Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Girl advice? Does she see it as a date?

um.. been talking to this girl on match. winked at her, she winked back, started emailing on june 4th. two emails ago i said i have some baseball tickets if she wanted to go with my friends and i. and i said maybe meet up first another day before the game. she replied back, with, ';baseball! good choice. we should meet up first before for sure. what day is the game?';


obviously she is interested in meeting me. do you think it's in a friendly way, date way, and/or a you've-got-potential-for-datin... kind of way?


thanks!





Also, since she said ';we should meet a day before the game for sure,'; do you think that means she wants some one-on-one time just me and her?





What I wrote back: ';the game is july 17th, the tuesday. so what do you wanna do, where do you wanna meet?';





She replied back tonight w/: ';i'm actually going to the game w/ my sister on the 18th, but i wouldn't mind at all going on the 17th too. i'm pretty much free this whole weekend, and next week after 7:30.';Girl advice? Does she see it as a date?
wow you confused me a little. But anyways, I'm doing the whole match.com thing right now too. I have also gone one a couple of dates as well. Not matter what she is thinking your always just a little above '; just freinds'; anyways because your whole reason of contacting the guy is dating potential. Right now im talking to two guys on there cause right now i don't hav a boyfreind. That is not wrong, but the guys i went on dates with i considered it a date, but a friendly date, but at the same time '; the first date';








I think alone time with her would be best, beacuse you want to get to know her. One date i went on i was with the guy and his friends and i dind't like it , because I didn't have a chance to know him, and his friens were all evaluating me. I felt alone and chated, i wish at least i had a friend of mine with me.





Don't try to do the common thing though do something you both enjoy, but of course something in public so that way both you don't fell uncomfortable. You both start out as just friends though, both of you should know AFTER the first date though wheither or not you would want to date that person or not. Cause you will have more of a feel of how your reeeal personalities are................. Ayways i hope i answered your question.Girl advice? Does she see it as a date?
she is definately interested in getting to know you alittle more. too soon to tell if she wants to date you. that's what the meeting up one on one is for. a woman knows on the first date if you are someone she wants to continue talking to. believe me we don't need too much time to figure that one out. lol....first 5min of your conversation with her face to face will tell you if she likes u likes u...good luck! and pls be urself! not someone ur not! we pick up on those things. and it's a total turnoff!!!
She wants to meet you first so she can make sure you're not a psycho (you're not, are you?) before spending all day with you at a baseball game. Try not to read too much into this at the moment. Actually meet the girl first, preferably for something non-threatening, non-committal like coffee and cake and see how you get on. If you can still stand the sight of her (and she you) after your first meeting, you can make further plans.
haha...pls la..some girls like more friendly like me..even for friends whether guys or girls..I'm very open to meeting them one-to-one if we feel we click..





Can see you are thinking way too much..you should make it a group date intitally and let things work naturally..





Anyway i feel its a you've-gt-potential-for-dating bec she agrees to go out with you..U havent meet her yet, so see how things go..good luck!
Ask her out for next week after 7:30, and then take her to the game and once before the game. Right now you have potential and from the looks of it a looooot.
Umm yea she considers this a date and she's trying to make into more of onw GO WITH IT don't seem desperate but dont go all aloof on her
well, it seems obvious that she wants to meet you before u guys go to the game. probably b/c she's never met u b4 in person. you should definetely meet up with her in order for u guys to get to know each other better. and if you're planning to go to the game with just her and not in a group or anything, u should tell her ahead of time, just to make sure that u guys are on the same page. for now, i think it's in a friendly way, but u can always change that after a couple dates if u find that she's someone who u want to get involved with.

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