Dating advice please. Must I play hard to get?

I hate games and I hate the in between stuff and waiting. It's my biggest problem apparently. I don't play hard to get, but i also don't go to bed right away. Most of all, I don't play games at all. I say what I'm thinking, and everything that I'm thinking. I keep no secrets and don't hold back. This always ends up to the person losing interest.





My question is, must people play games and hard to get, and not reveal all of who they are in the beginning stages?Dating advice please. Must I play hard to get?
I don't think it's do or die when it comes to whether or not a person needs to play hard to get. To be honest, I'm a lot like you. My experience with the opposite sex has been a bit of a toss up, though. I've had a few men lose interest, but I've also had a few who were also attracted to the fact that I didn't lead them on. I guess the bottom line here is that you should just be yourself. At the end of the day, that's all you're left with anyway. If someone isn't man enough to handle you as you are, then they really weren't worth a damn to begin with. And it obviously wasn't mean to be. I'm a big believer that less is more. In the beginning stages, it's all about getting to know each other...but you don't want to throw your entire hand down on the table. You know what I mean?Dating advice please. Must I play hard to get?
You certainly don't need to play games to date. I don't play games or hard-to-get either... I think it's ridiculous.





However, I am a little bit more descrete, naturally, in the beginning stages. I don't think it's a good idea to completely reveal all of your secrets right from the get go. It honestly can and will scare a guy off if you are way too forward right away. That's not to say that you should be indirect or dishonest... but I would resist the urge to tell all first thing.
I believe if the other half even wanted to be with you it wouldnt bother them when you told them up front just keep doing what you do. Hope I helped.