I'm a 20 year old bisexual girl, I recently met this gorgeous amazing girl through mutual friends. She told me I was pretty when we first met and that she wanted to hang out sometime. I found out through her myspace that she's single and bisexual! So I texted her today asking her if she wanted to do anything on thursday and she said yes but that she was broke. I told her that I was thinking about taking her out like on a date and she said yes and that she was pretty excited. I actually did use those words '; like on a date.'; I wonder if she knows it's a legitament date in interest of dating her. I don't really know how to tell her I'm attracted to her or how to act when I see her. I want to maybe give her something when I see her like a rose or candy as a gift to be cute. Idk, I've never been on a date with a girl...only dates with guys. How can I know if she's into me, would it be ok to kiss her goodnight? Any advice is very much appreciated :]I'm a bisexual woman going on a date with another bisexual woman(Advice please.)?
The first thing to do is to give her a hug as though you are already good friends. You know how much you like to be touched, so do that to her, and use your intuition about her reactions. You'll find that you are more in tune than any hetero couple can be, so stop sweating about it.I'm a bisexual woman going on a date with another bisexual woman(Advice please.)?
Well they all gave you great advice already so I'll add in my 2 cents worth: She already thinks you're pretty so that's a good start! Just make sure you have a great personality to match and kiss her good night, that'll be hot, trust me.
the best way is to act yourself and if she doesnt like you, thats her bad. giving a rose is always good. i think it is obvious that she knows its date. their are signs that you look for when you are conversating. ex: she might touch your hand or laugh at your lame jokes.
I think the fact that you're treating her out for dinner and drinks or whatever is enough.
A gift, gift might be too much too soon, and may make her feel like a mooch.
I would save the ';gift'; sentiment for the second or third date...especially if things go as well as you hope they do.
As far as knowing if she's into you? Use the same ques everyone else does. An extended gaze, brush her arm with your hand when your speaking to her, etc. and gage her reaction.
Good luck.
A nice bunch of pink or orange gerbras r always nice. If things r going well on the date give her gentle kiss goodnight and c how she reacts :) just enjoy urself!
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hello honey, judging by what you've said of this girl, she'll appreciate any small gift you give her. try an unusual flower with bright colours, or a box of chocolates maybe! read her body language and how she's acting towards you as to whether you should kiss her goodnight. she may be just as nervous as you, so calm down i'm sure it will go well if it's supposed to. good luck!!!
The 'gift' idea sounds nice but then she'll have to carry it around with her the rest of the night. If you're just going out to dinner, then to her apt, then it wouldn't be that much of a hassle. Think small. A small box of fancy chocolates. Ooh, a flower you could pin on her blouse. Oops, then that depends on the weather. If you're in Chicago, bring her a pair of mittens. LOL Whatever you bring, keep it simple.
If you communicate with her before the date, ask if she has any pets or favorite stuffed animals? I remember seeing tiny stuffed animals that you can wear on your collar or jacket--- about an inch tall. precious.
Don't put so much pressure on yourself.
I thinks she understands it's a date-- if she doesn't understand your language, you probably don't need her in your life.
If the date ends on a good note, give her a peck. If it's really good, give her a kiss. You have to act on your feelings at the moment. If it feels uncomfortable, don't kiss her. You know how you feel if the date is not going well and the guy tries to kiss you.....
Have a good time. Be yourself, unless you are a psycho. Sorry, couldn't resist. Communicate. Be honest. Treat her the way you want to be treated.
And...... if you decide to get intimate, be careful. Remember you have been with guys who could possibly be carrying an std.
Just act like you! Im not sure about the gift, I guess it depends what your planning on doing for your date but you don't want to be to over the top too quick.
Just go with the flow and see how the date plans out. Relax and talk about things that interest you and see how much you have in common. Read her body language and eye contact etc im sure you will be able to tell if she is interested in you or not.
If the date goes well and you have been flirting etc then go for a goodnight kiss.
Good Luck!
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not a rose too cliched, a few sunflowers or another sort of flower, when you give them to her she will probably tell you whether or not she wants to see you ( by saying thanks/ giving you a hug or something along those lines) if she does it would be fine to kiss her goodnight, and be romantic by walking her home... good luck!!
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