Look your best for the occasion, don't matter how she looks give her a great compliment and buy her a rose to give to her when you pick her up, open all the doors for her (when you get out of the car tell her to wait just a min and rush to open her door.) in the car be prepared and have romantic music paying softly,
were ever you are pay full attention to her needs,
walk next to her hold her hand, the place has to be romantic don't ask her what she wants to do, be already prepared buy a bottle of wine or champagne if you are old enough sweet talk her all the time.
That is if you are taking her out, if you want to have her over at your place then you must cook a good meal or have someone help you put candles all over, soft music buy air fresheners some wine or what ever you like get some wine glasses and serve it on those.
If you want more ideas let me know more about what you are planing. I do things like these all the time for my husband.
Enjoy and be your self!Ladies: What advice would you give a guy who is going on a first date with you?
be yourself; don't go out of ur element. have everything planned so not many things will go wrong.
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one word...CONFIDENCE. We go for that. And be yourself, there's no better turn on
try not to ask her the same question twice, bc it shows you're not paying attn to the conversation. you gotta figure out the romantic part on your own!
if you want to kiss her then go for it. we hate to make the first move. and dont talk about disgusting things.
Don't try to score on the first date. That would be a little [[a lot]] desperate
Be yourself! Don't be who you think you'd have to be to be to impress me, if you do I probaly won't like you!
Take it slow...nothing but a kiss on the first date...
Show up with a rose, open doors, pull out the seat for her, be polite, don't swear, treat the wait staff with the upmost respect, don't spit, use table manners, pay for dinner, walk her to her door but don't force her into a kiss if she doesn't want one. A kiss on the cheek is nice.
Do something sweet like buy flowers. Dress nicely. But don't over do it. You'll seem desperate.
No romantic on a first date.I like good manners and a guy who seems interested in what I am saying.In other words,a grownup!
don't stare at her chest all night.
Lotz of alcohol is always good
would depend on how long i had known him, or if it was a blind date. but let's take the blind date out of the equation.
go slowly...hand holding is good...VERY good...if you are going to a movie, put your arm around her, whisper in her ear...if the attraction is there, it will happen.
Show up on my doorstep with flowers, then take me to a very nice Italian restaurant that has Creme Brulee as a dessert (my favorite). Then we should go to a scary movie so that we can get closer when I get scared:-) Then we can end the night with a scenic drive home with a nice conversation and a kiss goodbye on my doorstep. You really shouldn't ask this of girls, then they start to fantasize (LOL):-)
...I'm just looking at these answers...
dont overdo it. tryin to hard is a huge turn-off. just go with the flow...make the woman comfortable so she will trust in you... if theres a chemistry...both of you will know... it will just feel right.
be sure u r well groomed... nice and clean and smells fresh. be a gentleman to impress. treat the lady as if she's the most beautiful girl in the world. u shall get a good nite kiss surely.
I'm with PimpStick....taking notes
be yourself and never rush
don't put any pressure on it. don't make it seem planned. we like spontaneous, unexpected, but sweet and tender.
just be yourself...
the girl could've said ';no'; when you asked her (if you really did ask her)
to go on a date so all you have to do is act normal. (flirty, too. duh.)
good luck and make it memorable!
Tell her she looks pretty, bring flowers, and open her door...chivalry is always a plus..
Be confident. Be yourself. Go with the flow. Pay attention to what she says when she speaks. Ask questions about her. Be honest with your answers about yourself. Be respectful of her. If you go out to dinner, be respectful to the waitstaff. Hold the door for her, pull out her chair at the table. Dont go over the top, just do what feels natural. If you know ahead of time she loves a certain food, park, activity, try and incorporate that into the date. Be mindful of your manners. If the spark is there, you'll feel it and everything will flow naturally. And lastly, relax and have fun! She is trying to impress you too, so dont spend the whole night putting on a show. Be yourself!!
make sure you dressed to impress. stay true to yourself and seem confident in what your saying. But remember.. let her do some of the talking!
Don't be late, Clean yourself up nicely and don't move too fast.
i would tell a guy be your self and tell her the truth because if she doesn't like you you know it was the real you not the person you tried to be and nobody that i know likes a lier so like i said before BE YOUR SELF!!!!! OH and if you are in to this kind of thing bring her flowers and maybe some choclates!!!!!
Its not about what he does, its about the attraction...
simple!! tell him: I DON'T PUT OUT ON THE FIRST DATE!! SO DON'T GET ANY IDEAS!!!
Take her to a romantic walk around the park. Read a poem( no shakesphere). If you can sing , sing to her. Be a gentleman. Please do not use cheesy pick up lines.
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