Sunday, December 20, 2009

I need advice and help on this ';date';?!?

So my crush, not my boyfriend asked me to go with him skiing on Saturday. He knows I like him, and we've confirmed we like eachother.


The issue is, i'm horrible with one on one dates. I get nervous and clumsy. What could i do to make this day go smoothly?


Please help!I need advice and help on this ';date';?!?
Guys like it if the girl needs help learning how to do something and so that they can hold on to them while teaching them. Spend some time on the bunny hill where he can hold on to you and teach you. If you can ski really good, but he can't, then act like you ski worse than him. Give him the chance to help you and make himself feel like the stronger skier. Guys like to feel that they are in control. So play the part of the weaker skier. If you can both ski well, then spend the whole day on the bigger hills and hold onto his arms while riding the chair lift. Just let go before you reach the top ^_^. A nice conversation over a hot cup of cocoa is nice too. Drink from his cup after he does and that will really make him happy. Sharing your food is always a good thing. He should pay for everything, but bring enough money just in case he's not the gentlemanly type. Don't act like you expect him to pay for things, but let him if he offers to then thank him. If you get nervous or clumsy, it's okay. It will make him feel better about himself. He's more worried that he'll be too nervous or clumsy, trust me. You have the easier role. Just have fun!I need advice and help on this ';date';?!?
Idk. But i would say. Just be ur self and have an open honest communication and talk about ur feelings or anything that u are comfortable with. Ask him what does he like to eat, what are his favorite hobbies. U know all the goodie good thing.. If u going skiing with him, then talk about that too. Just be ur self. Dont get nervious it happens to all of us.. But like i said. Just be urself and maybe he will see u are kinda like getting to him.. So again i said be urself okay. But have a great time at the ski resort. I wish i can go to one. But in fla, we dont have that. Besides i live in the country side all i see is woods..LOL. U take care
i know when girls get nervous they change the subject ..... alot so make sure to stay on one topic. if somethign funny happends like maybe he fell of while skiing make a joke about it and tease him a bit and make an inside joke about it. not to harsh though .. dont be mean. i haop you guys have fun





goodluckkk
EDIT: oh, i'm sorry then, i read that wrong. just relax, he likes you and you like him, so things will likely go just fine. just be your normal, charming self. if something should happen to go wrong, just laugh it off. guys like a girl who's easygoing and who can go with the flow.
tell ur crush ur not good at one on one dates. he can help u and u should ask parents and me.. well i think u will do great. don't worry. and if it is ur first time don't worry. i think u will do great dont worry. ;)
Just go to have fun and don't worry about the outcome. You already know he likes you so that takes some of the pressure off. If you get clumsy just laugh it off. No big deal.
I think that you should just don't think of getting nervous just act normal like when you are with your friends not the same but just think like he is a friend maybe you wont get nervous
Double date :) get a mate to go with yu wif her bf ...or ure guy mate wif his gf which ever way suits yu best :) but ask ure crush if he mynds if you guys can double date :) good luck xoxo
Let me get the story straight, you have crush on another guy but yet you have boyfriend? Is this correct?
Be yourself! so what if you are clumsy! If he really like you he wont notice
what scum, ';my crush, not my boyfriend';

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