Need advice, major screw up on a date.?

Keeping things very short. We dated exclusively for around 3-4 weeks, talked on the phone every night, met up very often etc etc etc etc.





Thursday night: held her hand, wanted to kiss her but i chickened out. She looked pissed at the end of the night.





Friday night: friend bday party, host giving out neon bracelets. green meant single, red meant in a relationship. I picked green because the girl hasn't decided yet on me, so i did not want to give her any pressure.





Later, after we all went home: she wants to see me as only a friend and was also pissed about the bracelet.





Ok, here's the question. What the f*ck????????Need advice, major screw up on a date.?
Lol You just need a little damage control my friend. Ask her out again! Shes obviously into you and wants more than just a friendship. Chickening out on the whole kiss thing was bad but not the worst. The bracelet thing shouldnt be taken to heart because ';How were you supposed to know'; So all you gotta do now is change the way you send her signals. You can't undo whats already been done but you can start with a clean slate. Tell her you want to go out again and this time...KISS HER! Keep seeing her, let her know that you want more than a friendship but you were confused about what she wanted. Let some time pass and then talk to her about all the relationship stuff. Always go with your gut! If she was mad enough about the bracelet and pissed about the kiss, then shes definitely into you. Whats irritating her is that she thinks you dont have any confidence....So go show her that you do, prove her wrong. Hope you get it all worked out homie = )Need advice, major screw up on a date.?
Since its been a couple of weeks since the whole thing went down. I think you could probably bring it up the next time you guys talk. Two weeks is enough for her to get over what happened. Its really not that bad when you think about it. Mention it to her next time you two talk. Should be good 2 go.

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change pace and re-establish your power in the relationship. tell her ';f*ck the games!! get yourself over here now'; then you can either snog her or be a woman and tell her how you really feel...


aim for the more masculine approach is my advice!.
You need to take risks sometimes. You should've kissed her. You should've picked a red bracelet.





Sorry, friend. You're screwed.
you need to make your move NOW.


or else, she'll think youre playing games and will


stop liking you.
Sit down and write her a note.


tell her your heart.


be honest with her.

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