Going out on a date tonight. Please I need some advice?

I am meeting up with a guy tonight who i started dating and im not sure what to think/how to act. Sorry it's a bit long.





Everything was going well and he was happy and said that he liked me, is pleased that he met me etc. Then he freaked out and said that he needs time etc. He said that im not to worry and i have not done anything wrong. messaged him, apologised, said that i like him, care about him and that im happy to take things slower and spend some time having fun and getting to know him more. He said that would be nice, he does care about me and that i have made him happy.





I messaged him yesterday because before all this happend we arranged to meet up tonight Wednesday. I casually message him, asking how he was, said no pressure! would you still like to hang out tomorrow as planned.


He said that we can if i like, what would i like to do? I replied saying we can stick to the original plan or we can meet in town if he is not comftable meeting at his. He replied saying that it's fine, that way we can talk in private and just watch a dvd or something.





Im just nervous about tonight tho and how i should act around him. Do you think we are still dating? Can i kiss him and hug him? What should i say? Does he still like me?





I am worried about screwing up and pushing him away. I do want to give it a go and im happy to go slow but im worried that he is scared to say no to me. I have also txt him four times now saying i mean it when i say no pressure and that we can take it slow. I am scared of loosing him and really need guy's and girls opinions on this!!Going out on a date tonight. Please I need some advice?
First I want to say that you're doing a great job on reassuring him that you don't mind taking things slow, that's good. That is the best thing to do with a person like him. He still likes you but apparently he's either had a point in his life where things were rushed and he got hurt or both ppl did or he just wants to prevent himself from being hurt by going slow. I don't think kissing him would be a good thing to do tho, not in this case...a hug will do perfectly. Make small talk...avoid talking about serious stuff such as religion or the future or things like that. For this particular meet up between you two, things need to be light and airy. Be humorous and if you don't think you're funny and aren't good in the humor department...attempt at some humor anyways...sometimes guys will just get a kick out of hearing bad humor because they know you're trying. Whatever you do though DON'T act awkward...just be normal...whenever one person is feeling and acting awkward it rubs off on the ppl around you and then things can get extremely uncomfortable. Well, I hope this helped and I hope that things go well for you tonight!! :)Going out on a date tonight. Please I need some advice?
Ok, i know how you feel.. But, what i think you should do is, Stop texting him so much. I think your giving him the idea that your his ';play thing'; and whatever he says goes.. I know you really like the guy, But if he says he needs space, Give him space. Don't try to hug or kiss him or anything tonight, Let him make the start move! I think yall are ';dating'; but your not boyfriend\girlfriend.. I think it's safe to say your single.. But, i think you need to tell him how you feel and if he doesn't feel the same, give it some more time. And if nothing happens, move on girl!








Good Luck tonight!


Hope I Helped!