Sunday, December 27, 2009

Plz give me sum advice on what 2 do...date or dad?

so i recently met this guy..we go 2 college 2gether but we hav no classes 2gether..we met through a friend and we kept in touch and r taking a class 2gether nxt semester..i'm going away 4 the summer and he told me we should hang out sumtime b4 i go so i agreed and we decided 2 go to the movies 2gether..now i only knew this guy 4 a little over a month and my dad doesn't want me 2 go out with him cuz he says i don't kno him all that well..what do u guys think i should do? i don't c anything wrong with going 2 the movies with the guy..it's just a friendly thing..and i'm travelling 2 go and come bk home..Plz give me sum advice on what 2 do...date or dad?
Here's what I say:


Trust your instinct. If you are sure he's an ok guy, then he probably is. but if he seems strange or scary even, be careful, he could be.Plz give me sum advice on what 2 do...date or dad?
Well, going to the movies is a great way to get to know someone. Let your Dad know that it is jsut a casual thing right now. Just you and a guy friend going out, not dating. If maybe more comfortable, double up. Have another ';couple'; go with you two. Or have him invite a guy friend and you invite a girl friend.
your in college and you no longer live with your parents...you are grown why do you let them walk on you...do what you want not what they want you to do...
even if you are really close with you dad then i would say to just not let them influence you. i see nothing wrong with dateing this guy. Especially if you guys get along well and yo ulike each other.
Invite him over to meet your Dad. You are old enough to make your own decisions.
go on the date if you like him. ur parents need to let you grow up.
you are in college you should not be asking us this question.
i say go for it ull be in a public place sounds fun!
If you are in college, you need to trust your own judgement about this guy. If you've known him for a month, you know whether you'd feel comfortable going to the movies with him. That is a public place, and as long as you bring a cell phone with you, I say go for it and have fun! :) Explain to your dad that you value his opinions and advice but that you are getting older and you need to start making decisions on your own. Let him know that you will call him at a pre-determined time to assure him that things are fine.

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