Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Any advice for my first boyfriend, first date, and possibly first kiss?

alright so my boyfriend and i have only been dating a week but i really really like him and we're going on a group date saturday night we're going to the movies. he told his friend who told me that he really wants to kiss me. i want to kiss him too ! but, this sounds stupid, but idk what to do. hes had some experience with girls and kissing and stuff, but hes my first boyfriend. when we first hugged, i messed it up, ya ik how do u mess up a hug? well idk but i did... so how the heck am i gonna do well on my first kiss ! i dont wanna embarrass myself ! so DETAILED advice on how to kiss. not make out or anything. just a kiss. please !





and also, at first, he was really super sweet and he texted me allll the time and stuff but now, its only been a week, but now it seems at times like he doesnt care as much anymore ! how do i make sure he knows i love him and keep him from not liking me anymore? thanks so much!


xoxo





p.s. im in 8th grade 14 years old. thanksAny advice for my first boyfriend, first date, and possibly first kiss?
use one of your girlfriends to practice and be a paris hilton about it.Any advice for my first boyfriend, first date, and possibly first kiss?
Aww! Well don't worry about the love stuff, remember, it's only been a week. If you guys do end up kissing, don't worry about it. It comes naturally. Because of your age, just keep your mouth SHUT the whole time lol. But don't think because you guys don't kiss means that you are a ';bad girlfriend'; and you break up. It only means he's an ***, so don't put yourself out so much.


Good luck!!! =D
Be yourself. Don't go overboard with your looks and stuff - remember, he liked you for who you are in the first place. Try not to be nervous either.





As for the kiss, if it's going to happen, just let it. No one can really advise you how to kiss - it just, well, happens! You'll be fine. Of course, make sure your breath is good, but I am sure you know that, lol.





Good luck!
kissing is natural..you just know what to do and if he likes you then he wont mind if you mess up a bit





the only way to get better is to practice.





ps are you sure you should be telling him you love him after a week? i think thats a bit soon to know how you really feel...you should trust him, you dont need to make him stop likeing you,, just talk to him about it.





good luck x
I know what you mean it is hard to coordinate all the body parts when first hugging and kissing


you need to grab his face in your hands and point him at your face tell him I really want to kiss you and do not know how to kiss then tilt your face and pucker up
big piece of advice is NEVER say you love someone a week into a relationship. When you really do truely love someone and they break you... they break you hard no matter how long youve been together. Its a completely different kind of pain that i would never wish on anyone.
oh good lord, CALM DOWN.


you're only 14 years old.


you don't love him after a week, you're a teenager!!!


just pucker your lips and aim for his lips.



Ok, if this is your first kiss it's alright to be nervous.


I know this sounds silly but practice on a doll. LOL


Remember don't do it if your not ready.


Hope all goes well!


mesteph1996
you cant love him after a week. dont scare him off. but as for the kissing thing, it comes naturally
First off. Let him make the first move for the kiss but let him know you want it by giving him time to or leaning in as if you were to make the first move but let him finish it. It makes it easier so you won't be embarrassed.





Guys are like rubber bands by nature.





Guys will be really close to you for a period of time and then pull away for a while to find their independence again but once they get to one point in time. As far as the rubber band stretches they will miss you again and come back and be as loving as they were before. You'll have to be patient and try not to be really immature and think they don't love you. Just give them their male space that they are all hardwired for and they will come back no worries. And he knows you love him.
This is so adorable, I must say... I have a daughter, and I think her first kiss was when she was in the 7th grade. First off, don't put too much pressure on yourself. He's in the same boat you are, and no matter how many girls he's kissed, if he hasn't kissed you yet it's because he's nervous too. When it's the right time, and you will both know it, look into his eyes, start by getting closer and closer kinda slowly, and at the last moment tilt your head slightly to your right, and close your eyes and let it happen. It will be just fine. Stop worrying about love though, your still a kid, and well you'll have plenty of time for that. Right now, and in highschool and college it's like practice for when you're ready to settle down. Don't rush anything, have a sweet life, and good luck on the first kiss.
for the first kiss, just keep your eyes open UNTIL you touch his lips this way you know what to doat the right time, like puker up and whitch way to turn your head.





for te whole likeing thing, just tell him in person. hug him and while your holding him tell him that you love him so much and hug him again!!


it works, trust me =]


im in 8th grade and im 13 i had my first kiss in 6th, but what i told you works. trust me on this!

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