's nothing a woman likes more than a man who knows what he wants and gets it. They hate when you delay things. NEVER talk about it, just do it. It's more awkward if you get verbally rejected than if you get physically rejected. Even if she rejects your move, just keep cool and mess around with her. It's important to flirt first. Maybe find a ticklish spot, or just put her down with some playful insults. You gotta prepare her. Start slow, then progress to further physical contact. The mistake most guys make is that they don't flirt first. Women are like irons, you gotta warm em up first. Once they get warmed up, it takes a while to cool them down.
Give it a little time first. In the beginning of the movie, naturally wrap your arm around her lower body- the stomach area. Tug her towards you so she knows you've marked your territory. She'll probably lay against your chest if she likes it. Then wait a few minutes when she's focused into the movie. Look for a ticklish spot. This gets her horny very quickly. It's important to set boundaries though. Don't go under the belt or she may creep out, but don't hold back ether. You want to show her that you're the man and you know what you want. During a boring part of the movie is when you should really start messing with her. Give her a peck on the cheek and if she likes it she'll turn so you can go for the lips. Hold her tight when she turns. She'll love to get roughed up a little.
DO NOT ask her how she feels. A woman's words and a woman's actions are different. A woman will NEVER say she feels good or likes it or anything. You have to listen to her actions instead. It's all about her response. This is why nice guys never get laid. Because they listen to a woman's words.
Just never show weakness and you should be set. Once she really gets into it, you'll know. Usually she'll wrap her arm around your neck or hold your cheek while you make out. Now she's all yours. Put her in whatever position you want.I have a date tonight at 9pm and need advice..TONIGHT IS THE NIGHT?
Personally, if your relationship has been that complicated then I would talk to her a little bit, just when the moment feels right just say, ';You know I really like you and I would love to kiss you right now.'; Give her a way to say yes or no and show you how she feels in the process.
dont get stressed about anything if she is likin you then make a move boy i cant tell you how many times guys would just sit there oh i made me so mad i like men that make moves it tells me there confident in thereselves and there forceful i like forceful guys to but you do what you think u need to do
dont stress about it...if you guys are having a good time, go for it.
It definately sounds like she is into you on more than a friendship level. Sounds cheesy, but if the time is right you should be able to tell
yeah make a move, if u she doesnt move back then all you'll lose is the fantasy that she likes you back as more than just a friend
um NO!
she seems like shes not sure if she wants to date you and making a move will make you seem desperate and creepy!
you should actually ';go out'; with her then have sex with her
Let her make the first move. Read her signals and do whatever feels right.
I'm not even sure if she likes you dude. Don't make a move unless you're sure she does like you
If your not sure, let her make the move
THIS IS AN ESSAY NOT A QUESTION....
i wouldn't ';make a move on her';, i would be a man and tell her how you feel about her.
you should ask her how she feels before making a move
yea i think you should go for it otherwise you may never know and you could always ask yourself what if i had kisser her that night? she sounds like she does like you but if you do try it tonight and she isnt game at least then u know where you stand and hopefully u can just laugh it off again but really i think it will work....she would be mad not to, you sound like a really nice guy! lol cheesy but hey you can say anything on yahoo answers!!
so just wait 4 the rite moment when your watchin the movie....you wil know when the times rite!
good luck and tel us how it goes
=)
I think go for it. She either loves you dearly as a friend or wants more but is not wanting to jump into anything full on as of yet. Was her break up a messy one even though its been a year she might be once bitten twice shy.
You need to man up and make the move don't talk about it with her because well that would be boring and if it was me and you were asking then i wouldn't go for it women like men to take charge.
I'd say that maybe put your arm around her and kiss her cheek or forehead. Move her hair out of her face if the opportunity comes. But don't make any serious moves. She hasn't told you what she wants yet, and if you make these small moves that I suggested, she may feel comfortable enough to make the rest of the moves. But I'd wait to find out how she feels first. Just show her passion and caring, and see where that leads. I'd hate to see this get screwed up for you. Good luck!!!
**EDIT******** So, how did the date go??!!
Do you have any dating advice?
or advice on women?Do you have any dating advice?
Yea. Women don't date sharks.
And they don't like to date loners, either, so if you are at a social function (party or whatever), try to walk over to someone (doesn't matter who) and strike up a conversations soon as possible. If you stand alone in the corner staring at people, it makes you look like a stalker. It also helps if you are laughing and acting as if you are having a good time. Women are attracted to happy, positive people. By contrast, needy, desperate people tend to repulse other people. Do I need to explain this?
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Be sure that you look women in the eye when you talk to them (or at lest at the bridge of her nose). If you have a habit of looking down when you talk, then women will think that you either lack self confidence, or else that you are looking at her boobs, and neither assumption will endear you to her. If you must look away because you are nervous, look away horizontally as if you were looking for someone else, do not look down.
If you accidentally make eye contact with a pretty girl from across the room, resist the urge to immediately look away. Look her in the eye until she looks away first, or at least as long as you can stand it. Then don't look at her again until you are ready to speak to her. In fact, if she is a hot girl that everyone is checking out, you can easily set yourself apart from all of the other losers in the room by simply ignoring her. Hot women cannot stand being ignored, so she will usually come over and initiate a conversation with you. And resist the urge to follow a hot woman around all night if you don't have the courage to speak to her; this looks creepy and/or stalkerish. If you see her, immediately walk over and say ';hi'; (you have nothing to lose), or else just let it go and keep joking around with your pals.
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And when you walk, walk with your head up and your back straight, look people in the eye, and smile.
This may all seem trivial to you, but women notice these little things. If you have poor body language, many women will assume that you are a loser and try to avoid you.
And most of all, relax and have fun. Dating is not supposed to be serious, and funny, happy guys attract more women than uptight, nervous people do.
And it helps to learn how to read body language yourself, so that you know when you have overstayed your welcome, and the girl is getting nervous and/or bored. it is good to back off and go talk to other people (especially other women) if you sense that she has had enough of you for now.Do you have any dating advice?
';Being yourself'; is relative. One has to make a good first impression, and avoid making a bad one. Be yourself after you get to know each other.
yeah...
First, when in a fight ALWAYS let her win because you lose even if your right and if you do win you dont win, then she is just mad that you fought with her
second, if she asks you how heavy do i look, say your perfect, if you guess to low she will think your being a suck up, to high and she will be mad at you
similar if she asks does this shirt make me look fat, its ALWAYS NO, and on the bright side your not lying if she is fat its the fat that makes her look fat.
last whatever you think you know now, drop it, because women are so damn confusing that i wanna beat my face in sometimes they send signals taht clearly mean i like you when there trying to say you have gum in your hair, something like that. but humor works pretty well
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This is cliche but be yourself and don't try too hard. Women can see when your trying to hard to be something your not. Its a huge turn off for them. You will find the right one who gets you for just who you are but its not gonna happen over night. Best thing I can tell you is be social and talk about what you both like. If she likes and can talk about the same things you do then great, if not, then maybe you should find someone Else. Good Luck
I think you should have ben a peach or a apple for the eye . That way you will be much sweeter and fatten up the girls that love you! Those skinny minis just like the sweeter kinds but the carrots are great for good eyesight but they grow in the ground. There is something to be said for a peach on a hot sunny day .I hate the cold snowy days accept on the ski slope AGAIN you will need sun block!
ummm... I would say, in general: you are not going to figure them out, so just be yourself and attract the ones that come you naturally that way it is easiest the keep them happy.
Be yourself. Don't lie about how much money you make, or what job you have. Don't talk about your ex-girlfriends.
And tell her you like her hair, haha.
maybe if you revert back to a vegetable!
the vegans mite eat you up!
no
Yea. Women don't date sharks.
And they don't like to date loners, either, so if you are at a social function (party or whatever), try to walk over to someone (doesn't matter who) and strike up a conversations soon as possible. If you stand alone in the corner staring at people, it makes you look like a stalker. It also helps if you are laughing and acting as if you are having a good time. Women are attracted to happy, positive people. By contrast, needy, desperate people tend to repulse other people. Do I need to explain this?
===edit===
Be sure that you look women in the eye when you talk to them (or at lest at the bridge of her nose). If you have a habit of looking down when you talk, then women will think that you either lack self confidence, or else that you are looking at her boobs, and neither assumption will endear you to her. If you must look away because you are nervous, look away horizontally as if you were looking for someone else, do not look down.
If you accidentally make eye contact with a pretty girl from across the room, resist the urge to immediately look away. Look her in the eye until she looks away first, or at least as long as you can stand it. Then don't look at her again until you are ready to speak to her. In fact, if she is a hot girl that everyone is checking out, you can easily set yourself apart from all of the other losers in the room by simply ignoring her. Hot women cannot stand being ignored, so she will usually come over and initiate a conversation with you. And resist the urge to follow a hot woman around all night if you don't have the courage to speak to her; this looks creepy and/or stalkerish. If you see her, immediately walk over and say ';hi'; (you have nothing to lose), or else just let it go and keep joking around with your pals.
===edit2===
And when you walk, walk with your head up and your back straight, look people in the eye, and smile.
This may all seem trivial to you, but women notice these little things. If you have poor body language, many women will assume that you are a loser and try to avoid you.
And most of all, relax and have fun. Dating is not supposed to be serious, and funny, happy guys attract more women than uptight, nervous people do.
And it helps to learn how to read body language yourself, so that you know when you have overstayed your welcome, and the girl is getting nervous and/or bored. it is good to back off and go talk to other people (especially other women) if you sense that she has had enough of you for now.Do you have any dating advice?
';Being yourself'; is relative. One has to make a good first impression, and avoid making a bad one. Be yourself after you get to know each other.
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yeah...
First, when in a fight ALWAYS let her win because you lose even if your right and if you do win you dont win, then she is just mad that you fought with her
second, if she asks you how heavy do i look, say your perfect, if you guess to low she will think your being a suck up, to high and she will be mad at you
similar if she asks does this shirt make me look fat, its ALWAYS NO, and on the bright side your not lying if she is fat its the fat that makes her look fat.
last whatever you think you know now, drop it, because women are so damn confusing that i wanna beat my face in sometimes they send signals taht clearly mean i like you when there trying to say you have gum in your hair, something like that. but humor works pretty well
Like as in.....
This is cliche but be yourself and don't try too hard. Women can see when your trying to hard to be something your not. Its a huge turn off for them. You will find the right one who gets you for just who you are but its not gonna happen over night. Best thing I can tell you is be social and talk about what you both like. If she likes and can talk about the same things you do then great, if not, then maybe you should find someone Else. Good Luck
I think you should have ben a peach or a apple for the eye . That way you will be much sweeter and fatten up the girls that love you! Those skinny minis just like the sweeter kinds but the carrots are great for good eyesight but they grow in the ground. There is something to be said for a peach on a hot sunny day .I hate the cold snowy days accept on the ski slope AGAIN you will need sun block!
ummm... I would say, in general: you are not going to figure them out, so just be yourself and attract the ones that come you naturally that way it is easiest the keep them happy.
Be yourself. Don't lie about how much money you make, or what job you have. Don't talk about your ex-girlfriends.
And tell her you like her hair, haha.
maybe if you revert back to a vegetable!
the vegans mite eat you up!
no
Advice: Going Back Out On A Date?
I'm 19, and haven't seen my boyfriend in a few weeks because he's been going through some emotional things with losing his best friend. But...I get to see him tonight, and not too sure how to dress. He seemed kind of calm/excited to talk to me and tell me that he was finally able to see me.
Any advice on what I shoudl do for an outfit? I'm not sure if I should go casual, dress up alittle sexy, or flirtacious. Any ideas?Advice: Going Back Out On A Date?
If he is your boyfriend you already know what he likes you to wear, put on the outfit that is his favorite.Advice: Going Back Out On A Date?
I'm glad, hope you both had a good time also.
Any advice on what I shoudl do for an outfit? I'm not sure if I should go casual, dress up alittle sexy, or flirtacious. Any ideas?Advice: Going Back Out On A Date?
If he is your boyfriend you already know what he likes you to wear, put on the outfit that is his favorite.Advice: Going Back Out On A Date?
I'm glad, hope you both had a good time also.
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Any advice for someone who's never been in a relationship, no boyfriend/girlfriend or even a date?
Should the person be the first to approach or what?Any advice for someone who's never been in a relationship, no boyfriend/girlfriend or even a date?
You have to be approachable. Be casual friends with someone first, then good friends and fin ally best friends. True friendship takes a lifetime. Be yourself be natural, don't try too hard. I don't know your particular situation but i have seen people be lonely all their life because they had a certain image of a person they wanted. Or an image of a person they wanted to be. If neither one of those came about they stayed alone. If you love yourself first then that allows other people to love you. Be selective not picky. Don't try too hard. I have often told people don't spend your life looking for someone special and miss out on meeting that special someone. For everyone there is a special someone, good luck in finding them.Any advice for someone who's never been in a relationship, no boyfriend/girlfriend or even a date?
I will go out with you ;)
just be yourself. Show your true color and people will love/like you
heck yes be the first person to approach... what is the worst that can happen?? Rejection? All things heal with time, even rejection... What is the best that can happen?? Good Luck my dear good luck!!
juz confident wit urself.
maybe u should wait for sometimes before da mr nice guy will come in front of u..
If u feel so and u have the confidence to approach, u can ...! other wise its better u back off and let ur body language do the trick......
M advice to you is to start talking to people who you think will make a good companion to you!
You might want to ask a friend if you are ';approachable';. Does your body language say ';come and talk to me'; or does it say ';go away';. Smile more, have open posture, make yourself more approachable.
There's always your hand. Have fun!
Just take it slow with the first guy, but don't act like a prude.
Make-outs and kisses and hugs are okay, just don't let him get all over you like some pig.
Keep your dignity while your with him and make sure he knows that you need respect from him.
And duude, whatever you do, don't rush into a relationship just because everyone else is going out with someone..just wait for the right guy to come along.
i always wait for the guy to ask me out....never hv i asked a guy out before..may b that's a stupid thing to do.....but this is me....if u like a guy...u should ask him out......but don't give the impression that u r desperate for him....just be cool and dont let urself down
You have to be approachable. Be casual friends with someone first, then good friends and fin ally best friends. True friendship takes a lifetime. Be yourself be natural, don't try too hard. I don't know your particular situation but i have seen people be lonely all their life because they had a certain image of a person they wanted. Or an image of a person they wanted to be. If neither one of those came about they stayed alone. If you love yourself first then that allows other people to love you. Be selective not picky. Don't try too hard. I have often told people don't spend your life looking for someone special and miss out on meeting that special someone. For everyone there is a special someone, good luck in finding them.Any advice for someone who's never been in a relationship, no boyfriend/girlfriend or even a date?
I will go out with you ;)
just be yourself. Show your true color and people will love/like you
heck yes be the first person to approach... what is the worst that can happen?? Rejection? All things heal with time, even rejection... What is the best that can happen?? Good Luck my dear good luck!!
juz confident wit urself.
maybe u should wait for sometimes before da mr nice guy will come in front of u..
If u feel so and u have the confidence to approach, u can ...! other wise its better u back off and let ur body language do the trick......
M advice to you is to start talking to people who you think will make a good companion to you!
You might want to ask a friend if you are ';approachable';. Does your body language say ';come and talk to me'; or does it say ';go away';. Smile more, have open posture, make yourself more approachable.
There's always your hand. Have fun!
Just take it slow with the first guy, but don't act like a prude.
Make-outs and kisses and hugs are okay, just don't let him get all over you like some pig.
Keep your dignity while your with him and make sure he knows that you need respect from him.
And duude, whatever you do, don't rush into a relationship just because everyone else is going out with someone..just wait for the right guy to come along.
i always wait for the guy to ask me out....never hv i asked a guy out before..may b that's a stupid thing to do.....but this is me....if u like a guy...u should ask him out......but don't give the impression that u r desperate for him....just be cool and dont let urself down
Dating Advice For A Young Woman?
would a guy date a woman who has 2 kids, her own car, her house, and works as a RN?Dating Advice For A Young Woman?
Many would, the hard part is figuring out where the guy stands in the family. Hopefully you find a great guy who will love your kids as if they were his own, and, if so, give him the ability to make mistakes like we all do. I dated a woman for 5 years whose daughter is now 18, often they would disagree with me and I not only had one unhappy female with me, but two! Hopefully the real dad is an important part of their lives, which, was not the case for me. Good luck!Dating Advice For A Young Woman?
Why not?
Men date women with no kids, no car, no house and no job.
Why should you be any different? lol
Many would, the hard part is figuring out where the guy stands in the family. Hopefully you find a great guy who will love your kids as if they were his own, and, if so, give him the ability to make mistakes like we all do. I dated a woman for 5 years whose daughter is now 18, often they would disagree with me and I not only had one unhappy female with me, but two! Hopefully the real dad is an important part of their lives, which, was not the case for me. Good luck!Dating Advice For A Young Woman?
Why not?
Men date women with no kids, no car, no house and no job.
Why should you be any different? lol
Trying to date a friend/single mother, need advice on how to make a move, help please?
I am attracted to a good friend. She is a single mother and I know and get on well with her kids.
I think she just sees me as a friend, and may even think I am gay because I am single and haven't tried anything yet! I have been trying to be close to her over Christmas - presents for her and the kids etc. I kissed her cheek and really hugged her upon seeing her at Christmas and before going home.
I am asking to maybe watch a DVD with her when the kids are asleep one night. I want to know how to make a move and for her to respond.
It is difficult to know how our friendship would be if she really doesn't want me to be closer than a friend - but I have to try!
Also should we have a drink before I try? She is a lot more happier and relaxed when she's had a few drinks, as am I.
I would appreciate any help/advice/tips/suggestions. Thanks!Trying to date a friend/single mother, need advice on how to make a move, help please?
To be honest you sound like a really nice guy. Not many guys these days have feelings for women..... wen ur at her house wen the kids are asleep i would get a really sooky love movie. try to get one that would make her cry then give her cuddles. if it seems like she accepts the cuddles try to get onto her! If shes ok with that then gratz. if not then you should tell her that you really like her. Or if u dont wana watch movies just keep complimenting her especially on her kids. like say they are well raised and everytime u see her say she looks beautiful. hope it works out good luckTrying to date a friend/single mother, need advice on how to make a move, help please?
I appreciate it is just a word or two, but, 'to make a move'........!
Sorry, it just tastes of so much ''planning'', like a set of military manoeuvres.
Personally, I would suggest that you need to do a bit more talking with her if, for example, she might be thinking you are possibly gay.
But then, you are closer to the situation and you have a certain feel for it.........
Talk, more talk, is my suggestion. But then, maybe others would see it different.
Seasons Greeting.
Sash.
I just think you should just go ahead %26amp; say wat u nid to say...whatever it is u hav in mind. Just make sure that ur really into her bec single moms have been through a lot. U shldnt drnk b4 u talk to her as sometimes it sends a wrong signal.
I just hope ur looking into the big picture rather than acting on impulse. Good Luck.
just ask her out for a cup of coffee and a piece of pie. and talk to her feel her out ask her if she would like to get together more often
see if she can get a baby sitter and take her the cinema she could prob do with a night out.
DON';T DO IT! You have described a disaster just waiting to happen. A single mother and a friend!? Stay very far away.
Can't help. I have a policy on not dating women with kids. Too much drama.
just tell her
face it youre gay
I think she just sees me as a friend, and may even think I am gay because I am single and haven't tried anything yet! I have been trying to be close to her over Christmas - presents for her and the kids etc. I kissed her cheek and really hugged her upon seeing her at Christmas and before going home.
I am asking to maybe watch a DVD with her when the kids are asleep one night. I want to know how to make a move and for her to respond.
It is difficult to know how our friendship would be if she really doesn't want me to be closer than a friend - but I have to try!
Also should we have a drink before I try? She is a lot more happier and relaxed when she's had a few drinks, as am I.
I would appreciate any help/advice/tips/suggestions. Thanks!Trying to date a friend/single mother, need advice on how to make a move, help please?
To be honest you sound like a really nice guy. Not many guys these days have feelings for women..... wen ur at her house wen the kids are asleep i would get a really sooky love movie. try to get one that would make her cry then give her cuddles. if it seems like she accepts the cuddles try to get onto her! If shes ok with that then gratz. if not then you should tell her that you really like her. Or if u dont wana watch movies just keep complimenting her especially on her kids. like say they are well raised and everytime u see her say she looks beautiful. hope it works out good luckTrying to date a friend/single mother, need advice on how to make a move, help please?
I appreciate it is just a word or two, but, 'to make a move'........!
Sorry, it just tastes of so much ''planning'', like a set of military manoeuvres.
Personally, I would suggest that you need to do a bit more talking with her if, for example, she might be thinking you are possibly gay.
But then, you are closer to the situation and you have a certain feel for it.........
Talk, more talk, is my suggestion. But then, maybe others would see it different.
Seasons Greeting.
Sash.
I just think you should just go ahead %26amp; say wat u nid to say...whatever it is u hav in mind. Just make sure that ur really into her bec single moms have been through a lot. U shldnt drnk b4 u talk to her as sometimes it sends a wrong signal.
I just hope ur looking into the big picture rather than acting on impulse. Good Luck.
just ask her out for a cup of coffee and a piece of pie. and talk to her feel her out ask her if she would like to get together more often
see if she can get a baby sitter and take her the cinema she could prob do with a night out.
DON';T DO IT! You have described a disaster just waiting to happen. A single mother and a friend!? Stay very far away.
Can't help. I have a policy on not dating women with kids. Too much drama.
just tell her
face it youre gay
Im on the verge of dating again after a break up, any advice that can make this a happy experience?
do you be yourself, cover up the break up, be best self or the way you feel.....dunno but lack the energy to pretend.Im on the verge of dating again after a break up, any advice that can make this a happy experience?
First, by all means go on a date and make some new friends. Second, take the advice of the guys who answered before me and be yourself. You are under no obligation to tell anyone anything about yourself that you don't feel comfortable talking about. There are a whole bunch of gentleman out there who are just waiting for you to come along.
Third, there is a man, in Japan I believe, that just turned 113, now he is OLD! You are not old at all. I think you should consider changing your name to ';Young and Sassy'; or something along those lines. You are too great a person to be calling yourself ';old';. When you catch up to me in age you can drop the ';young and'; and just go by ';Sassy';. lol Get out there. Good luck Bowie. Im on the verge of dating again after a break up, any advice that can make this a happy experience?
It is quite simple, just make sure that the new guy likes you for real, that's it. You don't have to pretend anything either. And there is no need to cover the break up, just don't talk about it or don't mention it unless he asks. You don't want to make him think that he is the ';rebound'; date, so just don't mention it unless he wants to know.
I would not compare this person to your last person.
I wouldn't really go into your past until you know this
person. On a first date, I would keep it casual and just
be yourself. I would try and find out what you can about
this person and then tell him about yourself. You can
tell him that you are coming out of a break-up, but don't
go into it just yet. You can always say, let's leave that for
another time. Not unless he really wants to know, but
usually on your first date, you want to know what the person
is like.
Try and be positve and not think of your ex.
Be yourself.how to apply
First, by all means go on a date and make some new friends. Second, take the advice of the guys who answered before me and be yourself. You are under no obligation to tell anyone anything about yourself that you don't feel comfortable talking about. There are a whole bunch of gentleman out there who are just waiting for you to come along.
Third, there is a man, in Japan I believe, that just turned 113, now he is OLD! You are not old at all. I think you should consider changing your name to ';Young and Sassy'; or something along those lines. You are too great a person to be calling yourself ';old';. When you catch up to me in age you can drop the ';young and'; and just go by ';Sassy';. lol Get out there. Good luck Bowie. Im on the verge of dating again after a break up, any advice that can make this a happy experience?
It is quite simple, just make sure that the new guy likes you for real, that's it. You don't have to pretend anything either. And there is no need to cover the break up, just don't talk about it or don't mention it unless he asks. You don't want to make him think that he is the ';rebound'; date, so just don't mention it unless he wants to know.
I would not compare this person to your last person.
I wouldn't really go into your past until you know this
person. On a first date, I would keep it casual and just
be yourself. I would try and find out what you can about
this person and then tell him about yourself. You can
tell him that you are coming out of a break-up, but don't
go into it just yet. You can always say, let's leave that for
another time. Not unless he really wants to know, but
usually on your first date, you want to know what the person
is like.
Try and be positve and not think of your ex.
Be yourself.
Should i date him???? ( please i really need advice )?
ok so me and my friends went to this baseball game last night. we met our guys friends there. they brought along one of there friends from a diffrent city who is moving here in the next couple of days. me and him hung out for most of the game. after the game he txtd me and said he really liked me and wanted to no if i would go out wiht him. I told him that maybe i wud when we got to no eachother better, cuz i just met him. He is really hott and funny and sooo sweet. He is going to my skool nxt year.. should i date him now, or wait a while and get to no him better??? and anyother advice is helpful to... thanx soo much!!!
im getting braces on the 6th of august??? what if he dosent wanna date me anymore after i get my braces.... what if wen he transfers he ends up liking another girl???
thanx for all the advice and help :DShould i date him???? ( please i really need advice )?
If you like him, why wait?Should i date him???? ( please i really need advice )?
make him chase you a little. if hes a good looking guy and new to the area he's going to be looking at all his options, and to all the girls he is the new good looking guy....if you date him right away you will run the risk of getting hurt. you can maybe bypass that by giving it some time and catching him on the flip side.
or you could just say who cares and go for it.
You said the right thing! Keep talking to him and get to know him over the summer, and maybe right before school starts, and after he's been here for a while and hanging out with you, then tell him yes, if you like the guy you've come to know.
if he's really sweet and seems nice now then i say go for it.
im going out with a guy that i barely knew but i got to know him as we were going out and we're still together now and its been 8 months :)
so just go out with him now cause if you don't then you might regret it later on
You can go on a date with a guy you don't know I guess dating isn't the same thing as going out wit him It wouldn't be like he was your bf yet
that's how you get to know someone by going on a date dinner movie
if you both like each other why not? while you guys date you guys can get to know each other more. braces arent a bad thing?
You're looking way too far into the future. Enjoy the moments now. Yeah go out with him! You like him, he likes you....what happens happens. Just enjoy the ride.
i think you should go for it and about the braces thing it wouldnt change anything if he rele like you
im getting braces on the 6th of august??? what if he dosent wanna date me anymore after i get my braces.... what if wen he transfers he ends up liking another girl???
thanx for all the advice and help :DShould i date him???? ( please i really need advice )?
If you like him, why wait?Should i date him???? ( please i really need advice )?
make him chase you a little. if hes a good looking guy and new to the area he's going to be looking at all his options, and to all the girls he is the new good looking guy....if you date him right away you will run the risk of getting hurt. you can maybe bypass that by giving it some time and catching him on the flip side.
or you could just say who cares and go for it.
You said the right thing! Keep talking to him and get to know him over the summer, and maybe right before school starts, and after he's been here for a while and hanging out with you, then tell him yes, if you like the guy you've come to know.
if he's really sweet and seems nice now then i say go for it.
im going out with a guy that i barely knew but i got to know him as we were going out and we're still together now and its been 8 months :)
so just go out with him now cause if you don't then you might regret it later on
You can go on a date with a guy you don't know I guess dating isn't the same thing as going out wit him It wouldn't be like he was your bf yet
that's how you get to know someone by going on a date dinner movie
if you both like each other why not? while you guys date you guys can get to know each other more. braces arent a bad thing?
You're looking way too far into the future. Enjoy the moments now. Yeah go out with him! You like him, he likes you....what happens happens. Just enjoy the ride.
i think you should go for it and about the braces thing it wouldnt change anything if he rele like you
Movie with a guy I cannot date though I find him attractive - need advice?
I am going out tonight with a guy that I told last week that I cannot date him because he is a devout atheist and I am a devout Christian. I must hold true to my beliefs in the Bible as to not being unequally yoked with unbelievers. Tonight I am going to see the new Pixar movie Cars with this guy. I told him that we can still be friends, but we cannot date. So my question is how can I make sure that he realizes I am serious when I say that I cannot date him and that I just want to be friends with him though I find him attractive. I need some advice. I am going to pay for my admission into the movie but I am not sure what else I should do. Also I need advice as to how to convince myself to stay true to the beliefs that I have had ever since I was a young girl and not to throw it all away for a guy. I am sure there will be devout Christian men that I can date. Thanks for your help in this matter.Movie with a guy I cannot date though I find him attractive - need advice?
Hopefully you won't have to tell him twice. If he really likes you then he will respect your decision. If he is true to his religion then hopefully he will completely understand why the two of you shouldnt date.If not just tell him again and if he still tries something then I would leave because he isnt respecting your decisions. If you feel uncomfortable going by yourself with him invite a friend to go with you and tell him to bring a friend. If you are a devout Christian, then you dont need advice on how to convince yourself to stay true to your beliefs. You know whats right deep down in your heart, just dont let lust get in the way. I hope all goes well tonight.Movie with a guy I cannot date though I find him attractive - need advice?
be sure that if he comes closer to you to move away from him after all he's a guy and he may not get the message so you may need to tell him.
Well, to this guy, going to the movie with him would be considered a date in my mind. Don't give false hope to someone whom you don't see eye to eye with on God. God is more important than anything else in this world, and I mostly preaching to myself, it is hard to stay in the spirit. But I did like the other lady's answer, take a couple other friends so it doesn't come off as a ';date.'; My advice if you don't want to throw away your beliefs for an atheist, see him less and less, and hang out with other people. I know it sounds mean, but God says, ';Don't yoke yourselves with unbelievers'; for a very good reason.
I understand where you're coming from in your beliefs (I was brought up Baptist/Non-Denominational)....but sometimes there is nothing wrong with yolking yourself with those that don't believe. Remember that in order to save humanity you have to spread the word of Jesus %26amp; how would you go about doing that if the only people that you hang out with are already saved???? Email me at Leecarh@yahoo.com with any add'l comments.
Yack!! If I'm not Chrisitian I'm going to hell??
Whatever...
Isn't it interesting that even though you don't share the same beliefs, you're still attracted to him??
Hmmm...
get some other friends to come with you to the movie
don't go at all...or go with a bunch of friends.
I agree a group should go. Just the 2 of you--looks like a date-smells like a date-its a date.
If you can't date him....maybe you can sleep with him. Call it even after that
Then why even go out with him? All your doing is leading him on and messing with him. You should be ashamed of yourself. All you are doing is thinking of yourself. Selfish and pathetic.
dont judge him based on his religous beliefs. hes not going to make you stop going to church. your just different. he wont make you stray from the beaten path. have fun! if you like him, date him. dont let a difference stop you. my girlfriend didnt go to church and use to be wicken and now shes a christian. people change. don't worry about it. have fun!
Hopefully you won't have to tell him twice. If he really likes you then he will respect your decision. If he is true to his religion then hopefully he will completely understand why the two of you shouldnt date.If not just tell him again and if he still tries something then I would leave because he isnt respecting your decisions. If you feel uncomfortable going by yourself with him invite a friend to go with you and tell him to bring a friend. If you are a devout Christian, then you dont need advice on how to convince yourself to stay true to your beliefs. You know whats right deep down in your heart, just dont let lust get in the way. I hope all goes well tonight.Movie with a guy I cannot date though I find him attractive - need advice?
be sure that if he comes closer to you to move away from him after all he's a guy and he may not get the message so you may need to tell him.
Well, to this guy, going to the movie with him would be considered a date in my mind. Don't give false hope to someone whom you don't see eye to eye with on God. God is more important than anything else in this world, and I mostly preaching to myself, it is hard to stay in the spirit. But I did like the other lady's answer, take a couple other friends so it doesn't come off as a ';date.'; My advice if you don't want to throw away your beliefs for an atheist, see him less and less, and hang out with other people. I know it sounds mean, but God says, ';Don't yoke yourselves with unbelievers'; for a very good reason.
I understand where you're coming from in your beliefs (I was brought up Baptist/Non-Denominational)....but sometimes there is nothing wrong with yolking yourself with those that don't believe. Remember that in order to save humanity you have to spread the word of Jesus %26amp; how would you go about doing that if the only people that you hang out with are already saved???? Email me at Leecarh@yahoo.com with any add'l comments.
Yack!! If I'm not Chrisitian I'm going to hell??
Whatever...
Isn't it interesting that even though you don't share the same beliefs, you're still attracted to him??
Hmmm...
get some other friends to come with you to the movie
don't go at all...or go with a bunch of friends.
I agree a group should go. Just the 2 of you--looks like a date-smells like a date-its a date.
If you can't date him....maybe you can sleep with him. Call it even after that
Then why even go out with him? All your doing is leading him on and messing with him. You should be ashamed of yourself. All you are doing is thinking of yourself. Selfish and pathetic.
dont judge him based on his religous beliefs. hes not going to make you stop going to church. your just different. he wont make you stray from the beaten path. have fun! if you like him, date him. dont let a difference stop you. my girlfriend didnt go to church and use to be wicken and now shes a christian. people change. don't worry about it. have fun!
Dating advice please. Must I play hard to get?
I hate games and I hate the in between stuff and waiting. It's my biggest problem apparently. I don't play hard to get, but i also don't go to bed right away. Most of all, I don't play games at all. I say what I'm thinking, and everything that I'm thinking. I keep no secrets and don't hold back. This always ends up to the person losing interest.
My question is, must people play games and hard to get, and not reveal all of who they are in the beginning stages?Dating advice please. Must I play hard to get?
I don't think it's do or die when it comes to whether or not a person needs to play hard to get. To be honest, I'm a lot like you. My experience with the opposite sex has been a bit of a toss up, though. I've had a few men lose interest, but I've also had a few who were also attracted to the fact that I didn't lead them on. I guess the bottom line here is that you should just be yourself. At the end of the day, that's all you're left with anyway. If someone isn't man enough to handle you as you are, then they really weren't worth a damn to begin with. And it obviously wasn't mean to be. I'm a big believer that less is more. In the beginning stages, it's all about getting to know each other...but you don't want to throw your entire hand down on the table. You know what I mean?Dating advice please. Must I play hard to get?
You certainly don't need to play games to date. I don't play games or hard-to-get either... I think it's ridiculous.
However, I am a little bit more descrete, naturally, in the beginning stages. I don't think it's a good idea to completely reveal all of your secrets right from the get go. It honestly can and will scare a guy off if you are way too forward right away. That's not to say that you should be indirect or dishonest... but I would resist the urge to tell all first thing.
I believe if the other half even wanted to be with you it wouldnt bother them when you told them up front just keep doing what you do. Hope I helped.
My question is, must people play games and hard to get, and not reveal all of who they are in the beginning stages?Dating advice please. Must I play hard to get?
I don't think it's do or die when it comes to whether or not a person needs to play hard to get. To be honest, I'm a lot like you. My experience with the opposite sex has been a bit of a toss up, though. I've had a few men lose interest, but I've also had a few who were also attracted to the fact that I didn't lead them on. I guess the bottom line here is that you should just be yourself. At the end of the day, that's all you're left with anyway. If someone isn't man enough to handle you as you are, then they really weren't worth a damn to begin with. And it obviously wasn't mean to be. I'm a big believer that less is more. In the beginning stages, it's all about getting to know each other...but you don't want to throw your entire hand down on the table. You know what I mean?Dating advice please. Must I play hard to get?
You certainly don't need to play games to date. I don't play games or hard-to-get either... I think it's ridiculous.
However, I am a little bit more descrete, naturally, in the beginning stages. I don't think it's a good idea to completely reveal all of your secrets right from the get go. It honestly can and will scare a guy off if you are way too forward right away. That's not to say that you should be indirect or dishonest... but I would resist the urge to tell all first thing.
I believe if the other half even wanted to be with you it wouldnt bother them when you told them up front just keep doing what you do. Hope I helped.
My 1st date in 6 years...I NEED ADVICE,It's tonight!?
I am in the process of a divorce %26amp; both him %26amp; I agreed to take a break and see other people.
I have a ';date'; tonight.He's a guy I like that serves my mom %26amp; I at our regular hang out. I 1st asked if he'd like to go have drinks like 2 months ago,then we went in (like always) and hes like';You never called for drinks'; So he asked if I wanted to do dinner tonight.
A few questions...Is he paying?Should I offer to pay for mine?I am wearing a cute dress %26amp; heels,I am nervous my legs are too white!!Should I just have confidence %26amp; go with it?Do I kiss him at the end of the night?What are we gonna talk about?
Okay I know none of you know all of this but a little help would be great.
I am so nervous.My 1st date in 6 years...I NEED ADVICE,It's tonight!?
Calm down, he would not have mentioned it if he was not interested. Wait to see how it goes before the who pays thing is asked. Go with money to pay for your own, but don't offer right away. Take a deep breath. Think happy thoughts and good luck !My 1st date in 6 years...I NEED ADVICE,It's tonight!?
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I have a ';date'; tonight.He's a guy I like that serves my mom %26amp; I at our regular hang out. I 1st asked if he'd like to go have drinks like 2 months ago,then we went in (like always) and hes like';You never called for drinks'; So he asked if I wanted to do dinner tonight.
A few questions...Is he paying?Should I offer to pay for mine?I am wearing a cute dress %26amp; heels,I am nervous my legs are too white!!Should I just have confidence %26amp; go with it?Do I kiss him at the end of the night?What are we gonna talk about?
Okay I know none of you know all of this but a little help would be great.
I am so nervous.My 1st date in 6 years...I NEED ADVICE,It's tonight!?
Calm down, he would not have mentioned it if he was not interested. Wait to see how it goes before the who pays thing is asked. Go with money to pay for your own, but don't offer right away. Take a deep breath. Think happy thoughts and good luck !My 1st date in 6 years...I NEED ADVICE,It's tonight!?
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Females wanted for dating advice. Is it too late to ask her out?
I'm in a class with a girl whom I've known with for about a year. I've always had a thing for her but never had the guts to ask her out. I've never really flirted with her before because we're only acquainted through an awkward classroom environment. Is it too late to ask her out now that we're like friends, or should I take the chance and make it even more awkward by asking her out on a date? Please help!Females wanted for dating advice. Is it too late to ask her out?
Take a chance, you never know, she is probably thinking about why you haven't asked her out yet!Females wanted for dating advice. Is it too late to ask her out?
you should say that i've been thinking a lot about you lately but i've been afraid to ask you out for fear of losing our wonderful friendship but if you are willing to take it to the next level then it will make me the happiest guy alive and if not, i understand.
Don't be shy! Take initiative. Make that step.. we like that =]
Two things could happen:
a) She could say no and you'll be momentarily heartbroken, but you'll move on
b) She says yes and you have a great first date.
You never know until you ask.
Ask her out! It never hurts! Just ask her to go with you somewhere little like the movies or to dinner on night, don't pressure her or act all weird when you ask her to go with you. Just remember to be yourself and she should like you for who you are, not for who you act like. Don't worry she will be happy you asked her to go somewhere together, you never know, she might have a secret crush on you but just does not want to make the first move.
date.... take a chance!!!
give it time.now would prob not be the best time!
I don't think that it would be awkward at all. there is always that chance that she could be the one. It is always better to be friends first before you date it kinda makes the process more comfortable for the both of you.
i think u should ask her out for a bite to eat or something like that and then tell her how you really feel %26amp; make sure you tell her no matter how she feels it wont ruin your friendship..
Take a chance, you never know, she is probably thinking about why you haven't asked her out yet!Females wanted for dating advice. Is it too late to ask her out?
you should say that i've been thinking a lot about you lately but i've been afraid to ask you out for fear of losing our wonderful friendship but if you are willing to take it to the next level then it will make me the happiest guy alive and if not, i understand.
Don't be shy! Take initiative. Make that step.. we like that =]
Two things could happen:
a) She could say no and you'll be momentarily heartbroken, but you'll move on
b) She says yes and you have a great first date.
You never know until you ask.
Ask her out! It never hurts! Just ask her to go with you somewhere little like the movies or to dinner on night, don't pressure her or act all weird when you ask her to go with you. Just remember to be yourself and she should like you for who you are, not for who you act like. Don't worry she will be happy you asked her to go somewhere together, you never know, she might have a secret crush on you but just does not want to make the first move.
date.... take a chance!!!
give it time.now would prob not be the best time!
I don't think that it would be awkward at all. there is always that chance that she could be the one. It is always better to be friends first before you date it kinda makes the process more comfortable for the both of you.
i think u should ask her out for a bite to eat or something like that and then tell her how you really feel %26amp; make sure you tell her no matter how she feels it wont ruin your friendship..
Anyone have good dating advice for teens?
Hey guys, my girlfriend and I really want to go on a date together, but my parents wouldn't allow it w/o my sister and her boyfriend coming with us. We'd like to be alone, though. Any ideas of places? I'm not worried about my sister though. I can convince her to allow us to separate.Anyone have good dating advice for teens?
Don't have sex when you're a teen!Anyone have good dating advice for teens?
Well I think you should go somewhere fun not too serious. Like an arcade or something that you guys can have fun together. You know people think that the romantic places are dinners or dancing but I think when you guys can have fun and talk it is even more romantic. Good luck
Just lie ot you parents. tell them you are hangin wit guy frineds but instead go chil wit ur girl man. you have to start being smart now. parents thinks they know everything, well maybe they do but when it comes to girl, we rule. we love girls. so we must lie inorder to see our grils. feel me man? smarten up or else i'l come in smack u in the head
public places: movies. bowling. ice-skating (great one). swimming.
private places: forest. near by pond/lake. park.
Try convincing them to let you go somewhere with a bunch of friends, and then ditch your friends. hopefully they'll understand
dinner and a movie...that works...sit at separate tables at dinner and at the movie sit apart from your sister...
all of these advices are good. if you wanna be alone all u gotta do is take a risk.
I feel u, my parents won't even let me date and i'm 16
Go to the movies and see a different movie than your sister and her bf.
movies is pretty classic.
then u and ur sister can both see different movies..
(just dont tell ur parents of course)
good luck :D
mall is good. some place where ur not sitting. a music festival? party? get creative!
Wait till your older
movies are a good choice.. and dont worry my parents are the same way !! it sucks i know
My advice is dont do it!how to apply
Don't have sex when you're a teen!Anyone have good dating advice for teens?
Well I think you should go somewhere fun not too serious. Like an arcade or something that you guys can have fun together. You know people think that the romantic places are dinners or dancing but I think when you guys can have fun and talk it is even more romantic. Good luck
Just lie ot you parents. tell them you are hangin wit guy frineds but instead go chil wit ur girl man. you have to start being smart now. parents thinks they know everything, well maybe they do but when it comes to girl, we rule. we love girls. so we must lie inorder to see our grils. feel me man? smarten up or else i'l come in smack u in the head
public places: movies. bowling. ice-skating (great one). swimming.
private places: forest. near by pond/lake. park.
Try convincing them to let you go somewhere with a bunch of friends, and then ditch your friends. hopefully they'll understand
dinner and a movie...that works...sit at separate tables at dinner and at the movie sit apart from your sister...
all of these advices are good. if you wanna be alone all u gotta do is take a risk.
I feel u, my parents won't even let me date and i'm 16
Go to the movies and see a different movie than your sister and her bf.
movies is pretty classic.
then u and ur sister can both see different movies..
(just dont tell ur parents of course)
good luck :D
mall is good. some place where ur not sitting. a music festival? party? get creative!
Wait till your older
movies are a good choice.. and dont worry my parents are the same way !! it sucks i know
My advice is dont do it!
Need some good dating advice?
okay well i went out with this girl last year for about 2 months then after the breakup we became really good friends then a couple weeks ago she invited me to a party and i met her bestfriend for the first time and i thought she was pretty hot and me and her became good friends. im not sure if she likes me but i like her and want to ask her out but i dont know if my ex will get pissed cuz shes pretty understanding but you never know.should i ask her out or find someone else?Need some good dating advice?
If you really like her and think it would be worth it, then by all means ask her out. Who cares if your ex gets mad, she is your ex and if she is really over you and an unselfish person she won't even mind at all.Need some good dating advice?
Maybe you could ask your ex if she minds, at least that way when you go to ask her bestfriend you could tell her you talked to your ex. If it were me you were asking out id feel better knowing that my bestfriend didnt mind if i dated her ex. But if you ex does mind you should just leave her friend alone. You dont want to mess up their friendship or yours.
If you really like her and think it would be worth it, then by all means ask her out. Who cares if your ex gets mad, she is your ex and if she is really over you and an unselfish person she won't even mind at all.Need some good dating advice?
Maybe you could ask your ex if she minds, at least that way when you go to ask her bestfriend you could tell her you talked to your ex. If it were me you were asking out id feel better knowing that my bestfriend didnt mind if i dated her ex. But if you ex does mind you should just leave her friend alone. You dont want to mess up their friendship or yours.
Females wanted for dating advice. Is it too late to ask her out?
I'm in a class with a girl whom I've known with for about a year. I've always had a thing for her but never had the guts to ask her out. I've never really flirted with her before because we're only acquainted through an awkward classroom environment. Is it too late to ask her out now that we're like friends, or should I take the chance and make it even more awkward by asking her out on a date? Please help!Females wanted for dating advice. Is it too late to ask her out?
Take a chance, you never know, she is probably thinking about why you haven't asked her out yet!Females wanted for dating advice. Is it too late to ask her out?
you should say that i've been thinking a lot about you lately but i've been afraid to ask you out for fear of losing our wonderful friendship but if you are willing to take it to the next level then it will make me the happiest guy alive and if not, i understand.
Don't be shy! Take initiative. Make that step.. we like that =]
Two things could happen:
a) She could say no and you'll be momentarily heartbroken, but you'll move on
b) She says yes and you have a great first date.
You never know until you ask.
Ask her out! It never hurts! Just ask her to go with you somewhere little like the movies or to dinner on night, don't pressure her or act all weird when you ask her to go with you. Just remember to be yourself and she should like you for who you are, not for who you act like. Don't worry she will be happy you asked her to go somewhere together, you never know, she might have a secret crush on you but just does not want to make the first move.
date.... take a chance!!!
give it time.now would prob not be the best time!
I don't think that it would be awkward at all. there is always that chance that she could be the one. It is always better to be friends first before you date it kinda makes the process more comfortable for the both of you.
i think u should ask her out for a bite to eat or something like that and then tell her how you really feel %26amp; make sure you tell her no matter how she feels it wont ruin your friendship..
Take a chance, you never know, she is probably thinking about why you haven't asked her out yet!Females wanted for dating advice. Is it too late to ask her out?
you should say that i've been thinking a lot about you lately but i've been afraid to ask you out for fear of losing our wonderful friendship but if you are willing to take it to the next level then it will make me the happiest guy alive and if not, i understand.
Don't be shy! Take initiative. Make that step.. we like that =]
Two things could happen:
a) She could say no and you'll be momentarily heartbroken, but you'll move on
b) She says yes and you have a great first date.
You never know until you ask.
Ask her out! It never hurts! Just ask her to go with you somewhere little like the movies or to dinner on night, don't pressure her or act all weird when you ask her to go with you. Just remember to be yourself and she should like you for who you are, not for who you act like. Don't worry she will be happy you asked her to go somewhere together, you never know, she might have a secret crush on you but just does not want to make the first move.
date.... take a chance!!!
give it time.now would prob not be the best time!
I don't think that it would be awkward at all. there is always that chance that she could be the one. It is always better to be friends first before you date it kinda makes the process more comfortable for the both of you.
i think u should ask her out for a bite to eat or something like that and then tell her how you really feel %26amp; make sure you tell her no matter how she feels it wont ruin your friendship..
Anyone have good dating advice for teens?
Hey guys, my girlfriend and I really want to go on a date together, but my parents wouldn't allow it w/o my sister and her boyfriend coming with us. We'd like to be alone, though. Any ideas of places? I'm not worried about my sister though. I can convince her to allow us to separate.Anyone have good dating advice for teens?
Don't have sex when you're a teen!Anyone have good dating advice for teens?
Well I think you should go somewhere fun not too serious. Like an arcade or something that you guys can have fun together. You know people think that the romantic places are dinners or dancing but I think when you guys can have fun and talk it is even more romantic. Good luck
Just lie ot you parents. tell them you are hangin wit guy frineds but instead go chil wit ur girl man. you have to start being smart now. parents thinks they know everything, well maybe they do but when it comes to girl, we rule. we love girls. so we must lie inorder to see our grils. feel me man? smarten up or else i'l come in smack u in the head
public places: movies. bowling. ice-skating (great one). swimming.
private places: forest. near by pond/lake. park.
Try convincing them to let you go somewhere with a bunch of friends, and then ditch your friends. hopefully they'll understand
dinner and a movie...that works...sit at separate tables at dinner and at the movie sit apart from your sister...
all of these advices are good. if you wanna be alone all u gotta do is take a risk.
I feel u, my parents won't even let me date and i'm 16
Go to the movies and see a different movie than your sister and her bf.
movies is pretty classic.
then u and ur sister can both see different movies..
(just dont tell ur parents of course)
good luck :D
mall is good. some place where ur not sitting. a music festival? party? get creative!
Wait till your older
movies are a good choice.. and dont worry my parents are the same way !! it sucks i know
My advice is dont do it!
Don't have sex when you're a teen!Anyone have good dating advice for teens?
Well I think you should go somewhere fun not too serious. Like an arcade or something that you guys can have fun together. You know people think that the romantic places are dinners or dancing but I think when you guys can have fun and talk it is even more romantic. Good luck
Just lie ot you parents. tell them you are hangin wit guy frineds but instead go chil wit ur girl man. you have to start being smart now. parents thinks they know everything, well maybe they do but when it comes to girl, we rule. we love girls. so we must lie inorder to see our grils. feel me man? smarten up or else i'l come in smack u in the head
public places: movies. bowling. ice-skating (great one). swimming.
private places: forest. near by pond/lake. park.
Try convincing them to let you go somewhere with a bunch of friends, and then ditch your friends. hopefully they'll understand
dinner and a movie...that works...sit at separate tables at dinner and at the movie sit apart from your sister...
all of these advices are good. if you wanna be alone all u gotta do is take a risk.
I feel u, my parents won't even let me date and i'm 16
Go to the movies and see a different movie than your sister and her bf.
movies is pretty classic.
then u and ur sister can both see different movies..
(just dont tell ur parents of course)
good luck :D
mall is good. some place where ur not sitting. a music festival? party? get creative!
Wait till your older
movies are a good choice.. and dont worry my parents are the same way !! it sucks i know
My advice is dont do it!
Need some good dating advice?
okay well i went out with this girl last year for about 2 months then after the breakup we became really good friends then a couple weeks ago she invited me to a party and i met her bestfriend for the first time and i thought she was pretty hot and me and her became good friends. im not sure if she likes me but i like her and want to ask her out but i dont know if my ex will get pissed cuz shes pretty understanding but you never know.should i ask her out or find someone else?Need some good dating advice?
If you really like her and think it would be worth it, then by all means ask her out. Who cares if your ex gets mad, she is your ex and if she is really over you and an unselfish person she won't even mind at all.Need some good dating advice?
Maybe you could ask your ex if she minds, at least that way when you go to ask her bestfriend you could tell her you talked to your ex. If it were me you were asking out id feel better knowing that my bestfriend didnt mind if i dated her ex. But if you ex does mind you should just leave her friend alone. You dont want to mess up their friendship or yours.
If you really like her and think it would be worth it, then by all means ask her out. Who cares if your ex gets mad, she is your ex and if she is really over you and an unselfish person she won't even mind at all.Need some good dating advice?
Maybe you could ask your ex if she minds, at least that way when you go to ask her bestfriend you could tell her you talked to your ex. If it were me you were asking out id feel better knowing that my bestfriend didnt mind if i dated her ex. But if you ex does mind you should just leave her friend alone. You dont want to mess up their friendship or yours.
OK so i do have another date coming up and i wanted some fresh advice.?
look really good..you buy the whole time..don't make him spend a dollar..come and pick me out and take me out..that way you stay in control and i'm happy!OK so i do have another date coming up and i wanted some fresh advice.?
be yourselfOK so i do have another date coming up and i wanted some fresh advice.?
Go to the park or the museum.. See if he has a cultured side
be yourselfOK so i do have another date coming up and i wanted some fresh advice.?
Go to the park or the museum.. See if he has a cultured side
Have you ever actually used advice you got from the ';Singles and Dating'; section of Yahoo-Answers?
I was just wondering cause I never seemed to actually do anything these people tell me too.Have you ever actually used advice you got from the ';Singles and Dating'; section of Yahoo-Answers?
Not really, many of the answers are kind of dumb or sarcastic. The rest are people telling me what I already know. I guess sometimes we just want positive affirmation of what we are thinking or feeling.Have you ever actually used advice you got from the ';Singles and Dating'; section of Yahoo-Answers?
nope!how to apply
Not really, many of the answers are kind of dumb or sarcastic. The rest are people telling me what I already know. I guess sometimes we just want positive affirmation of what we are thinking or feeling.Have you ever actually used advice you got from the ';Singles and Dating'; section of Yahoo-Answers?
nope!
Prom date, help!! 10 points to best advice!!?
so i asked this guy i know outside of school to my school's prom, i don't know him that well, but i like him and we're friends. he said sure, but he said he had to check his plans first.
he called back and said he cant go b/c he has to help move out his sister from college, but i kind of think that if he really wanted to go, he could.
I want to convince him to come, but i dont want to sound too desperate or anything b/c theyre moving her out in 2 weekends and plus his parents can help her. its only one night.
what should i do?? b/c he should be able to go, should i call him and try to convince him to come?Prom date, help!! 10 points to best advice!!?
He would feel guilty if he didn't help his sister move, for one. And also, I think that he's afraid of it being awkward when he's at your prom with loads of people he doesn't know at all. That can be extremely intimidating, and he probably feels that you wouldn't find that very attractive if he suddenly became really shy and intimidated by everyone.Prom date, help!! 10 points to best advice!!?
if he really wanted to go he would,he's making excuses,he told you in a nice way no,thats why he said he had to check his plans.he had no plans at first,but he has them now because he don't want to go with you.find someone else 2 go with you sweetie,forget that jerk.GOOD LUCK..%26amp; have fun at the prom you only get one......
he called back and said he cant go b/c he has to help move out his sister from college, but i kind of think that if he really wanted to go, he could.
I want to convince him to come, but i dont want to sound too desperate or anything b/c theyre moving her out in 2 weekends and plus his parents can help her. its only one night.
what should i do?? b/c he should be able to go, should i call him and try to convince him to come?Prom date, help!! 10 points to best advice!!?
He would feel guilty if he didn't help his sister move, for one. And also, I think that he's afraid of it being awkward when he's at your prom with loads of people he doesn't know at all. That can be extremely intimidating, and he probably feels that you wouldn't find that very attractive if he suddenly became really shy and intimidated by everyone.Prom date, help!! 10 points to best advice!!?
if he really wanted to go he would,he's making excuses,he told you in a nice way no,thats why he said he had to check his plans.he had no plans at first,but he has them now because he don't want to go with you.find someone else 2 go with you sweetie,forget that jerk.GOOD LUCK..%26amp; have fun at the prom you only get one......
Second date: Can you give me some advice? Good conversation topics?
Ok we went out to the movies the other night and had a good time, made great conversation and clicked really well all night. She agreed to a second date and I am coming over to her house tonight and we are just going to hang out and have a few drinks or whatever... Well, I have sort a game plan, so to speak. I am gonna try to play it cool. As in like lay back, chill, relax, you know play it cool. I need some good conversation topics. I am a decent looking guy, and I am pretty comfortable talking to her, but when it comes to the talking department, I have a major brain fart. I can never think of anything to say. All I hear in my head is sex sex sex, lol. But I dont wanna push it. Any advice????Second date: Can you give me some advice? Good conversation topics?
Seriously?!
Don't think about the date as a ';date';. If you can't have a conversation with her without thinking about getting her in the sack, that's all you will ever get with her. Unless that's all you want, of course.
Assuming that you are looking for a relationship with her, you need to think about her as a friend first and foremost. Talk to her about what interests you: sports, music, movies... Find things that interest both of you and explore those subjects. The more interested you are in each other as human beings, the more the sparks will fly when you do get physical.
What's worked for me in my current relationship is finding those things we both like and touching on those frequently: for us it's music, food, movies, basketball, and NASCAR.
Good luck!Second date: Can you give me some advice? Good conversation topics?
Don't talk too much about sex, it can make the girl feel like that's all you want from her, or at the very least, all you can think about.
Try to stay busy, so you won't have to think that hard of what to talk about. Play darts, cards, a board game, watch a movie, etc.
Ask her about traveling she's done, things that she really likes to do, her family, her childhood, etc.
Thats Great then you dont have to panic. Since you passed the hardest part, the FIRST date, you already made your first impressions. So on your 2nd date you can just have more of a friendly hangout with her. Just treat her more as one of your friends and the entire date will go along smoothly just keep yourself from overdrinking!!!! (FLASHBACKS!!!!)
ok try listening to her when she talks and dont always think about sex! some girls dont want it on the second date. some conversation starters? well u could compliment her or u could ask questions about her. what she likes enjoys etc.
hope i helped
Here is the secret of secrets my friend:Get her to talk about herself !Thats it.They LOVE talking about themselves more than anything.More than ice cream in fact.Just get the ball rolling and she`ll do the rest I assure you.
Ask her about herself, what her interests are, her hobbies, activities, ask her what her job's like. Then share the same about yourself.
Seriously?!
Don't think about the date as a ';date';. If you can't have a conversation with her without thinking about getting her in the sack, that's all you will ever get with her. Unless that's all you want, of course.
Assuming that you are looking for a relationship with her, you need to think about her as a friend first and foremost. Talk to her about what interests you: sports, music, movies... Find things that interest both of you and explore those subjects. The more interested you are in each other as human beings, the more the sparks will fly when you do get physical.
What's worked for me in my current relationship is finding those things we both like and touching on those frequently: for us it's music, food, movies, basketball, and NASCAR.
Good luck!Second date: Can you give me some advice? Good conversation topics?
Don't talk too much about sex, it can make the girl feel like that's all you want from her, or at the very least, all you can think about.
Try to stay busy, so you won't have to think that hard of what to talk about. Play darts, cards, a board game, watch a movie, etc.
Ask her about traveling she's done, things that she really likes to do, her family, her childhood, etc.
Thats Great then you dont have to panic. Since you passed the hardest part, the FIRST date, you already made your first impressions. So on your 2nd date you can just have more of a friendly hangout with her. Just treat her more as one of your friends and the entire date will go along smoothly just keep yourself from overdrinking!!!! (FLASHBACKS!!!!)
ok try listening to her when she talks and dont always think about sex! some girls dont want it on the second date. some conversation starters? well u could compliment her or u could ask questions about her. what she likes enjoys etc.
hope i helped
Here is the secret of secrets my friend:Get her to talk about herself !Thats it.They LOVE talking about themselves more than anything.More than ice cream in fact.Just get the ball rolling and she`ll do the rest I assure you.
Ask her about herself, what her interests are, her hobbies, activities, ask her what her job's like. Then share the same about yourself.
Blind date kinda thing. Need help and advice!!?
K. I'm 18 and I have a friend that kinda set me up with her boyfriends best friend. In a few days we are going to hang out and go on a double date kinda thing. So I guess its kinda a blind date. But I've talked to him for like a month so we kinda know each other's personalities.
Anyway, I am just kinda lookin for advice and that.
So one of my questions is just like what should I wear and like how should I work out the whole hygene/apperance thing. I know lots of things dont realy matter, but Ill ask anyway. One of the dumb things is should I paint my nails or not? Like is painting them show that I kinda just like to have fun and am silly. Or is that mroe like an immature thrid grader thing?? If I paint them what color would be best?
What all do you think the guy would notice? What all shoudl I do to get ready?
And what are some good topic starters? Do you know any fun jokes or something?
I hope this all kinda makes sense. Thanks for your help!! Any advice about anything for this would be great!!Blind date kinda thing. Need help and advice!!?
Just wear your favorite casual outfit, and it's fine to paint your nails. i know lots of people who do x] and when you meet him, just act like you normally would. what i usually do is tell stories that happened to me that were funny like ';one time __________'; but don't overdo it :] just go with the conversation, and ask your friend to help out and bring up subjects as well when things get quiet
Anyway, I am just kinda lookin for advice and that.
So one of my questions is just like what should I wear and like how should I work out the whole hygene/apperance thing. I know lots of things dont realy matter, but Ill ask anyway. One of the dumb things is should I paint my nails or not? Like is painting them show that I kinda just like to have fun and am silly. Or is that mroe like an immature thrid grader thing?? If I paint them what color would be best?
What all do you think the guy would notice? What all shoudl I do to get ready?
And what are some good topic starters? Do you know any fun jokes or something?
I hope this all kinda makes sense. Thanks for your help!! Any advice about anything for this would be great!!Blind date kinda thing. Need help and advice!!?
Just wear your favorite casual outfit, and it's fine to paint your nails. i know lots of people who do x] and when you meet him, just act like you normally would. what i usually do is tell stories that happened to me that were funny like ';one time __________'; but don't overdo it :] just go with the conversation, and ask your friend to help out and bring up subjects as well when things get quiet
Help im 12 i can date im not 2 young plz some advice?
i dont know how to ask someone out i like some ppl i dont know what to do please help me i want a boyfriend so badHelp im 12 i can date im not 2 young plz some advice?
You're 12. You are too young. Way too young to be obsessed over having a boyfriend.Help im 12 i can date im not 2 young plz some advice?
In theory, why not?
In your case, I think you have to mature a little.
What do you want a boy-friend for?
Are you kidding? You don't even know your alive yet. Find something else to occupy your time and mind.
There is plenty of time for boyfriends, why rush, dont wish your childhood away, you will regret it!!!
YES you are too young little girl.
im sorry to tell you that but you defently are way to young.
you dont need to know how to ask someone out yet your to young as i just said and as many people have said.
go play with your toys.
and stop being so DESPERATE!
ok first you to relax,if you want a boyfriend so bad then what you should do is just be yourself start learning how to flirt.And if your planning to ask someone out don't say i want to go out with you no! you can say im ready for a relationship or i want to take it to the next level as long as you let that person know.Oh a piece of important advice from me is always keep that person guessing what,where,why, supply him with answers but not that much.
You're 12. You are too young. Way too young to be obsessed over having a boyfriend.Help im 12 i can date im not 2 young plz some advice?
In theory, why not?
In your case, I think you have to mature a little.
What do you want a boy-friend for?
Are you kidding? You don't even know your alive yet. Find something else to occupy your time and mind.
There is plenty of time for boyfriends, why rush, dont wish your childhood away, you will regret it!!!
YES you are too young little girl.
im sorry to tell you that but you defently are way to young.
you dont need to know how to ask someone out yet your to young as i just said and as many people have said.
go play with your toys.
and stop being so DESPERATE!
ok first you to relax,if you want a boyfriend so bad then what you should do is just be yourself start learning how to flirt.And if your planning to ask someone out don't say i want to go out with you no! you can say im ready for a relationship or i want to take it to the next level as long as you let that person know.Oh a piece of important advice from me is always keep that person guessing what,where,why, supply him with answers but not that much.
Alright i need some advice on how to go on a wonderful date?!?
Alright my girlfreind lives in chicago and i dont get to go there often and C her so when i do have enoguh money I always go and spend time with her now ... this time I would like to take her on a date, but not a ordinary date i would like to take her somewhere that she will never forget some where very special.. can anyone give me a idea of where i could take her or ideas of how to make this date very special and unforgetable?
Thanks Alot_ AaronAlright i need some advice on how to go on a wonderful date?!?
rent a helicopter. That would be the ULTIMATE date.Alright i need some advice on how to go on a wonderful date?!?
It can be a hotel, resort or any historical place.
What is more important is how loving you are to each other.
That makes everything else memorable.
do anything but the oridanry dinner and movie
don't look for answers here ...ask here if you really like to make her happy ...couse she might like something differant
jewlrey,choclate, love lots of love and try to make her giggle
thats wate i like
take her on a romantic fairy ride across a pond or lake or river or something in the evening. make sure there is dinner and tell her how much you miss her. After that if there is music ask her to dance. when youre done take her on a carrige ride and then your date is done. Good luck!
you can take her on a moonlight strole down at a beach..
or plan a romantic dinner..
with candles and roses..
Thanks Alot_ AaronAlright i need some advice on how to go on a wonderful date?!?
rent a helicopter. That would be the ULTIMATE date.Alright i need some advice on how to go on a wonderful date?!?
It can be a hotel, resort or any historical place.
What is more important is how loving you are to each other.
That makes everything else memorable.
do anything but the oridanry dinner and movie
don't look for answers here ...ask here if you really like to make her happy ...couse she might like something differant
jewlrey,choclate, love lots of love and try to make her giggle
thats wate i like
take her on a romantic fairy ride across a pond or lake or river or something in the evening. make sure there is dinner and tell her how much you miss her. After that if there is music ask her to dance. when youre done take her on a carrige ride and then your date is done. Good luck!
you can take her on a moonlight strole down at a beach..
or plan a romantic dinner..
with candles and roses..
==========> What is your advice about dating a virgin?
I am a female, and I am trying to date this guy. He has never had a girlfriend before.
I think that he would be a good boyfriend. I just don't know how to approach the subject of sex and stuff... He is just so sheepish and sweet.
Any advice on how to be a good first girlfriend... and a good ';first'; in general?==========%26gt; What is your advice about dating a virgin?
Treat him the same way you wanted to be treated when you were a virgin. Don't rush him. Don't pressure him. Most importantly, make this a chance to teach him. If his first serious relationship is with a woman who knows what she wants and knows how to get it, he will be ever grateful to you.==========%26gt; What is your advice about dating a virgin?
Sex isn't all there is to a relationship. If you are both of age it will happen naturally.
Be yourself and don't be afraid.
I wound date a virgin, but for you pull him out of his misery and get it on all night long for about 10 seconds each time.
Try to be his first friend, than girlfriend before you become his first lover
wait until he feels comfortable, don't push or rush him into anything.
i'm pretty sure once he's inside of you, he'll know what to do :]
maybe he wants to wait for marriage. don't pressure him. respect what he wants and don't make him feel bad about it :]
It will come up if it is meant to be. He seems like a good guy, so let him make the move if and when he wants.how to apply
I think that he would be a good boyfriend. I just don't know how to approach the subject of sex and stuff... He is just so sheepish and sweet.
Any advice on how to be a good first girlfriend... and a good ';first'; in general?==========%26gt; What is your advice about dating a virgin?
Treat him the same way you wanted to be treated when you were a virgin. Don't rush him. Don't pressure him. Most importantly, make this a chance to teach him. If his first serious relationship is with a woman who knows what she wants and knows how to get it, he will be ever grateful to you.==========%26gt; What is your advice about dating a virgin?
Sex isn't all there is to a relationship. If you are both of age it will happen naturally.
Be yourself and don't be afraid.
I wound date a virgin, but for you pull him out of his misery and get it on all night long for about 10 seconds each time.
Try to be his first friend, than girlfriend before you become his first lover
wait until he feels comfortable, don't push or rush him into anything.
i'm pretty sure once he's inside of you, he'll know what to do :]
maybe he wants to wait for marriage. don't pressure him. respect what he wants and don't make him feel bad about it :]
It will come up if it is meant to be. He seems like a good guy, so let him make the move if and when he wants.
Hey girls,need advice writing a love poem to a friend you dated is good or bad?
IF so, txt is good or in person?Hey girls,need advice writing a love poem to a friend you dated is good or bad?
It depends what the poem is about. If it's about being over them then maybe. Not wanting to get back together though. But write what you mean and do what ever feels right for YOU.
It depends what the poem is about. If it's about being over them then maybe. Not wanting to get back together though. But write what you mean and do what ever feels right for YOU.
I am a civilian who just started dating a vet with post traumatic stress. Any advice?
He has been out 4 years, medical discharge. Seems to be doing well...I am a civilian who just started dating a vet with post traumatic stress. Any advice?
if he's doing well, then why the question? maybe he's got a handle on things.
if he's doing well, then why the question? maybe he's got a handle on things.
Fourteen year old guy needs dating advice?
im 14 years old and me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 4 months...but we still haven't done anything...not even kissed...she's my first girlfriend...and she told me that the reason we havent done anything is because of my inexperience...what can i do?? i really want to kiss her...lol...Fourteen year old guy needs dating advice?
ermmm jus tel her you want to..? and yano
or just let it happen when you are both ready but i guess 4 months is a lot of waiting?
just do it i think!...and then after you will see its not a big deal at all
hope i helped %26lt;3Fourteen year old guy needs dating advice?
then kiss her.
start with cheeks, then the lips later on(:
its ok that yer taking it slow.
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yer around the same age as me. can u please help me --;
4 months and still haven't kissed?
This is what you should do.
Whenever your alone, look at her and just kiss her, without saying anything.
then just kiss her. you'll never get any experience if you don't do anything.
ok take her eout 2 the movies when the lights go down suprise her with a kiss!
just kiss her, it's already been 4 months
go up 2 her and kiss her
ermmm jus tel her you want to..? and yano
or just let it happen when you are both ready but i guess 4 months is a lot of waiting?
just do it i think!...and then after you will see its not a big deal at all
hope i helped %26lt;3Fourteen year old guy needs dating advice?
then kiss her.
start with cheeks, then the lips later on(:
its ok that yer taking it slow.
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yer around the same age as me. can u please help me --;
4 months and still haven't kissed?
This is what you should do.
Whenever your alone, look at her and just kiss her, without saying anything.
then just kiss her. you'll never get any experience if you don't do anything.
ok take her eout 2 the movies when the lights go down suprise her with a kiss!
just kiss her, it's already been 4 months
go up 2 her and kiss her
I am a shallow bastard, I only date beauty queens but no brains. Any advice?
SUPERFICIALI am a shallow bastard, I only date beauty queens but no brains. Any advice?
No advice but lots of reasons why you do it
a/there's nothing wrong with choosing to be with a lobotomized beauty
b/deep down you feel you deserve nothing but
c/deep down you consider yourself less than
d/you're scared out of your wits they will find out how shallow you, yourself, may be.
e/you're insecure that if you choose one with brains she'll figure you out in no time. Now that would be a shocker.
You have, however, every right to be with whom you pleaseI am a shallow bastard, I only date beauty queens but no brains. Any advice?
Good luck.
You'll have a hot chick but nothing to talk about and personally, if I were you, I'd be rather embarrassed of her. But that's only cos I'm an intellectual person and I like to talk.
I feel sorry that you have to refer to yourself that way.. apparently, you do not feel good about yourself and you think beauty queens will make you feel betther. Come on grow up.. you have the answer to your own question.. you might need to reallylook at yourself.. because you will never be happy by living that way.
You don't want a woman who challenges you and makes you think, you want 'arm candy'. Maybe you think that having a beauty queen is some kind of trophy, but having a clever, funny woman shows you are a real man. Be shallow if you like, but maybe if you seek something deeper you'll be more fulfilled.
yeah after a while you will want to settle down and finde sombody who acctually knows somthing more than lipstick shades your just like any other man its probley just a fase you'll grow out of it with time comes knowlage im sure one day youll finde the perfict girl who's beautiful and smart dont worry they are out there..
U r lucky enough
Quit if u r bored
Continue if u still want 2
Want a change?
U know what 2 do...
Make sure they have big **** too.
sounds like you have found your avenue..
you get what you deserve and yes you are a shallow person
if it works for you, go for it, but if it doesnt, you know what to do.
date an ok chick who's smart
yes, you are....good out with a ';nerd'; three or four times....learn about them.....guess what? they are humans, and they ahve a heart.....and you know what? they are more beautiful than a lot of beauty queens.....inside, where it counts......beauty fades....the heart goes on
use your brain,,why date brainless girls
No advice but lots of reasons why you do it
a/there's nothing wrong with choosing to be with a lobotomized beauty
b/deep down you feel you deserve nothing but
c/deep down you consider yourself less than
d/you're scared out of your wits they will find out how shallow you, yourself, may be.
e/you're insecure that if you choose one with brains she'll figure you out in no time. Now that would be a shocker.
You have, however, every right to be with whom you pleaseI am a shallow bastard, I only date beauty queens but no brains. Any advice?
Good luck.
You'll have a hot chick but nothing to talk about and personally, if I were you, I'd be rather embarrassed of her. But that's only cos I'm an intellectual person and I like to talk.
I feel sorry that you have to refer to yourself that way.. apparently, you do not feel good about yourself and you think beauty queens will make you feel betther. Come on grow up.. you have the answer to your own question.. you might need to reallylook at yourself.. because you will never be happy by living that way.
You don't want a woman who challenges you and makes you think, you want 'arm candy'. Maybe you think that having a beauty queen is some kind of trophy, but having a clever, funny woman shows you are a real man. Be shallow if you like, but maybe if you seek something deeper you'll be more fulfilled.
yeah after a while you will want to settle down and finde sombody who acctually knows somthing more than lipstick shades your just like any other man its probley just a fase you'll grow out of it with time comes knowlage im sure one day youll finde the perfict girl who's beautiful and smart dont worry they are out there..
U r lucky enough
Quit if u r bored
Continue if u still want 2
Want a change?
U know what 2 do...
Make sure they have big **** too.
sounds like you have found your avenue..
you get what you deserve and yes you are a shallow person
if it works for you, go for it, but if it doesnt, you know what to do.
date an ok chick who's smart
yes, you are....good out with a ';nerd'; three or four times....learn about them.....guess what? they are humans, and they ahve a heart.....and you know what? they are more beautiful than a lot of beauty queens.....inside, where it counts......beauty fades....the heart goes on
use your brain,,why date brainless girls
I got a ticket for out of date registration sticker, need a little advice?
so i got a ticket for the sticker, which i had no idea about (new driver, i guess the dealer put it on the plates) what i want to know is can i fight this? I was supposed to recieve a letter in the mail letting me know that it was supposed to expire a couple months before my birthday, and in fact on there webpage it reads,
';For your convenience, a licence plate renewal application WILL BE mailed to you approximately 60 to 90 days prior to the plate expiry (usually on your birthdate).';
i know in the U.S. they are not required to but in Canada (where i live) they are, is it possible to point this out and have my ticket dropped?I got a ticket for out of date registration sticker, need a little advice?
It's definately worth fighting. i live in toronto so i know what yur talkin about, you have nothing to lose by fighting it. and since yur a new driver you have that going for you....if you can prove that it was always insured then you should be ok. When people don't have valtags updated the police are under the suspicion that there isn't valid up to date insurance.I got a ticket for out of date registration sticker, need a little advice?
You can try to bring that up as a defense, however the court will be very quick to point out to you that it is YOUR responsibility to maintain the registration of your vehicle, so you will be found guilty, and have to pay the fine, and possibly a point or two on your license.
Sorry to inform you that the court system has no tolerance for ';failure to know';.
If there is a decal on your plate, and you have a registration document stating the expiration date, it is your responsibility to make sure your registration is current. You are the car owner, it is your responsibility, not the dealer's.
Mail gets lost all the time, its not a guarantee you will be notified.
I doubt you have a defense as a judge will simply ask, ';do you know how to read?';. When you answer, ';yes, your honor, I can read';, he will say, ';guilty, as charged';. Then you will go to prison for ever and ever and ever.
Just pay it and get it over with.
Don't feel bad, I got a ticket just yesterday for expired registration. Turns out my plates had been suspended, too. I could have had my car impounded but the cop cut me a break and I got it taken care of. Cost me $210 + whatever the ticket will be.... lesson learned.
';For your convenience, a licence plate renewal application WILL BE mailed to you approximately 60 to 90 days prior to the plate expiry (usually on your birthdate).';
i know in the U.S. they are not required to but in Canada (where i live) they are, is it possible to point this out and have my ticket dropped?I got a ticket for out of date registration sticker, need a little advice?
It's definately worth fighting. i live in toronto so i know what yur talkin about, you have nothing to lose by fighting it. and since yur a new driver you have that going for you....if you can prove that it was always insured then you should be ok. When people don't have valtags updated the police are under the suspicion that there isn't valid up to date insurance.I got a ticket for out of date registration sticker, need a little advice?
You can try to bring that up as a defense, however the court will be very quick to point out to you that it is YOUR responsibility to maintain the registration of your vehicle, so you will be found guilty, and have to pay the fine, and possibly a point or two on your license.
Sorry to inform you that the court system has no tolerance for ';failure to know';.
If there is a decal on your plate, and you have a registration document stating the expiration date, it is your responsibility to make sure your registration is current. You are the car owner, it is your responsibility, not the dealer's.
Mail gets lost all the time, its not a guarantee you will be notified.
I doubt you have a defense as a judge will simply ask, ';do you know how to read?';. When you answer, ';yes, your honor, I can read';, he will say, ';guilty, as charged';. Then you will go to prison for ever and ever and ever.
Just pay it and get it over with.
Don't feel bad, I got a ticket just yesterday for expired registration. Turns out my plates had been suspended, too. I could have had my car impounded but the cop cut me a break and I got it taken care of. Cost me $210 + whatever the ticket will be.... lesson learned.
I have a boyfriend and I need some dating advice! I am a shy person. How can I feel comfortable?
I am definitely a shy person. How can I feel more comfortable around guys?? Also, any dating tips?I have a boyfriend and I need some dating advice! I am a shy person. How can I feel comfortable?
you can practice with me. just email meI have a boyfriend and I need some dating advice! I am a shy person. How can I feel comfortable?
I think you are still young.
just talk to a guy you really trust like it's your boyfriend and that should help...i know when i got nervous around girls one of my best friends (who was a girl) helped me out like that
get 2 know the guy and just talk for a while, talk to other girls around you qabout what the do on their dates
As with most things, the more time you spend doing it, the more comfortable you will become. Even if you feel uncomfortable around guys at first, try to spend a lot of time around them (not enough to make you look like a slut, though, you don't want that!). In time, you will grow more comfortable and you'll be fine.
Sorry, I don't have any dating tips.
Im naturally shy also, but since ive been dating my gf, im not shy anymore for about nearly anything, so hang out with him as much as possible.
Do things with him that make you happy. If you like walking in the park, try doing that. Do things that you feel comfortable doing, and ask him what he likes to do. Just communicate. And try not to stress about it so much. Be yourself. Treat guys with respect. Your chances of getting it in return will improve.
Organise a group date, get together a few of your friends and ask him to do the same thing. Maybe go to a theme park or dinner, somewhere where you can feel more relaxed. I find that when first meeting a guy, having my friends around helps because we don't fear rejection as much as we can be ourselves more. Having your friends there feels as though you've got that backup if anything goes wrong. Plus we all feel completely comfortable with our friends so they kind of help you to relx a bit more. By being yourself around him, you'll know from the beginning if he really likes you or not. If you try to be someone you're not, you'll more than likely loose him because he may think that he can't trust you. Being yourself is the best thing you can do, %26amp; if being yourself means that you do loose him then he's not worth it! Good luck babe!!!!
you should put a fresh meat in your as to be comfortable against the world!
may i tell you this advice: when you see a man instead of looking at his face, search for his drill and point it to that way. When the guy realise that you are more sensual that he thought it would be easier to manage him and your desires of eating some coke
You got to be loose and if you have a nice rack or a nice butt or anything that is beautiful or big use it to your advantage. I know a girl who is really ugly but got a super nice butt and she gets all the attention from the guys.
You can't. =) Eventually if things will work out, you'll be comfortable.
Go out for coffee (mocha) it takes less time and helps you grow into more meaningful dates later...take small steps and being in public won't hurt either - much safer.
well you know a boyfriend is just that it is someone who should have started out as a friend... you have to be comfortable with them as a friend before you can be comfortable with them being ur boyfriend... and about being shy before going out make up a list of thing u wanna talk about or know about him then casually bring it up be sure not to interrogate him... and before you know it he will ask you q's and ya'll will be comfortable with each other...
First and foremost - be yourself - even if you act shy. He is dating you so he obviously knows you are shy. Sometimes it helps to go on double dates - it takes the pressure off of you trying to come up with lively conversation. It is also easier to be more at ease with a friend there. Eventually you will begin to feel as comfortable with your boyfriend as you do you friends.how to apply
you can practice with me. just email meI have a boyfriend and I need some dating advice! I am a shy person. How can I feel comfortable?
I think you are still young.
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just talk to a guy you really trust like it's your boyfriend and that should help...i know when i got nervous around girls one of my best friends (who was a girl) helped me out like that
get 2 know the guy and just talk for a while, talk to other girls around you qabout what the do on their dates
As with most things, the more time you spend doing it, the more comfortable you will become. Even if you feel uncomfortable around guys at first, try to spend a lot of time around them (not enough to make you look like a slut, though, you don't want that!). In time, you will grow more comfortable and you'll be fine.
Sorry, I don't have any dating tips.
Im naturally shy also, but since ive been dating my gf, im not shy anymore for about nearly anything, so hang out with him as much as possible.
Do things with him that make you happy. If you like walking in the park, try doing that. Do things that you feel comfortable doing, and ask him what he likes to do. Just communicate. And try not to stress about it so much. Be yourself. Treat guys with respect. Your chances of getting it in return will improve.
Organise a group date, get together a few of your friends and ask him to do the same thing. Maybe go to a theme park or dinner, somewhere where you can feel more relaxed. I find that when first meeting a guy, having my friends around helps because we don't fear rejection as much as we can be ourselves more. Having your friends there feels as though you've got that backup if anything goes wrong. Plus we all feel completely comfortable with our friends so they kind of help you to relx a bit more. By being yourself around him, you'll know from the beginning if he really likes you or not. If you try to be someone you're not, you'll more than likely loose him because he may think that he can't trust you. Being yourself is the best thing you can do, %26amp; if being yourself means that you do loose him then he's not worth it! Good luck babe!!!!
you should put a fresh meat in your as to be comfortable against the world!
may i tell you this advice: when you see a man instead of looking at his face, search for his drill and point it to that way. When the guy realise that you are more sensual that he thought it would be easier to manage him and your desires of eating some coke
You got to be loose and if you have a nice rack or a nice butt or anything that is beautiful or big use it to your advantage. I know a girl who is really ugly but got a super nice butt and she gets all the attention from the guys.
You can't. =) Eventually if things will work out, you'll be comfortable.
Go out for coffee (mocha) it takes less time and helps you grow into more meaningful dates later...take small steps and being in public won't hurt either - much safer.
well you know a boyfriend is just that it is someone who should have started out as a friend... you have to be comfortable with them as a friend before you can be comfortable with them being ur boyfriend... and about being shy before going out make up a list of thing u wanna talk about or know about him then casually bring it up be sure not to interrogate him... and before you know it he will ask you q's and ya'll will be comfortable with each other...
First and foremost - be yourself - even if you act shy. He is dating you so he obviously knows you are shy. Sometimes it helps to go on double dates - it takes the pressure off of you trying to come up with lively conversation. It is also easier to be more at ease with a friend there. Eventually you will begin to feel as comfortable with your boyfriend as you do you friends.
Why is my due date a month apart will someone im me on messenger so we can talk and so I can get advice....?
My due date was November 28th-30th when my doctor seen my baby on her ulstrusond he said she looked a little small so he said I was not 5 months I was only 4 months and he changed my due date to December 22 why is my due dates a month a part?
so will someone im me on yahoo messenger if you have it....
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thanks...Why is my due date a month apart will someone im me on messenger so we can talk and so I can get advice....?
Maybe because your baby is developing slowly and needs more time. It happens often, no need to panic :)
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so will someone im me on yahoo messenger if you have it....
ccandsheila@yahoo.com
thanks...Why is my due date a month apart will someone im me on messenger so we can talk and so I can get advice....?
Maybe because your baby is developing slowly and needs more time. It happens often, no need to panic :)
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I want to date but my mom wont let me>: ( Advice PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
My mom doesn't wanna let me date until i'm 16 but i dont turn 16 until the end of next summer and that really sucks!!!!! What do i do plz give me some good adviceI want to date but my mom wont let me%26gt;: ( Advice PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
Ok, here's a ';fathers'; spin on this little problem. My dear, I don't know your current situation at home, (you said your mom, but is there a father opinion in this too?) I have an 18yo daughter who just married, and I now have my first grandchild! Now, I must be honest, at first I was NOT thrilled with my daughter dating at 16, but soon learned to accept the facts of life. While I'm not a girl, I WAS 16 once myself, and had little resistance from my mom about dating. Ok, Ok I know, I'm a male and we're supposed to get more slack and not have our folks worry so much.....but they did, and it didn't stunt my growth or give me pimples or any such thing......lol.... But honestly, I was a bit weary with my daughter for quite sometime at first. However, (and I think you'll like this part!) If you and your mom have a good relationship, and she TRUSTS you, she'll allow you to date under certain conditions......For example, I used to double-date with my best friend as a safety net.......Not so much for me, but for the benefit of HER mom. Besides that, it kept me from allowing things to go to far TOO fast.....get it? Aside from that, and again depending on your circumstance, she herself has to look back at her teenage years and ask herself what she felt and how she reacted at that time.
There is one more thing.........Things back then where quite a bit different than they are today, (AID, DRUGS, and VIOLENCE) sooooooooo, in closing I must remind you young lady, that YOU and you alone are (or at least should be) the one in charge, and in control of your date. Just be true to yourself, and remember that whatever you do, you WILL have to live with those consequences.....Good luck!!
Lee
P.S. One more thing......Sexy Hottie is NOT an approriate nickname for a 16yo, so SLOW DOWN plz??I want to date but my mom wont let me%26gt;: ( Advice PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
what you should do is talk to your mom and tell her that you are a responsible person and could handle dating
I was the same when my daughter was your age.I was scare to lose my baby,that is why it was hard for me to realize that she wasn't a baby anymore..But i think it is to early for you to go out with a guy steady,you need to enjoy and have fun and enjoy freedom before you are really ready to go out steady.
listen to your mother she knows what is best
Date in secret. It's fun.
listen to your mother, its in your best interest. be glad she's letting you ate at 16, if i was your father, I'd make sure you graduated college first
Be patient you're young and trust me look on this site, many older women are still dating and unhappy, dating boys are no going out of style, it will be here waiting for you when your mom says it's okay for you to date. You can date at anytime in the future but your youth and innocence you'll never get back, enjoy being a kid a little longer, cause before you know it you'll be dating and have many problems bigger than what you have no. Take care and good luck.
Maybe you should stick with going out with guys without actually going anywhere. You can be in a relationship without being somewhere to make-out. I know it stinks but you can't go against your Mom, and maybe, if you wait, the real Mr. Perfect for you will turn up just when you can really date him, and that's where the fun will begin....
Good Luck!!!
(or you could try sneaking out of the house, but it's not advisable, your parents could think you got kidnapped and call the police.)
Grace
I won't let my daughter date until she is sixteen either. There is no hurry to get involved with boys.
arrange an event to go anywhere, movies works well, and tell her that more people ore going even if its your bf or a double date. just say its a big group of friends going and then make some people up.
Well, you wanna be a good daughter then listen to your mom.. or you wanna listen to your heart? that's okay too! you have a choice to choose as long as you ready for the concequences.
hate to say it but as long as you live with your parents you live by their rules, but if you keep nicely buggin em on it they may budge a little bit. gl
well i would go out with people but are'nt u mormor...? and u wouldnt wanna get cought...!
i think 16 is a good age limit for dating. however, since you're here to go against your mother, does she object to you having friends who are boys? if not, i'd say there's an easy way around this. now, if you don't want to mislead your mother, then you're gonna have to wait until you're 16. besides, any guy who truly deserves you will until you're 16. i know next summer feels like an eternity, but it's not.
Mom is the boss so do as she says
I agree with your Mom, wait until you are 16. What's the rush? You'll be surprised at the maturity you can gain in that one year...and be better able to handle the issues that can come up when you start dating.
If your Mom will let you go out in group situations, then at least you could still spend time around guys you like, and socialize...but truly, 16 is plenty young enough to begin dating...
Sorry, I know that's not what you wanted to hear...but I've been down that path and I remember how it was...
Parents want to see maturity.
You will do as she has requested, so she sees that you can act in a mature manner.
That, however, does not stop you from planning things so when the gates open up, you're ready to go
I had to wait until i was 16 and then i couldnt date anyone she didnt like. Just wait. boys will always be there.
this is a reasonable rule set by your mom.
be patient - not desperate.
also be careful...ever think she might be worried about you %26amp; pregnancy or std? sex is fun, but also carries certain responsibilites. she may just want you to enjoy your childhood without you having to worry about all this too soon. sounds cool to me.
PERHAPS SHE WOULD ALLOW YOU TO GO OUT IN A GROUP SITUATION OR AT LEAST SCHOOL DANCES ETC. OR WOULD SHE BE WILLING TO LET YOU HAVE A FEW FRIENDS OVER TO THE HOUSE FOR PIZZA OR WHATEVER AND YOUR DATE COULD BE INVITED.
if she lets u hang with ur friends y dont u say that u r going to the mall with ur friends and actually go out and date but dont tell her
if this advise isnt good enough then tell me and i will go on
Is dating THAT important to you.... and by what benifits are you going to gain from dating.... ???
Dont be so concerned on this issue.... as wanting to date can mean that you may be dating for the wrong reasons.....
Date for the right reasons.... and if you really like someone... explain to you Mom about it... but maturely!!!!
Talking to your Mom in a mature, but honest way may make her realise that you are not 8 years old anymore... but dont be upset if she still says no!! Your time will come... and guys will always be about!!!
Please be careful with the dating game... and be careful who the guy is.... and make you they want to date you for the right reasons too!!!
Good luck!!!
Parents always want the best for you and they will always be there for you so i think if they asked you so, you should listen to the as they dont want you to get hurt.
It is almost the end of the summer only one more year, if you can't wait then that shows that you are too immature to be dating. You need to respect your parents wishes.
PS Learn to write out ALL your words.
Ok, here's a ';fathers'; spin on this little problem. My dear, I don't know your current situation at home, (you said your mom, but is there a father opinion in this too?) I have an 18yo daughter who just married, and I now have my first grandchild! Now, I must be honest, at first I was NOT thrilled with my daughter dating at 16, but soon learned to accept the facts of life. While I'm not a girl, I WAS 16 once myself, and had little resistance from my mom about dating. Ok, Ok I know, I'm a male and we're supposed to get more slack and not have our folks worry so much.....but they did, and it didn't stunt my growth or give me pimples or any such thing......lol.... But honestly, I was a bit weary with my daughter for quite sometime at first. However, (and I think you'll like this part!) If you and your mom have a good relationship, and she TRUSTS you, she'll allow you to date under certain conditions......For example, I used to double-date with my best friend as a safety net.......Not so much for me, but for the benefit of HER mom. Besides that, it kept me from allowing things to go to far TOO fast.....get it? Aside from that, and again depending on your circumstance, she herself has to look back at her teenage years and ask herself what she felt and how she reacted at that time.
There is one more thing.........Things back then where quite a bit different than they are today, (AID, DRUGS, and VIOLENCE) sooooooooo, in closing I must remind you young lady, that YOU and you alone are (or at least should be) the one in charge, and in control of your date. Just be true to yourself, and remember that whatever you do, you WILL have to live with those consequences.....Good luck!!
Lee
P.S. One more thing......Sexy Hottie is NOT an approriate nickname for a 16yo, so SLOW DOWN plz??I want to date but my mom wont let me%26gt;: ( Advice PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
what you should do is talk to your mom and tell her that you are a responsible person and could handle dating
I was the same when my daughter was your age.I was scare to lose my baby,that is why it was hard for me to realize that she wasn't a baby anymore..But i think it is to early for you to go out with a guy steady,you need to enjoy and have fun and enjoy freedom before you are really ready to go out steady.
listen to your mother she knows what is best
Date in secret. It's fun.
listen to your mother, its in your best interest. be glad she's letting you ate at 16, if i was your father, I'd make sure you graduated college first
Be patient you're young and trust me look on this site, many older women are still dating and unhappy, dating boys are no going out of style, it will be here waiting for you when your mom says it's okay for you to date. You can date at anytime in the future but your youth and innocence you'll never get back, enjoy being a kid a little longer, cause before you know it you'll be dating and have many problems bigger than what you have no. Take care and good luck.
Maybe you should stick with going out with guys without actually going anywhere. You can be in a relationship without being somewhere to make-out. I know it stinks but you can't go against your Mom, and maybe, if you wait, the real Mr. Perfect for you will turn up just when you can really date him, and that's where the fun will begin....
Good Luck!!!
(or you could try sneaking out of the house, but it's not advisable, your parents could think you got kidnapped and call the police.)
Grace
I won't let my daughter date until she is sixteen either. There is no hurry to get involved with boys.
arrange an event to go anywhere, movies works well, and tell her that more people ore going even if its your bf or a double date. just say its a big group of friends going and then make some people up.
Well, you wanna be a good daughter then listen to your mom.. or you wanna listen to your heart? that's okay too! you have a choice to choose as long as you ready for the concequences.
hate to say it but as long as you live with your parents you live by their rules, but if you keep nicely buggin em on it they may budge a little bit. gl
well i would go out with people but are'nt u mormor...? and u wouldnt wanna get cought...!
i think 16 is a good age limit for dating. however, since you're here to go against your mother, does she object to you having friends who are boys? if not, i'd say there's an easy way around this. now, if you don't want to mislead your mother, then you're gonna have to wait until you're 16. besides, any guy who truly deserves you will until you're 16. i know next summer feels like an eternity, but it's not.
Mom is the boss so do as she says
I agree with your Mom, wait until you are 16. What's the rush? You'll be surprised at the maturity you can gain in that one year...and be better able to handle the issues that can come up when you start dating.
If your Mom will let you go out in group situations, then at least you could still spend time around guys you like, and socialize...but truly, 16 is plenty young enough to begin dating...
Sorry, I know that's not what you wanted to hear...but I've been down that path and I remember how it was...
Parents want to see maturity.
You will do as she has requested, so she sees that you can act in a mature manner.
That, however, does not stop you from planning things so when the gates open up, you're ready to go
I had to wait until i was 16 and then i couldnt date anyone she didnt like. Just wait. boys will always be there.
this is a reasonable rule set by your mom.
be patient - not desperate.
also be careful...ever think she might be worried about you %26amp; pregnancy or std? sex is fun, but also carries certain responsibilites. she may just want you to enjoy your childhood without you having to worry about all this too soon. sounds cool to me.
PERHAPS SHE WOULD ALLOW YOU TO GO OUT IN A GROUP SITUATION OR AT LEAST SCHOOL DANCES ETC. OR WOULD SHE BE WILLING TO LET YOU HAVE A FEW FRIENDS OVER TO THE HOUSE FOR PIZZA OR WHATEVER AND YOUR DATE COULD BE INVITED.
if she lets u hang with ur friends y dont u say that u r going to the mall with ur friends and actually go out and date but dont tell her
if this advise isnt good enough then tell me and i will go on
Is dating THAT important to you.... and by what benifits are you going to gain from dating.... ???
Dont be so concerned on this issue.... as wanting to date can mean that you may be dating for the wrong reasons.....
Date for the right reasons.... and if you really like someone... explain to you Mom about it... but maturely!!!!
Talking to your Mom in a mature, but honest way may make her realise that you are not 8 years old anymore... but dont be upset if she still says no!! Your time will come... and guys will always be about!!!
Please be careful with the dating game... and be careful who the guy is.... and make you they want to date you for the right reasons too!!!
Good luck!!!
Parents always want the best for you and they will always be there for you so i think if they asked you so, you should listen to the as they dont want you to get hurt.
It is almost the end of the summer only one more year, if you can't wait then that shows that you are too immature to be dating. You need to respect your parents wishes.
PS Learn to write out ALL your words.
I'm going on my first date and I'm really scared advice please?
I'm 13 years old and I'm going on my first date this Sunday. It's really complicated but are parents don't know about it and I don't feel like explaining how we are actually doing this. He's a year older than me, and I didn't actually tell him this was my first date... Anyways, it's not formal or anything we are just meeting at this one duck pond and we are going to go to our old elementary school park and hang out for a little bit. I'm really scared. Should I wear a shirt, jeans, dress, sweatpants, penny loafers, I DON'T KNOW?! And can you guys please give me some advice? Thank you so much this will really help me out a lot. :)I'm going on my first date and I'm really scared advice please?
if you guys are just going to a park and a pond, don't get too dressed up, but try to look nice. i'd wear skinny jeans, and a nice t-shirt? maybe fix your hair and do your make up nice too. just be yourself. my first date wasnt that bad actually. just relax.
and as far as your parents go, don't tell them. tell them you're just going to hang out with a few friends, and you'll be home later.
hope i helped.
(:I'm going on my first date and I'm really scared advice please?
My first date wasn't near as scary as I thought. I was a little awkward around the guy at first but then it was well worth it. You are 2 years younger than the age I had my first date though.
Just wear what you think looks good. If he's a good guy, he won't care that much. Relax. Don't wear a dress.
If I was you, and I was that scared, maybe you should go on a date with friends around first. If you can't do that though, then good luck.
my first date was when I was 14. we went to a park and hung out it was soooo cool! I loved it! even now when I'm older I love goin to the park with my bf.
just relax. you'll be nervous but try to keep the conversation going and be flirtty :)
don't dress p too much. and don't dress down
go in jeans. t, and a cute figure flattering jacket
awww how cutee. well its onl awkward if you make it awkward.. just dont haha keep it in mind..
help me?
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Wear jeans. Stay relaxed. Smile. Maintain eye contact. Keep conversation about causal things, nothing too serious. Laugh. Tease him if you can. And very important, have an excuse to get out of there a little earlier than expected.
If the date is going badly, you can escape. If the date is going well you always want to end on a high note and have him wanting to get together again soon.
if you guys are just going to a park and a pond, don't get too dressed up, but try to look nice. i'd wear skinny jeans, and a nice t-shirt? maybe fix your hair and do your make up nice too. just be yourself. my first date wasnt that bad actually. just relax.
and as far as your parents go, don't tell them. tell them you're just going to hang out with a few friends, and you'll be home later.
hope i helped.
(:I'm going on my first date and I'm really scared advice please?
My first date wasn't near as scary as I thought. I was a little awkward around the guy at first but then it was well worth it. You are 2 years younger than the age I had my first date though.
Just wear what you think looks good. If he's a good guy, he won't care that much. Relax. Don't wear a dress.
If I was you, and I was that scared, maybe you should go on a date with friends around first. If you can't do that though, then good luck.
my first date was when I was 14. we went to a park and hung out it was soooo cool! I loved it! even now when I'm older I love goin to the park with my bf.
just relax. you'll be nervous but try to keep the conversation going and be flirtty :)
don't dress p too much. and don't dress down
go in jeans. t, and a cute figure flattering jacket
awww how cutee. well its onl awkward if you make it awkward.. just dont haha keep it in mind..
help me?
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Wear jeans. Stay relaxed. Smile. Maintain eye contact. Keep conversation about causal things, nothing too serious. Laugh. Tease him if you can. And very important, have an excuse to get out of there a little earlier than expected.
If the date is going badly, you can escape. If the date is going well you always want to end on a high note and have him wanting to get together again soon.
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