I want to date but my mom wont let me>: ( Advice PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

My mom doesn't wanna let me date until i'm 16 but i dont turn 16 until the end of next summer and that really sucks!!!!! What do i do plz give me some good adviceI want to date but my mom wont let me%26gt;: ( Advice PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
Ok, here's a ';fathers'; spin on this little problem. My dear, I don't know your current situation at home, (you said your mom, but is there a father opinion in this too?) I have an 18yo daughter who just married, and I now have my first grandchild! Now, I must be honest, at first I was NOT thrilled with my daughter dating at 16, but soon learned to accept the facts of life. While I'm not a girl, I WAS 16 once myself, and had little resistance from my mom about dating. Ok, Ok I know, I'm a male and we're supposed to get more slack and not have our folks worry so much.....but they did, and it didn't stunt my growth or give me pimples or any such thing......lol.... But honestly, I was a bit weary with my daughter for quite sometime at first. However, (and I think you'll like this part!) If you and your mom have a good relationship, and she TRUSTS you, she'll allow you to date under certain conditions......For example, I used to double-date with my best friend as a safety net.......Not so much for me, but for the benefit of HER mom. Besides that, it kept me from allowing things to go to far TOO fast.....get it? Aside from that, and again depending on your circumstance, she herself has to look back at her teenage years and ask herself what she felt and how she reacted at that time.


There is one more thing.........Things back then where quite a bit different than they are today, (AID, DRUGS, and VIOLENCE) sooooooooo, in closing I must remind you young lady, that YOU and you alone are (or at least should be) the one in charge, and in control of your date. Just be true to yourself, and remember that whatever you do, you WILL have to live with those consequences.....Good luck!!





Lee





P.S. One more thing......Sexy Hottie is NOT an approriate nickname for a 16yo, so SLOW DOWN plz??I want to date but my mom wont let me%26gt;: ( Advice PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
what you should do is talk to your mom and tell her that you are a responsible person and could handle dating
I was the same when my daughter was your age.I was scare to lose my baby,that is why it was hard for me to realize that she wasn't a baby anymore..But i think it is to early for you to go out with a guy steady,you need to enjoy and have fun and enjoy freedom before you are really ready to go out steady.
listen to your mother she knows what is best
Date in secret. It's fun.
listen to your mother, its in your best interest. be glad she's letting you ate at 16, if i was your father, I'd make sure you graduated college first
Be patient you're young and trust me look on this site, many older women are still dating and unhappy, dating boys are no going out of style, it will be here waiting for you when your mom says it's okay for you to date. You can date at anytime in the future but your youth and innocence you'll never get back, enjoy being a kid a little longer, cause before you know it you'll be dating and have many problems bigger than what you have no. Take care and good luck.
Maybe you should stick with going out with guys without actually going anywhere. You can be in a relationship without being somewhere to make-out. I know it stinks but you can't go against your Mom, and maybe, if you wait, the real Mr. Perfect for you will turn up just when you can really date him, and that's where the fun will begin....


Good Luck!!!


(or you could try sneaking out of the house, but it's not advisable, your parents could think you got kidnapped and call the police.)


Grace
I won't let my daughter date until she is sixteen either. There is no hurry to get involved with boys.
arrange an event to go anywhere, movies works well, and tell her that more people ore going even if its your bf or a double date. just say its a big group of friends going and then make some people up.
Well, you wanna be a good daughter then listen to your mom.. or you wanna listen to your heart? that's okay too! you have a choice to choose as long as you ready for the concequences.
hate to say it but as long as you live with your parents you live by their rules, but if you keep nicely buggin em on it they may budge a little bit. gl
well i would go out with people but are'nt u mormor...? and u wouldnt wanna get cought...!
i think 16 is a good age limit for dating. however, since you're here to go against your mother, does she object to you having friends who are boys? if not, i'd say there's an easy way around this. now, if you don't want to mislead your mother, then you're gonna have to wait until you're 16. besides, any guy who truly deserves you will until you're 16. i know next summer feels like an eternity, but it's not.
Mom is the boss so do as she says
I agree with your Mom, wait until you are 16. What's the rush? You'll be surprised at the maturity you can gain in that one year...and be better able to handle the issues that can come up when you start dating.





If your Mom will let you go out in group situations, then at least you could still spend time around guys you like, and socialize...but truly, 16 is plenty young enough to begin dating...





Sorry, I know that's not what you wanted to hear...but I've been down that path and I remember how it was...
Parents want to see maturity.





You will do as she has requested, so she sees that you can act in a mature manner.





That, however, does not stop you from planning things so when the gates open up, you're ready to go
I had to wait until i was 16 and then i couldnt date anyone she didnt like. Just wait. boys will always be there.
this is a reasonable rule set by your mom.





be patient - not desperate.





also be careful...ever think she might be worried about you %26amp; pregnancy or std? sex is fun, but also carries certain responsibilites. she may just want you to enjoy your childhood without you having to worry about all this too soon. sounds cool to me.
PERHAPS SHE WOULD ALLOW YOU TO GO OUT IN A GROUP SITUATION OR AT LEAST SCHOOL DANCES ETC. OR WOULD SHE BE WILLING TO LET YOU HAVE A FEW FRIENDS OVER TO THE HOUSE FOR PIZZA OR WHATEVER AND YOUR DATE COULD BE INVITED.
if she lets u hang with ur friends y dont u say that u r going to the mall with ur friends and actually go out and date but dont tell her


if this advise isnt good enough then tell me and i will go on
Is dating THAT important to you.... and by what benifits are you going to gain from dating.... ???





Dont be so concerned on this issue.... as wanting to date can mean that you may be dating for the wrong reasons.....





Date for the right reasons.... and if you really like someone... explain to you Mom about it... but maturely!!!!





Talking to your Mom in a mature, but honest way may make her realise that you are not 8 years old anymore... but dont be upset if she still says no!! Your time will come... and guys will always be about!!!





Please be careful with the dating game... and be careful who the guy is.... and make you they want to date you for the right reasons too!!!





Good luck!!!
Parents always want the best for you and they will always be there for you so i think if they asked you so, you should listen to the as they dont want you to get hurt.
It is almost the end of the summer only one more year, if you can't wait then that shows that you are too immature to be dating. You need to respect your parents wishes.





PS Learn to write out ALL your words.