I need advice. I have had a date where a girl says that I dont make her feel secure. What do I do?

She was difficult to talk to. We went for a date but because she was quiet I could'nt get to know her properly. I did a few silly things before to suggest that I would'nt be the most reliable boyfriend. I took her for a meal, and a film. We do work together she's from Herefordshire and is Polish, Im from Derby and work in Herefordshire sometimes for


month at a time. She said that she's not feeling anything between us, and she doesnt feel confident in my company because its like I want her to bolster my confidence. She said that I could try again if I wanted to. She said that I'm very good looking and everybody she knows likes me. In a month I'm going down there to work again. We both work in a school that caters for people with autism. After our date she drove me back to Hereford train station, I felt like the earth was going to open up and swallow me, because of the rejection. What should I do?I need advice. I have had a date where a girl says that I dont make her feel secure. What do I do?
don't ever think that after a rejection. it only tells you facts that not all girls would end up having a real connection with you. maybe she's really someone you're not meant for so why not look for others. basing on the stuff you said you seem pretty attractive anyway. just try again and have a bit more confidence maybe? so she knows you can beat up people and stuff :-?? I need advice. I have had a date where a girl says that I dont make her feel secure. What do I do?
Sorry to say it sounds as if you weren't right for each other.
move on ,and don't look back ,she might have some sort of astuitic behavouir and you dont know
I've had a couple of dates with girls recently through match.com. The feedback I received from those girls was that I was nice but quiet and didn't come across as confident to them.





Given how things are in my life at present, how do I regain the confidence that I was slowly building up?
Move on bra. The world does not end there. Im sure there who will appreciate all your efforts somewhere out there.