What are the benefits of dating an older guy? 10 points for the best advice .Thank you?

I am 22. I am very goal-oriented, hard working, and ambitious.





I am tired of young and immature men my age. I think men in his 27-30 will give me a strong foundation that I need.





What do you think? What is the benefit of dating guys in his 27-30. Thank youWhat are the benefits of dating an older guy? 10 points for the best advice .Thank you?
Dating or marrying an older man 10+ is different for everyone. For example my husband and my age difference is 17 years. We love each other dearly, but sometimes we can clash too. Specially when he feels ';too old'; for me.





I of course disagree that he is too old for me especially because we share so many things. We have so much in common and believe it or not; I am the woman who understands him better than anyone else, even though the other women in his life where in his same age range.





It's true a man can mature with age. For example, he knows of the dangers a woman can face in the world and he is more alert when it comes to it. He worries for my safety without being possessive like young men tend to be. He is very nurturing and responsible.





Older men also have a tendency to ';understand'; certain things females go through (PMS, depression, insecurity) and they will always be a good shoulder to lean on.





But like I said, it depends how you feel. Give it a try and think about what you want to do. You might be ready for a long term relationship, thus that's the last thing in a young man's life especially if they are just starting college. So you might be luckier with ';an older'; guy.What are the benefits of dating an older guy? 10 points for the best advice .Thank you?
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Older guys will give you a stronger foundation and will probably understand you better. Issues that an older guy is going through will probably be easier to understand for you then someone his age because she's going through her own midlife thing. You aren't and you may be able to ease it. Report Abuse

First of all you have to find a guy in that age group. That's about the time guys are getting married or are already. If you could find a guy fresh out of graduate school, then you might be on to something. Be sure you really want that though. More mature to you could turn to borring quickly. People that are too goal orientated tend to overlook the fun in life and are more concerned with the advancement in themselves. Your goal-oriented that would be a huge plus to another guy that is the same, you share similar goals it really helps keep a relationship strong. Are you looking for a push?





Besides, we pick you. You don't really think you have a choice of men do you :)
5 years or so is not older. 10 or 15 maybe.
thats not a big age difference, but a big maturity difference. I say go for it.
i'm 23 my husband is 29 i think the benefits are one he is more established in his career so it gave me some room to do some self discovery, the biggest bonus though would be that he's been there you know. You are always still growing and changing and he knows what I'm going through all the time
It's NOT the age, it's the maturity of the man. Maybe you are just dating boys.... not men.


Usually, a two year age difference is about right, because men are about two years less mature than women - lol, it's true, scientifically, though!


Maybe it's where you are going to meet guys, or maybe you are on the 'hunt', instead of waiting for the right man to find you!


Good luck.


btw, eight years or more is a HUGE difference, too much I think.
Yes older men are more mature plus they are more in control of themselves in the sack lol good luck sweetie sounds like you know what you want.
Well 1st of all you'll never have to go ';dutch';, lol No seriously, A older man can definitely show you the better things that life has to offer, the arts, restaurants, traveling and intimacy. The maturity level when it comes to relationships is definitely a plus for you. You'll be treated like a Woman in public in private and especially in the bedroom. Growing up I dated Woman older than me all the time, they showed me the ways to a woman's heart mentally and physically. So by all means give us ';older'; guys a chance %26amp; you won't be sorry :) Good luck!
Dating older guys has it benefit and drawback. Older guys will have experienced a lots of stuff and he will know what your needs are. He can treat you better. And older guy will be more matured to your liking. He can be more goal oriented and ambitious than his younger peer.
That depends on if your dating a MAN, or a boy.





1) usually a man at this age is looking for stability, and a long term relationship, but if your looking to party still he will not be interested.


2) there more stable financially, and enotionally, except they also expect more of your attention. after all there looking long term now, and if your still flighty. there moving on.


3) usually men in this age group have relationships, if they don;t you REALLY need to be asking WHY????? it's cool to date them, but are they just older boy's or men still seeking a soul mate.


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Suggest you write down the qualities in a man your looking for, and post it on the fridge, or in your bedroom near a mirror. be specific, and even include a visual if you have a certain body type, financial component, or lifestyle.





then visualize what kind of woman would atract this man,





GL, and God Bless
I dated an older man several years ago and it was one of the best things I had ever done. He knew how to be a gentleman and he knew how to treat a woman.
I do not think it is the age that makes the difference so much as the timing. What you want is to find someone who is in the same place that you are in currenlty in your life. Someone fun, someone mature, ready to settle with the right person, good job or career oriented and working towards that. Now most women mature a bit faster than men so finding a man that is in the same place as you usually tends to be older but not too much older because you do not want someone who is past where you are in life and looking for something different.
He is all gray and wrinkly...everywhere....well if you like that sort of thing.
I am 24 and the oldest guy I dated was 29. I think older is better SOMETIMES because the older guy tends to have settled down a little, and is not all wild and crazy. Not only that, they should have their goals in check by then and also they are more mature. Als, they will be more emotionally mature by then. But this all depends on the guy. You can find a guy the same age as you and they will have everything good to go.
My guy is 16 years older than me, and we have a great relationship! An older guy is not immature like younger guys, and they are more generous and can have better conversations. Plus they are more likely to be able to provide you with a comfortable home.
Older guys seem to be more mature, ready to settle down, and better with finances (hopefully, even though I know some 30-year-olds who could take a high-school finance course!)
Although that sounds like a big difference it really isn't. In 20 years you're 42 and he's 47. At your age now yes he should be more mature. No gaurantees though.
Age doesn't matter its how you connect to each other because im 34 and my wife is 24 will be 25 next month and we get along great. We have alot in common to so if meet some one older dont let any one tell you other wise its your decision.
I guess I never considered 27-30 an older guy even when I was younger but I would say that the older they get the less fits they throw and the more willing to hear someone else's opinions.





(I am married to a younger guy, he is 29 and I am 40, It has its ups and downs).
';give me a strong foundation that I need'; Huh?


I would be concerned that an older guy might be some sort of ';father figure'; for you. You might be, in effect, putting yourself in a ';one down'; position, ';inferior'; to the ';older, wiser'; male. Sounds like a recipe for a bad relationship that you might eventually come to resent. Stick with guys closer to your own age, become self-confident as you achieve your own goals, and look for a relationship as an equal with a male. They will eventually grow up and be worthy of you!
Yeah not a bad idea just don't be Anna Nicole Smith. Don't think of a relationship right now. You have gone through too much. Just take it one day at a time.
age is only a number. you can try a 28 year old but keep in mind that he may not be as mature as a 24 year old. I think limiting guys to ages is a bad idea. I dated a 38 year old when I was 29 and he acted like he was a senior in high school...seriously. don't rule out any age, just date someone who is more mature.
LOL!





You're the one who blocks her questions and was stalking that professor at the college you went to ';thinking'; he had a thing for you until he wrote to you telling you to stop harassing him or he would call the police...





Your a real piece of work, weirdo.