about a month ago we were hanging out and i went to kiss her and she wasnt giving it back to me so i stopped and we laughed it off as if it kinda didnt happen..and then i talked to her about it the next day and she said how she wasnt sure what she wanted and didnt want to ruin the friendship and then recently..........
we just got back with her older sister and her boyfriend from a weekend camping trip and that concluded me in meeting her whole family..and then last night we went to the drive in movie theater and cuddled and actually fell asleep there BUT the thing is i never made a move and then tonight which is the day after the movie were going to her house to watch a movie and her parents are gone. we have kissed before about 3 years ago and we fooled around once 3 years ago...so my question
should i make a move on her tonight?
when would be a good time?
should i ask her how she feels?
thank you so much
sorry this was longI have a date tonight at 9pm and need advice..TONIGHT IS THE NIGHT?
First of all, the number one rule is to NEVER show weakness. If you're confident when you make the move, she won't reject. If you do it in a weak nervous way she will. When you wrap your arm around her, don't do that fake yawning crap, hold her and grip her tight. Let her know that you did it and that you're the man. There's nothing a woman likes more than a man who knows what he wants and gets it. They hate when you delay things. NEVER talk about it, just do it. It's more awkward if you get verbally rejected than if you get physically rejected. Even if she rejects your move, just keep cool and mess around with her. It's important to flirt first. Maybe find a ticklish spot, or just put her down with some playful insults. You gotta prepare her. Start slow, then progress to further physical contact. The mistake most guys make is that they don't flirt first. Women are like irons, you gotta warm em up first. Once they get warmed up, it takes a while to cool them down.
Give it a little time first. In the beginning of the movie, naturally wrap your arm around her lower body- the stomach area. Tug her towards you so she knows you've marked your territory. She'll probably lay against your chest if she likes it. Then wait a few minutes when she's focused into the movie. Look for a ticklish spot. This gets her horny very quickly. It's important to set boundaries though. Don't go under the belt or she may creep out, but don't hold back ether. You want to show her that you're the man and you know what you want. During a boring part of the movie is when you should really start messing with her. Give her a peck on the cheek and if she likes it she'll turn so you can go for the lips. Hold her tight when she turns. She'll love to get roughed up a little.
DO NOT ask her how she feels. A woman's words and a woman's actions are different. A woman will NEVER say she feels good or likes it or anything. You have to listen to her actions instead. It's all about her response. This is why nice guys never get laid. Because they listen to a woman's words.
Just never show weakness and you should be set. Once she really gets into it, you'll know. Usually she'll wrap her arm around your neck or hold your cheek while you make out. Now she's all yours. Put her in whatever position you want.I have a date tonight at 9pm and need advice..TONIGHT IS THE NIGHT?
Personally, if your relationship has been that complicated then I would talk to her a little bit, just when the moment feels right just say, ';You know I really like you and I would love to kiss you right now.'; Give her a way to say yes or no and show you how she feels in the process.
dont get stressed about anything if she is likin you then make a move boy i cant tell you how many times guys would just sit there oh i made me so mad i like men that make moves it tells me there confident in thereselves and there forceful i like forceful guys to but you do what you think u need to do
dont stress about it...if you guys are having a good time, go for it.
It definately sounds like she is into you on more than a friendship level. Sounds cheesy, but if the time is right you should be able to tell
yeah make a move, if u she doesnt move back then all you'll lose is the fantasy that she likes you back as more than just a friend
um NO!
she seems like shes not sure if she wants to date you and making a move will make you seem desperate and creepy!
you should actually ';go out'; with her then have sex with her
Let her make the first move. Read her signals and do whatever feels right.
I'm not even sure if she likes you dude. Don't make a move unless you're sure she does like you
If your not sure, let her make the move
THIS IS AN ESSAY NOT A QUESTION....
i wouldn't ';make a move on her';, i would be a man and tell her how you feel about her.
you should ask her how she feels before making a move
yea i think you should go for it otherwise you may never know and you could always ask yourself what if i had kisser her that night? she sounds like she does like you but if you do try it tonight and she isnt game at least then u know where you stand and hopefully u can just laugh it off again but really i think it will work....she would be mad not to, you sound like a really nice guy! lol cheesy but hey you can say anything on yahoo answers!!
so just wait 4 the rite moment when your watchin the movie....you wil know when the times rite!
good luck and tel us how it goes
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I think go for it. She either loves you dearly as a friend or wants more but is not wanting to jump into anything full on as of yet. Was her break up a messy one even though its been a year she might be once bitten twice shy.
You need to man up and make the move don't talk about it with her because well that would be boring and if it was me and you were asking then i wouldn't go for it women like men to take charge.
I'd say that maybe put your arm around her and kiss her cheek or forehead. Move her hair out of her face if the opportunity comes. But don't make any serious moves. She hasn't told you what she wants yet, and if you make these small moves that I suggested, she may feel comfortable enough to make the rest of the moves. But I'd wait to find out how she feels first. Just show her passion and caring, and see where that leads. I'd hate to see this get screwed up for you. Good luck!!!
**EDIT******** So, how did the date go??!!
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