Is it a good or bad idea to let a guy I don't date kiss me?(I need advice by February 2nd please)?

Okay well..im 14 and I currently do not have a boy friend. Guys usually end up being jerks or plain drama..but anyways. I moved to a diff part of my city and had to ride a diff bus. I started talking to this one guy on the bus, I gave him my number and we have been talking for about a month now. We know and tell each other everything. I sort of like him. Well yesterday on the bus we was sitting with each other and he was flirting so there was nothing new in that area. Then he started trying to hold my hand. Let me make it clear that we DO NOT DATE. He was more touchy then normal. I noticed that he started getting closer until his forehead was against mine. While his forehead was on mine he looked me straight in the eyes and kept messing with my hair. I wanted him to kiss me. Later that night we was texting and we talked about the bus ride home. Then i told him that i wanted him to kiss me every time he got close. He said ';I really wanted to'; I asked him why he didn't because the worst thing could have been me slapping him and he said that's why he was scared to. I said that I wouldn't have. He said hes gonna kiss me Monday. We don't date. Is this a bad idea?Is it a good or bad idea to let a guy I don't date kiss me?(I need advice by February 2nd please)?
You either want him to kiss you or you don't. I think you like this guy because he moved slowly and wanted you to make the first move.





You have and you confirmed it when 'texting'. He might pick up the pace a bit now and will be difficult to slow down.





I would suspect he is not much older than yourself but his technique is excellent and seldom used by ';jerks';. He sounds alright to me but the decision is up to you. Like you yourself !!





By the way ';we were sitting--texting'; Keep that in mind. Your writing is better than most your age !!!Is it a good or bad idea to let a guy I don't date kiss me?(I need advice by February 2nd please)?
I don't think you should, if u want a chance at dating him. If you want to date him, keep him wanting more.If you let him think he can get a kiss without even dating you, just think what else he'll think he can get you to do??
if you both like each other then i'm sure it's alright. it's not like he's some random dude. but the question is do you think you have some type of relationship with him? or do you plan on having a relationship with him? do you want to date him?
you two are probably dating i would say, it's like you both like each other i think, try to ask him out, maybe it's not bad kissing if you'll end up together, and if he's really sincere that no one has to get hurt...


ahm...did i write it right? he he
nah go ahead and kiss him. it sounds like you know, like and trust him well enough.
He acctually sounds like a nice guy. You guys will probably going to go out after kissing. if you want.
you guys are basically dating i'd say, just ask him out, he is sure to say yes

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