I need advice! Is it okay to date a guy who is 3 years older than me and in college?

I have known and been friends with Dave(changed name for privacy) for 5 years now. We are very close with each other. I have always had a ';thing'; for him but never admitted it to him. Recently we have been flirting and holding hands a lot. I decided to be bold and asked him if he likes me. He admitted that he has had feelings for me for a long time now. I was sooo content with his answer. We have infinite amount of things in common and I know we would be a passionate loving couple. There are two problems though. He is 18 and I am 15. I have never had a boyfriend before. I know that it is legal to date him, but my parents will not allow me. He wants to respect them but it is breaking my heart. Even if I wait until I am sixteen, he could move on and get a girlfriend. What should I do?I need advice! Is it okay to date a guy who is 3 years older than me and in college?
No, no of course not, age makes ABSOLUTELY no difference. I fell in love with someone 4 years older than me.


shes turning 19 on the 26th, and im 15 as well, turned 15 a mnth ago.





We did everything together, we went to Prom, homecoming, went on vactions during break, etc.





It feels like she the only girl for me, and i dont think i can sum up how i feel abt her in one sentence, but....





Since meeting her, there has not been one day or night where I did not think about her, she was the first person I thought about in the morning, and the very last thing on my mind when I went to sleep.





My parents hated her, but she tried to respect them, just like ';Dave,'; and eventually they accepted the fact that having her in my life actually makes me do better overall in life.





Its very hard for me to see her, b/c shes in college, but she told me that she would wait 3 years for me till i graduate.





If Dave loves you enough to be with you despite your age, im positive he will wait one yearI need advice! Is it okay to date a guy who is 3 years older than me and in college?
I think go for it.


I dated older guys when I was your age.


Age doesnt matter.
He sounds like a guy who would be willing to wait for you,follow his advice,do as your parents ask,besides that he'll respect you even more for doing so.
even though your parents dont want you to, you should stay with him. love is love and you two sound very happy when your not worrying about your age or parents. my cousin had a similar problem, he fell in love with his very young teacher. they waited until it was legal and now, over 2 yrs later, they are engaged even with all the pressure for them to break up. best of luck to you





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keep flirting ask him 2 wait for you if he does try your best 2 keep him waitting for you
I know people that do that, but I do not like it. The younger person just doesnt really understand anything. It has worked though.
with love age doesnt matter....if u love him and he loves u it shouldnt matter how old u r so sure what the heck!
yeah why not 3 yrs is hardly anything go for it love holds little boundaries!
just dont have sex until u are 18 cuz otherwise he could be charged w/ rape. but other than that, love doesnt consider age! good luck!
Well kiddy, parents knows BEST!! How do i know because im one. Sounds like David is a pretty good guy. Most guys want to get you in BED as fast as they can. But this David repects you and your Parents . Which is Great. David has always been your friend so don't mess that up by doing something that may put him behind BARS! This situation is not just about you it's more about David continuing being your friend and repectful. That kind of relationship is very hard to find. And for as this girlfriend thang it all depends on where his mind is ? if you're on page 2 and he's on page 20 there's danger in the air. I hope you get my drift. Remember , don't make a choice that you can't take back. And please talk to your parents they will ALWAYS want 4 you what's BEST even when to you it doesn't feel like it. Trust me I lie to you NOT.
Yes. You ****** need to get it together