I can't get a date. can ya'll give me advice?

am i unattractive? ive been to lesbian clubs and never get hit on! or i flirt with them and they never give me the time of day! do i look straight? am i doing something wrong? please help me, i wanna start dating and its getting frustrating. i can't tell u how innocent i am(for real).


p.s. im 22..and gay.


http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e141/a鈥?/a>I can't get a date. can ya'll give me advice?
You need to spruce yourself up a little.





I would give myself more of a girly-girl image with a slight hint of tom-boy which seems to be your style. You have such an advantage over men, you can be creative. men can only chance their hair, shape their eyebrows, sideburns, and clothes. Women can wear dazzling clothes, seductive assories.





1. You need to do something with your hair. I would dye your hair a little bit more red and I would probably wear it back in a pony tail or grow it out. Your hair is pretty fine, I might ask a hair styler what you should do with it.





2. Wearing a t-shirt with some average message on it is boring and dull. You should be wearing something pink and sexy. Or something vintage or expressive. You should NEVER wear anything boring again. You need to take everything out of your wardrobe that isn't dazzling, sexy, or impressive and give it to good will. You need to wear only dazzling clothes that do it for you. Wear a dress or skirt every once in a while. It shows girls that you are actually pretty feminine, many lesbians dream. To experience something feminine but different at the same time.





3. Make up. As a girl you can use make up! You should wear light or heavy make up, whatever you style. You should have atleast a light lip gloss or lip stick on. You should use make up to accent your beautiful eyes. You need to look captivating like a movie star! You need to darken your eyebrows. You need to make sure that you face is a work of art.





4. Expressive jewlry. Another thing women can do is wear jewlrey. Earings, rings, breseletts, necklaces, and other expressive things. Used them sparingly to accent yourself. Other accents should be used such as hair pieces.





5. You need to smile. You need to have confidence. That is the main thing that will draw someone else to you. You need to giggle, laugh, smile, and seem exciting to be around.





Everyone experiences everyday bordem. You need to make sure that you are always expressing yourself! Always bold, always exciting. always charming. This will draw girls to you faster than anything else.I can't get a date. can ya'll give me advice?
Ok im a guy and gay, and I think you have beautiful potentials, with your long curly hair, which you totally need to do something with. Maybe your just need to work on appearance, you have to look like your going out to get someone haha :) simple as that. sure ';I want them to like me for who I am.'; Well they will latter down the road you have to interesting. I think you are attractive and maybe you come on a little to hard. Do you start a casual conversation, ask if they wold like to dance, ect. Talk some more, ask if you will see her again at the club? no matter the answer ask if you can get her number, and if you guys would like to hang out sometime. I donno maybe you need to change your game haha. Or hit up different places. :P
Are you new in town? New to the scene? Sometimes it takes time for people to warm up to you...I don't think it is the way you look - you have beautiful hair and a pretty face. Maybe stop trying so hard, let ppl come to you.





Make some friends, platonic ones, hang with them and relax! They will come to you.
I think you're attractive, you may need to fix those eyebrows though. Maybe it's time for a makeover? Get something done with your hair. I don't mean cut.. long hair is great! I mean styled.





I think you have really pretty eyes. :)
You have nothing to worry about. You have gorgeous hair and a beautiful face.
Why do you wanna look like a lesbian, just be yourself, and if you ask me you are attractive
WHAT!!!?! You're beautiful. Maybe you just aren't meeting the right people.
SMILE! and look straight at the camera. You have nice eyes.
Try hitting on people too! Plus, just because ur at a gay bar doesn't make u gay, I know straight people that have gone....maybe they just don't think ur lezzy
I think you are attractive..idk could be the way that you approach them
you ar e really pretty...


maybe its just not the right time
Lose the hair.