Should i date him and risk everything? PLEASE! i could really use some advice...?

I have found out the truth of my friend. He is not gay, and we really like eachother. The only problem is that we are not sure if we should risk our friendship. All my friends are anticipating our get together, all but one. I have a good friend who is one of his bestfriends and she claims that she in love with him. But she also said that about another guy and dumped him a month later. I don't truely believe that she loves him, but what if I am wrong. My friend says that I am the only one that he wants and he wants to take me to prom and he wants me to join him on tour with his band this summer. He said ';we could be togher hella [very] long'; and I believe him and want to stay together as long as possible. We have made it clear that we love eachother as friends and that we have crushes on eachother, but we are not in love with eachother, yet. I'm pretty sure that this cold be a great relationship, but I'm not sure if I could risk it.





p.s. he is supposedly my zodiac matchShould i date him and risk everything? PLEASE! i could really use some advice...?
GO FOR IT!! That's all I have to say!!Should i date him and risk everything? PLEASE! i could really use some advice...?
go with him,tell your friend that you like him to
Go for it girl, and good luck
Don't do it.


A frienship is better than anything else, give it some time and see what happen.
Definately risk it. I think it's really great when people date and also are friends. That's the way it should be. I like how you said you have made it clear that you love each other as friends and have crushes on each other, but are not in love with each other yet. This is a sign you both have good communication and know exactly where you both stand with one another. Go for it! Life is too short not to.





Also, don't pay any heed to that other girl; she's just jealous and trying to upset you. Just ignore her.
If you are over 18 go for it. If not, wait a while.
you shouldn't b/c he might break up w/ you and your friendship will never retern to how it used to be so i say you should not let your friend who supposedly loves him take him if she will just hurt him! whats the use?
You wont know unless you try





He may lose his friend if you do





You may lose this guy as a friend if it doesn't work out
Well go for it!!! If you like each other and you have crushs on each other whats the problem?? Its good that you guys started out as friends its okay for you guys to date each other. The best bf/gf relationships is when you start as friends when your friends you get to know each other. If you decide not to date him you could be seriously missing out. Its okay if you two arent in love with each other that will happen as time goes on. Forget his bestfriend he wants you not her also she probably doesnt want you to have him anyways. Go to prom together go have a good time!!! Date!!! It could be a really wonderful relationship!! Dont let anything stop you!!!
sure - go for broke !
Don't worry about the zodiac match. zodiac means nothing..believe me..I have looked at signs that are supposed to be compatible with mine and get different results all of the time. It's your personalities that are compatible..it's your interests and expectations that are compatible.





At any rate. It sounds to me like this guy's interest is in you. I would just go for it. Dont worry about the other girl. If the other girl quits being your friend over this then she was never a true friend to begin with.
Make sure that you both agree that no matter what happens you'll be friends, and if you think you can stick to that, go for it.
yeah give it a chance!
totally go for it... if you like each other.. then forget the other girl. chances are she is just jealous he doesn't like her.
Don't base shi-t off horoscopes or she said/he said. This is your life, you know? If you feel like you click with this guy, go for it. There's no reason you should have to anticipate your feelings just because someone calls 'dibs' on another person, or whatever shi-t people think of. People are not to claim.. so, if you want him, go for him.
Hey since you're such good friends and have talked about it then go for it. Forget about the other chick...the relationship is between you and him. Do you trust him? Does he treat you with respect? Is he truly a friend? If you're saying yes to all of that, then take the chance. Just because romance may not work out, it doesn't automatically mean that the friendship will die. Relationships evolve with time...
You should totally go out! What if he's your mister right and missing you chance in a life time! You never know where love takes you.
It鈥檚, only, up to the two of you to decide whether or not to go forward, however, you have the best possible foundation for a relationship鈥?a good friendship, communication and you鈥檝e known each other for a while.


Whatever you decide you have a great friend in each other.
Take him aside to a place where not many people go, and just tell him... you could put a note saying: meet me (wherever you want) or CALL ME! (The meeting is better because then, it means more.) Tell him, and see his reactions. GOOD LUCK!
every girl wants to boff a band member....hold out for a better catch...or boff em, and tell him your not going on the road with him
I say you go for it, you have nothing to lose as long as you and him realize that if it doesn't work out you guys can still remain friends. There is nothing stronger than friendship. Have fun and hopefully everything works for you!
I say just do what makes you happy. You are obviously into this guy and you already know you have a lot in common from spending time together. Just be sure to take it slow. If it was meant to be you will ';fall in love'; over time. Love goes through lots of phases. Don't worry about his 'friend', she is likely just jealous about all the time you guys spend together. Maybe tell him to make sure he reassures her that they will still be friends but he has chosen you so everyone is on the same page. Have a blast on tour!
GO FOR IT, AND NO MATTER WHAT IN THE END YOU WILL STILL HAVE A GREAT FRIEND...I BELIEVE YOU CAN STILL BE FRIENDS EVEN IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP DOESN'T WORK...SO GIVE IT AN HONEST EFFORT...GOOD LUCK!
sounds risky to me.If he is like one of your best friends then don't get involved. At least not yet. Wait to see if he becomes rich and famous or not.
sounds for real, if it feels right, go for it. the chance won't last forever. your friend will get over it.
go for it u guys sound perfect together
Be friend and go out to dates with him and see how it goes from there, you wont wreak a friendship if you date him he likes you so thats enough proof, GO GIRL!!!!
Just ask him - if he says yes then its happy days :-) if he says no then it's not mean't to be :-( you deserve better anyway ;-)
give yourself a chance and go for it!
Girl!!! You need to take this opprotunity!!! Don't worry about the other friend!! Just be aware that your friendship will not be the same if you break up.
IT IS BETTER TO HAVE FOUND GREAT LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP ALL AT THE SAME TIME...GO FOR IT GIRL!HAVE HAVE A BLAST.