Just had first date with a gay man...need advice.?

Okay some of you have been kind enough to answer my previous questions (I am a bi-curious male who has an openly gay co-worker and we have been flirting and advice on this board was that I approach him about his attraction to me) and I needed some more advice. He and I went on our first date last night (Dinner and Couples Retreat) it was very intense, but I wasn't nervous at all and he was sweet. He walked me to my apartment and came in for a bit....I won't go into detail (no we didn't have sex), but he left twenty minutes and he was very aroused (as was I) when he left. He texted me once he got home about how he had a great time. Of course he is out of town this weekend but he will be stopping by on Sunday night once he gets back. He asked if we could go out on a date again, but I am tempted to just ';stay in'; and see what happens. What do you all think?Just had first date with a gay man...need advice.?
Stay in and invite him over for popcorn and watch some old black and white horror flicks.Just had first date with a gay man...need advice.?
Me being me, I'd say have at least one or two more dates before having a ';night in';, but I believe in getting to know someone a little better before going ';there';, even if you work with him. work life and personal life are 2 separate things and you should be more familiar with him on a personal level before taking that next step.
If you tell him you want to stay in you are implying that you want to have sex with him. If your not ready for that I would go out again maybe coffee or a snack and go rent a movie and spend time at your place. Take thing slow. Don't make it all about being alone at home together,





Be Safe, Have Fun. Use Protection and lots of lube.
Do you mean '; 'stay in' and see what happens'; as in you two staying at your place and seeing where it goes? If you are looking for something to happen, you should go out on a romantic date first to get in the mood.
Why are you tempted to ';stay in';?





Sounds like you had a blast, the light is green, please proceed and remain on the current course.
Like previous answers said, you would be stupid


to let this experiance go. Invite him for a night in.
well deffo meet him again cuz it sounds like youve got something good :) yer go for it... just make sure its wat u both want and then its kool ye? :) good luck mate
What do you have to lose? Do it! :)
like do u mean u wanna stay in your apartment with him to bone?
I'd say go for the date and 'see what happens' then.





Looks like the ball is in your court. (His too, if he had asked.)
Tell him you would like to go out,but maybe ask him if he would like to stay in for the night. Have drinks at home if you are going to drink. Find out what kind of dance music he likes and play some and have a few close slow dances. Things should get going then. Undress each slowly between hot wet kisses, get real turn on. Myself, I like lots of kissing when with a woman and slowly get in to it. Using nice pet words( hunnie,sweetie darling etc really helps.


Good luck and let us know how it went.


xoxoxooxox fro you both


PS: I am bi