you can practice with me. just email meI have a boyfriend and I need some dating advice! I am a shy person. How can I feel comfortable?
I think you are still young.
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just talk to a guy you really trust like it's your boyfriend and that should help...i know when i got nervous around girls one of my best friends (who was a girl) helped me out like that
get 2 know the guy and just talk for a while, talk to other girls around you qabout what the do on their dates
As with most things, the more time you spend doing it, the more comfortable you will become. Even if you feel uncomfortable around guys at first, try to spend a lot of time around them (not enough to make you look like a slut, though, you don't want that!). In time, you will grow more comfortable and you'll be fine.
Sorry, I don't have any dating tips.
Im naturally shy also, but since ive been dating my gf, im not shy anymore for about nearly anything, so hang out with him as much as possible.
Do things with him that make you happy. If you like walking in the park, try doing that. Do things that you feel comfortable doing, and ask him what he likes to do. Just communicate. And try not to stress about it so much. Be yourself. Treat guys with respect. Your chances of getting it in return will improve.
Organise a group date, get together a few of your friends and ask him to do the same thing. Maybe go to a theme park or dinner, somewhere where you can feel more relaxed. I find that when first meeting a guy, having my friends around helps because we don't fear rejection as much as we can be ourselves more. Having your friends there feels as though you've got that backup if anything goes wrong. Plus we all feel completely comfortable with our friends so they kind of help you to relx a bit more. By being yourself around him, you'll know from the beginning if he really likes you or not. If you try to be someone you're not, you'll more than likely loose him because he may think that he can't trust you. Being yourself is the best thing you can do, %26amp; if being yourself means that you do loose him then he's not worth it! Good luck babe!!!!
you should put a fresh meat in your as to be comfortable against the world!
may i tell you this advice: when you see a man instead of looking at his face, search for his drill and point it to that way. When the guy realise that you are more sensual that he thought it would be easier to manage him and your desires of eating some coke
You got to be loose and if you have a nice rack or a nice butt or anything that is beautiful or big use it to your advantage. I know a girl who is really ugly but got a super nice butt and she gets all the attention from the guys.
You can't. =) Eventually if things will work out, you'll be comfortable.
Go out for coffee (mocha) it takes less time and helps you grow into more meaningful dates later...take small steps and being in public won't hurt either - much safer.
well you know a boyfriend is just that it is someone who should have started out as a friend... you have to be comfortable with them as a friend before you can be comfortable with them being ur boyfriend... and about being shy before going out make up a list of thing u wanna talk about or know about him then casually bring it up be sure not to interrogate him... and before you know it he will ask you q's and ya'll will be comfortable with each other...
First and foremost - be yourself - even if you act shy. He is dating you so he obviously knows you are shy. Sometimes it helps to go on double dates - it takes the pressure off of you trying to come up with lively conversation. It is also easier to be more at ease with a friend there. Eventually you will begin to feel as comfortable with your boyfriend as you do you friends.
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