Advice Please!! I use to date this guy from 1996-1997. Our relationship didn't go any where.?

We had good sexual chemistry. I was bisexual and decided to go lesbian. I left him alone and met my girlfriend in 1998. My girl and I been together everey since. I began going through depression because I no longer want to be lesbian. I want a husband and kids (I have no kids). I prayed to God to send me a man. Back in 2005, my ex boyfriend begin looking for me. He has since married and informed me that him and the wife were on bad terms. I backed off because I'm not a home wrecker. We began talking this year in March. He swears that he and the wife is seperated. I see him when I want to. He doesn't act like a married man. Some days I can't contact him. When we meet he's always peeping over his shoulder. He has expressed the desire to marry me and we been trying to conceive. I do want that from him. Do you'll think he's still with his wife? Also, I'm still with my girlfriend. We live together and I plan on moving out when the lease up. If she knew, I would be dead. Any advice?Advice Please!! I use to date this guy from 1996-1997. Our relationship didn't go any where.?
Yep, don't cheat on her anymore. Yes I think he is still with his wife or he wouldn't be looking over his shoulder.Advice Please!! I use to date this guy from 1996-1997. Our relationship didn't go any where.?
you had me until you mentioned that you still live with your gfr. I suppose technically you are both cheating other ppl. But if you are trying to conceive, there is a chance he is seriously looking forward to marry you. May be he doesn't want to be seen with you until his divorce is finalized. I suppose you will have to check if what he says is valid and ask him to proceed with divorce and have a child together. That's quite a mess you're in now. I suppose your gfr knows at least that you no longer wish to be lesbian... so you don't have sex with her, right? Because if you still do... well... you're still bi. At least that you can tell her. I hope you don't wish to have a child even without him and keep going with her. or is your wish for a child stronger than anything else? there are a lot of separate issues to deal with here and I think you need to talk to someone about these because all this is very confusing.
yes, STOP IT, you say you don't wnt to be a homewrecker, well you are wrecking two homes, yours and your bf's, so stop it, unless he is divorced and you see papers, don't bring an innocent child into all that drama, cuz you might end up becoming w/child, and not wanting him anymore, and then you and your gf will become parents, which is scary, sad and not cool to teach young kids
its the best way for him to prove u the result paper that he going divorce with his wife that the best way to prove it