In my mid 20's and have my first date ever Friday. Need some advice?

I've never had the courage or opportunity to find a girl that I like who likes me back before. I asked her to ';dinner or something'; on Friday and she said yes.





I'm in my mid 20's and she is exactly 20 and works at the same place I do. We've been talking for 20 minutes plus every day for the past few months.





I've never been on a data before or ever had any physical contact with a girl. Every time I went out with girls before it was like 2 girls and 4 guys so I've never been alone with a girl I've been interested in.





I have 2 main questions. (1) When we go to dinner should I pay for her meal or should we ask for separate checks? (2) How should I behave differently with her than I would if she were a cousin or ';just a friend?';





I'd really like to get my first kiss or just cuddle with her at a movie. Considering how shy I am, how can I get some kind of physical contact with her? I'd rather bee too careful though b/c she may talk to all our coworkers about me.In my mid 20's and have my first date ever Friday. Need some advice?
Well you sound like a nice guy, so here's what you do...open the doors for her. Pay for her meal, but if she insists on helping pay, let her leave the tip, or else buy dessert or coffee later. Do NoT tell her you've never had physical contact with a girl!! TReat her like a good friend, but be sure to compliment her (tell her she smells nice or something) Basically your chemistry with her will decide if you get a kiss or cuddle, but a good place to start is to rent a romantic or scary movie at your house! (After dinner of course ) Good luck with your date!In my mid 20's and have my first date ever Friday. Need some advice?
Take her out to a decent restaurant, treat her nicely, and DEFINITELY pay for her. It's just something a gentleman would do, she'll appreciate it. Don't try to get too physical, but if you're at a movie and you guys hit it off at dinner beforehand, (if it feels right) put your arm around her. That may or may not lead to something else, but at least you've tried.
If it's an actual, first date, you should pay. If it's not, then split (if you become a couple then split most of the time, pay some of the time :) ). As for behavior, treat her with respect and just act normal, my friend. If things go well, give her a good night kiss.. You can't just jump into these things, though, it all take time. You'll know when the moment is right. Good luck, amigo!
To anwer your first question, yes, pay for her dinner!!! and number two..be polite like open the door for her and put your napkin on your lap things like that. But mainly just be open and honest. and at the movie dont be shy to put your arm around her, it feels really nice knowing that someone is there with you and thats a way to show it. Good luck.
offer to pay for her , if she says no no, then let her pay hers. Hug her when you first see her, compliment her, then hold her hand walking into the movie. Keep holding hands through out the movie. When the movie was over , you will get a vibe that will tell u its ok to go ahead and kiss her
1) Yes, I'd pay for her dinner if it's at all possible.


2) Start with holding hands, that's always a fun first physical contact. And, just be yourself. She obviously likes you, you talk so much every day - she likes YOU so just be YOU!
Just be yourself and act like you normally do. It's your first date so you can find out by spending time with her whether she wants a kiss or not. Don't be pushy and remember to be a gentleman. Have a nice time.
Pay for her. Trust me, it's most likely what she's expecting.











Behave sweetly, not like having farting contests with the guys who are sitting behind you, be sweet. Be kind. use your manners but dont be too cheesy
you should pay for her. Don't try anything physical on the first date. Relax, and just act normal. she's pretty young so dont put your hope all in this.
Be yourself and treat her like a lady. Please pay for her dinner.
Pay the check , it makes you look cheap if you dont . for ur next ?,flirt (but not to much it makes u look like a pervert )
Pay for her if you can afford it. DO NOT behave differently on the date. Just be sure you talk about her more than you talk about yourself. That doesn't mean tell her she's beautiful 1,000 times. If you say it any more than twice, you've gone too far.





In the theater, you could do the yawn trick, but I don't care for that tactic. I'd just put my arm on the back of her chair. If she wants to cuddle, she'll lean toward you. Depending on the girl, most won't kiss on the first date. If they do, wait until you're at their doorstep.
I would pay the first time absolutely, just to make a good impression but also make a habit of it. If you go on more dates she may start wanting to pay or at least that's whats happened to me most of the time. Don't act like shes your cousin, just try to stay calm and I realize how that is entirely more difficult to say than to do but just try as hard as you can. As far as the first kiss deal I'm not really knowing enough to tell, if she seems to be having a good time and there is a REALLY, like abnormally perfect situation then yes i guess....but other than that no, just dont push anything and see where it goes by itself
Most important thing: Keep calm!





If you are the one that asked for the date, you should pay. (Although i pay either way, which it's never a bad idea to offer if the girl asks you out.)





You shouldn't really behave differently than you usually would, just talk like you would to a friend and see where things end up.





As for contact, that's a bit of an iffy subject, because it all depends on how receptive the girl is. As the night gets on you should figure out how comfortable she is with you, so use your best judgement here.





As for the last part, she will probably talk about you no matter what, unless she is shy herself.





I wish you the best of luck, enjoy the date!
I would definately pay for the meal. Don't try physical contact until after a couple of dates. That is unless she coaxes you for some. Other than that pay for the meal. Make sure everything is focusing on you and her. No business calls or anything. Just you and your date. Think of some things that may interest the both of you before going on this date. You will need some things to discuss. After your first date, then ask if she enjoyed herself and would like to go on another date. Do not discuss any type of long-term relationship at this time.
Yes, definitely pay for the dinner. Even if she offers, pay for it. Act like your friends, except...


-skip your gross stories


-don't talk about anything to do with girls or dating


-feel free to say flirtatious things like how nice she looks or whatever


At the movies, hold her hand if it seems like things are going well. Kiss her when you drop her off unless she seems like she's uncomfortable or trying to get away quickly. Just read her body language. If she lingers or pauses at the end of the, it probably means she waiting for you to kiss her.


Try not to overthink it, you may be a LITTLE more clueless than the average twentysomething on a date, but in reality we're all somewhat nervous and unsure of ourselves on dates. So don't sweat it, just try to have fun.
Well when paying for the tab most people understand that whoever asked the date should pay, so in this case you would pay. Don't think of her as a cousin or co-worker, think of her as a good friend and just be yourself. If you act different around a girl you are ruining the chance for her to get to know you. As your first date you should learn more about eachother and take things slow. Most girls like to start off easy. found out what she likes but don't over do it. Also location is crutial. Do NOT go to the most fancy resturant you know on the first date, yet also avoid fast food resurants or something like that. Go somewhere not as expensive and enjoyable, for example coney island. Well the best of luck on your date :D
so, its your first date..


i think it would be better if you'd pay for the meal.. just for now.. insist if you can.. because there are girls who would want to split the amount and share..





ask her where she wants to go, and put that in consideration.. treat her the way you think she deserves to be treated.. with care and respect..





it would also help if you tell her like.. ';umm.. to be honest with you.. this is the first time i went out with a girl.. so, i do need a little help in deciding where to go.. and.. please understand..';





i might sound sheepish.. but it might help too! the girl might feel flattered with the thought that she's the first girl that you've invited out.. she might mbe more than willing to help out.. and with that, i believe you'd feel more comfortable with each other and be able to enjoy everything that you do..





AND don't forget to say thank you.. and that you enjoyed your time together..





goodluck!


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okay when you too meet first for the date......if you pick her up get out of the car and hug her to say hello trust me if you don't she'll think oh this isn't going any where anytime soon do this if you meet some where as well trust me don't be shy it's totally normal to be nervous your first time.... you should totally pay for her dinner it will give her that sense that you can take care of her and her needs at the movies if she puts her hand on the hand rest next to you kind of like accidently bumb her hand once in a while the eventually kind of just nudge it until you too are holding hands i hope this helps and it goes well from that point