Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Need advice about this guy i used to date...?

i was dating this guy for about 5 months, and im 19 and was a virgin when we got together. i slept with him about 3 weeks ago. when we first got together i knew that he had some issues with his family and with himself that he needed to work through but we both still pursued each other. i know he has been through alot with his family and he is young and it doesnt seem fair that he should have so much pressure to care for others. well last weekend he told me that he didnt have time for a gf or even time for himself. so he broke things off with me. he said maybe later when its a better time, that then we maybe able to try again. i told him that if it didnt happen now then it wouldnt happen later. now i can hardly look at him or talk to him. i hate doing that because i dont want to be grouped with those people in his life who just abandoned and dropped him because they didnt get what they wanted from him. its just hard for me to even be around him because i feel that if he could have shared a special experience with me and then just walk away that i probably didnt matter much to him anyways. and now it seems like im doing stupid stuff just to forget about him...like having sex with a guy at work. we work together too so i have to see him just about everyday.Need advice about this guy i used to date...?
as per my thinking i feel you should stop getting frustrated n having sex with any one else...


sorry dear...i myself confused....


may god bless

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