Second date: Can you give me some advice? Good conversation topics?

Ok we went out to the movies the other night and had a good time, made great conversation and clicked really well all night. She agreed to a second date and I am coming over to her house tonight and we are just going to hang out and have a few drinks or whatever... Well, I have sort a game plan, so to speak. I am gonna try to play it cool. As in like lay back, chill, relax, you know play it cool. I need some good conversation topics. I am a decent looking guy, and I am pretty comfortable talking to her, but when it comes to the talking department, I have a major brain fart. I can never think of anything to say. All I hear in my head is sex sex sex, lol. But I dont wanna push it. Any advice????Second date: Can you give me some advice? Good conversation topics?
Seriously?!


Don't think about the date as a ';date';. If you can't have a conversation with her without thinking about getting her in the sack, that's all you will ever get with her. Unless that's all you want, of course.


Assuming that you are looking for a relationship with her, you need to think about her as a friend first and foremost. Talk to her about what interests you: sports, music, movies... Find things that interest both of you and explore those subjects. The more interested you are in each other as human beings, the more the sparks will fly when you do get physical.


What's worked for me in my current relationship is finding those things we both like and touching on those frequently: for us it's music, food, movies, basketball, and NASCAR.


Good luck!Second date: Can you give me some advice? Good conversation topics?
Don't talk too much about sex, it can make the girl feel like that's all you want from her, or at the very least, all you can think about.





Try to stay busy, so you won't have to think that hard of what to talk about. Play darts, cards, a board game, watch a movie, etc.





Ask her about traveling she's done, things that she really likes to do, her family, her childhood, etc.
Thats Great then you dont have to panic. Since you passed the hardest part, the FIRST date, you already made your first impressions. So on your 2nd date you can just have more of a friendly hangout with her. Just treat her more as one of your friends and the entire date will go along smoothly just keep yourself from overdrinking!!!! (FLASHBACKS!!!!)
ok try listening to her when she talks and dont always think about sex! some girls dont want it on the second date. some conversation starters? well u could compliment her or u could ask questions about her. what she likes enjoys etc.





hope i helped
Here is the secret of secrets my friend:Get her to talk about herself !Thats it.They LOVE talking about themselves more than anything.More than ice cream in fact.Just get the ball rolling and she`ll do the rest I assure you.
Ask her about herself, what her interests are, her hobbies, activities, ask her what her job's like. Then share the same about yourself.